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Friday, July 14th 2023

My Specific Screening Process - Are We A Match?

Dear valued readers,

I sincerely hope this blog post finds you in good health and high spirits. As the summer sun shines bright, many of you may have embarked on adventures to exotic locales with warmer climates than those found here in England.

As you may have noticed, it has been well over a month since I last wrote a blog post, and for that, I apologise. However, I am elated to inform you that I will be returning soon, with not one, not two, but three exciting days of availability:

Friday the 14th of July (I can only accept 1 engagement)
Saturday the 15th of July (Daytime Only)
and Sunday the 16th of July (early morning only)

Before we delve further into the meat of today's post, I would like to express my heartfelt gratitude to every beautiful, sensual being who graced me with their presence during my recent visit on the 9th, 10th, and 11th of July. Your company left me enveloped in a sense of pure bliss and satisfaction, and for that, I am truly grateful.

Now, on to the subject at hand. Perhaps, like many of you, you may be wondering why I take the time to ask potential matches if we are a good fit.

Why don't I simply display my mobile number and make meeting up as easy as pie?

I understand that this may seem frustrating to some of my readers, so let me provide some context.

The reason I ask these questions is to ensure that our meetups are enjoyable and mutually beneficial. By gaining insight into your interests, passions, and values, I can tailor our time together to suit your unique personality. In doing so, both parties can relax, let their guards down, and enjoy an authentic, sublime sensual experience.

Quality is my top priority. As one of the most controversial profiles on this platform, I have built my reputation by carefully choosing those individuals with whom I spend my time. My standards are rooted in a philosophy that prioritises mutual respect, communication, and safety above all else.

Affordability may draw some people to my page, but that does not mean my requirements for clients are cheap.

The other day, one of my dearest clients asked me to put this in my profile/next blog post as it best describes me (apparently):

"Whether you are seeking a brief escape from the mundane, or a long-term exploration into the depths of your sensual desires, I offer a level of intimacy and connection that few others in this industry can match."

All I can say is.... My passion for providing a safe and welcoming space for individuals to explore their sensual desires is unmatched in this industry. I expect kindness, respect, and sensuality from anyone with whom I choose to engage.

Therefore, if you are new to my profile, please refer to my FAQ #5 for more information about my specific screening process (6 specific beautiful questions).

I want to emphasize that I am not interested in attracting individuals based on their socioeconomic status (Chief Executives, Senior Officials, Marketing, Sales and Advertising Directors from Contino, Citadel etc.) or any other superficial factors.

Instead, I am looking for genuine people who value sensuality and authenticity, and who are down to earth and respectful.

I am devoted to quality, and my discerning eye is reflected in the caliber of individuals I choose to spend my time with.

I believe that exploration is an essential part of life, and I encourage anyone reading this to approach new experiences with an open mind and a spirit of adventure.

A truly exceptional sensual experience requires more than just physical chemistry - it demands a deep and very tactile connection between two/three individuals who are committed to exploring their passions and desires together.

I hope you have enjoyed learning more about me and my approach to Adultwork.

PS I will not be available in the next 2 weeks, sadly. If we don't get the chance to meet this visit, there will be plenty of opportunities in the mere future!

Keep exploring, and I look forward to sharing more with you in my next blog post.

But in the meantime, stay beautiful, kind, sweet, and passionate. Indulge in some mind-blowing sensual encounters with your lovers!

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....If this is the first time you found my profile please take the time to Introduce yourself when sending me your first message.

I GUARANTEE YOU that my method of asking these questions is to be respectful towards you. This is for me to evaluate if we are a MATCH.

a) Your chronological age (not your physiological or functional age)
or you can just mention your age group (Ex: late 20s, early 40s, mid 50s etc.)
b) Ethnicity/background (Ex: Half Jamaican/Half Japanese, White/Norweigian, White/Irish etc.)
c) Do you smoke cigarettes?
d) Any known disabilities (physical/developmental/behavioural/sensory impaired) that I should be aware of?
e) What type of encounter do you personally enjoy? Please be honest :)
(PSE, spanking a girl, humilitation, plain GFE, slow and very sensual GFE etc.)
f) Do you mind if the lady would choose an outfit that she would like to wear during the meet or you like to request an outfit as it is "essential" for you?
Please be truthful :)

No Feedback = No Meeting : Unless you transfer a non-refundable 50% deposit via REVOLUT App prior to our meeting. This app is very secure and discreet so I will NEVER know your full name. I'm happy to send you my referral link (via SMS/WhatsApp/Telegram) if you don't have an account yet.

Thank you for respecting my preference and for valuing my time!

I hope that our schedule will match either, 14th, 15th or 16 of July!

Saturday, May 27th 2023

#028 Incalls 28th-29th May 2023

Dear readers,

I hope you're all soaking up all the wonderful sunshine that's beaming down on us.

Another last-minute blog post to let you know that I am visiting the City of London, tomorrow-28th(Sunday) and 29th (Monday) May.

You will see my approximate availability on each date, under the tab “Read This First”.

My last blog post was over a month ago (Saturday-22nd April), that's because it's been impossible for me to find time to write with my very spontaneous & hectic schedule.

I just wanted to highlight my first ever FM couple sensual encounter in my recent visit (14th/15th/16th May) - I never thought I would be enjoying threesomes again! lol

Upon reflection, I wanted to share with you all my experiences with threesomes. Many moons ago, I was involved in a few encounters and I must admit, at the time, I didn't enjoy them as much as I thought I would. Looking back, I realised that I didn't fully understand my own preferences and boundaries. I now know that for me, making love with a woman, exploring every inch of her soft and curvy body, and kissing her deeply is what truly gets me going.

However, a recent experience with a couple(FM) in the City showed me that threesomes can be done in a respectful and passionate manner. The couple I saw was incredibly genuine, kind, and sensual. What really turned me on was how the husband's main priority was for his wife to be the center of attention. He was an absolute gentleman and only joined in when his wife gave him the green light to do so.

Before our encounter, I made sure to establish boundaries and encourage the couple to speak up if there was anything they weren't comfortable with. After all, the last thing I want is for them to have an argument after such an intimate experience.

Meeting my first FM couple on Adultwork was an exciting experience for me. I could tell right away that they had a wonderful energy that put me at ease. Despite numerous queries in the past, schedules never lined up in a way that allowed me to engage with an FM couple before this. But finally, the stars aligned and we were able to have an incredible time together.

Threesomes can be a thrilling and fulfilling sexual encounter, but only if everyone involved is comfortable and respectful of each other's boundaries. That's why being flexible and communicative is key when engaging in this kind of sexual activity. As for me, I don't have a preference as to who's in the middle, as long as everyone is having a good time.

As we explored each other's bodies, there was a sense of trust and comfort that allowed us to let go and fully indulge in the moment. The passion between the couple was palpable and it enhanced the experience for all of us.

Their fluidity and eagerness to explore new sensations made for an unforgettable encounter. From the softness of their touch to the intensity of their kisses, every moment felt like an adventure.

It's rare to find a couple that is so in sync with each other's desires and pleasure, and it was a privilege to have shared that with them. Being able to explore my own sexuality while also building a deeper connection with them was an experience that I will remember.

It was an eye-opening experience and made me realise that threesomes can be a beautiful and fulfilling experience when approached with communication, respect, and understanding of boundaries. So, my advice to anyone considering a threesome is to take the time to fully understand your own desires and boundaries, communicate with all parties involved, and prioritise respect and kindness towards everyone involved.

Overall, this was an incredibly special encounter that left me feeling fulfilled and grateful for the opportunity to have participated in such an intimate exchange.. Threesomes can be a unique and exciting experience, but it's important to keep communication and respect at the forefront of the encounter to ensure that everyone is comfortable and satisfied.

Just for you to verify that this encounter happened, you will see the field report that they wrote in the bottom right of my profile. I labelled the link as, "My First EVER FM Couple in AW"

After having the opportunity to engage in a truly pleasurable threesome with this beautiful couple through the platform provided by Adultwork, I am eagerly anticipating the possibility of experiencing similar encounters with other sensual partners in the mere future. The level of intimacy and ecstasy that was achieved during the previous encounter has left an indelible mark on my mind, and I am convinced that the fulfilment of such desires can only be found through connections made on this platform.

As I reflect on the experience, I cannot help but be filled with a sense of appreciation for the ease with which Adultwork facilitates such liaisons. I was able to connect with the couple who shared my desires for unconventional pleasures, and we were able to discuss our boundaries and preferences beforehand, making for a seamless and enjoyable experience. They were happy to transfer me the 50% deposit requirement which was greatly appreciated.

From the moment we met, there was a sense of mutual respect and trust, which created a comfortable and conducive environment for intimacy. I am confident that this level of professionalism and discretion can only be found through the careful vetting of members on Adultwork. Through this platform, I was able to connect with sensual and like-minded individuals who are eager to explore their sexuality and make their dreams a reality.

I had an absolute blast crafting this blog post and I sincerely hope that you found it to be an exhilarating read.

Remember, it's always important to explore new experiences with an open mind and an adventurous spirit. Until my next blog post, sensual beings!

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....If this is the first time you found my profile please take the time to Introduce yourself when sending me your first message.

I GUARANTEE YOU that my method of asking these questions is to be respectful towards you. This is for me to evaluate if we are a MATCH.

a. Your age
b. Ethnicity/background (Ex: Half Jamaican/Half Japanese)
c. Do you smoke cigarettes?
d. Any known disabilities that I should be aware of?
e. What type of encounter do you personally enjoy? Please be honest :)
(PSE, spanking a girl, humiliation, plain GFE, slow and very sensual GFE etc.)
f. Do you mind if the lady would choose an outfit that she would like to wear during the meet or you like to request an outfit as it is "essential" for you? Please be truthful :)

Saturday, April 22nd 2023

#027 Incalls 23rd-24th April 2023

Dear readers,

Hope each one of you had a very meaningful and productive week.

Another last-minute blog post to let you know that I am visiting the City of London, tomorrow-23rd (Sunday) and 24th (Monday) April.

You will see my approximate availability on each date, under the tab “Read This First”.

In my recent visit (9th/10th/11th April) I had a wonderful opportunity to spend time with several brand new sensual gentlemen and one of them asked me about Polyamory - you know, being romantically involved with more than one person . Turns out, he was curious because his wife is into her best friend and there's some talk of a "thruple" situation.

Now, this gent is cool with me sharing his story so hold onto your hats!

He said, "My wife said she loves me but she also loves her best friend. Apparently, her best friend talked to her that if I was okay we could be a thruple or something like that. I'm quite open to the whole thruple thing because her best friend is actually gorgeous. But we have a 3-year-old child ."

The problem is, he hasn't really had feelings for anyone outside of his marriage. Sure, he's browsed some escort sites but hasn't acted on anything, deep down, he really wants to experience kissing another woman.

The only thing holding him back is their 3-year-old child. He doesn't want to confuse the kid and thinks it's only fair if he's allowed to see other women too. However, his wife says it's either the BFF or no one else.

He added, "...When I found your profile, I had to see you because your blog posts are so genuine, natural, and funny and I can see that you are not like the other girls on here - 100%! I feel like I can talk to you about this because you don't know my full identity. Now you know why I had to book you for 4 hours because I want to talk to you first before we feel comfortable getting naked etc. Apologies, I didn't mention this in the email as I didn't want to put you off..."

He also mentioned that it has been messing with his mental health, productivity, and work performance.

He needed someone to talk to about it all - and that's where I come in.

As you can imagine, I was soooo turned on (my vagina was literally throbbing!) when he was talking to me.

My response (whilst controlling my inner feelings of wanting to kiss him already...)

"I'm very sorry to hear that you are experiencing this challenge at home. "IF" I have a 3-year-old kid, I will do whatever it takes to make sure that my child is the priority. He/She needs my attention more than ever. At this age, they need a lot of assistance with lots of things and if my partner is so obsessed with her feelings towards another person than taking care of our child then there is a serious problem there . I am not saying anything about your wife because I don't know the lady but I just think that you have a little human at home, that child needs your love, attention, and guidance more than anything."

I've mentioned it several times in my blog posts about my significant other (female) and how we talk openly about our experiences with other individuals (exclusively clients ).

Our relationship evolved gradually and for us to get this level of maturity, it took us solving various types of challenges to get to where we are today.

I told her that I have the desire of becoming pregnant and she said she doesn't want to have one. I respect her decision and would never impose the life that I want if she doesn't want it. But hey, it's important to respect each other's wishes, right?

For the time being, I'm not doing anything to get knocked up, but when I am ready, I will be happy to be a single parent. I wouldn't look for a bf (ewwww lol!) as I don't genuinely see men that way, unfortunately. Perhaps, I might find an astronaut or a career-dedicated scientist one day who does NOT want to raise a child but is willing to donate his sperm and help a woman like me create a life. The possibilities are endless these days. "

Anyway, I probably talked too much because I was so excited about this baby topic! lol

So, I suggested that he should consider asking his wife to see a couple's therapist. It's always a great idea to seek help from others when you're dealing with difficult situations. However, when there's a kid involved, it can get even harder. Honestly, I don't even know if I really want a baby yet - it's a tough decision, right?

Well, I'm sure you all have your own opinions about the whole issue.

....If you were wondering if we actually got naked and explored each other's bodies after our conversation, the answer is "Yes." He was one of the most sensual, tactile, and passionate lovers I had the opportunity to be naked with here in Adultwork!

Hope you enjoyed reading this and also provided you with some interesting ideas about thruple, polyamory etc.

PS I will not be available in the next 2 weeks, sadly. If we don't get the chance to meet this visit, there will be plenty of opportunities in the mere future!

Stay tuned for my next blog post. But in the meantime, stay beautiful, kind, sweet, and passionate. Indulge in some mind-blowing sensual encounters with your lovers!

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....If this is the first time you found my profile please take the time to Introduce yourself when sending me your first message.

I GUARANTEE YOU that my method of asking these questions is to be respectful towards you. This is for me to evaluate if we are a MATCH.

a. Your age
b. Ethnicity/background (Ex: Half Jamaican/Half Japanese)
c. Do you smoke cigarettes?
d. Any known disabilities that I should be aware of?
e. What type of encounter do you personally enjoy? Please be honest :)
(PSE, spanking a girl, humiliation, plain GFE, slow and very sensual GFE etc.)
f. Do you mind if the lady would choose an outfit that she would like to wear during the meet or you like to request an outfit as it is "essential" for you? Please be truthful :)

Friday, April 7th 2023

#026 Incalls 9th-10th April 2023

Dear readers,

Hope all is well and you are enjoying the sunshine that we are having this week.

I am attempting to write this blog post as fast as I can to notify all of you that have subscribed to my profile that I am visiting London in the next few days, 9th (Sunday) and 10th(Monday) April.

You can find the details in my profile, under the tab “Read This First”.

I had a great time in my recent visit (26th/27th/28th March) at Old Street/Moorgate/Liverpool Street, where I got an opportunity to meet some new incredible gentlemen who were kind, sweet, down to earth, so tactile and sensual (most importantly)!

During this visit, I had the pleasure of meeting one incredible individual who skilfully used his gentle tongue (with patience + determination) and skilfully stimulated my clitoris along with my outer labias to gift me one of the most earth-shattering orgasms of my life.

He was all over my legs and feet - literally kissing and touching every inch of me.

If we've met before, you know that I am VERY RESPONSIVE if you stroke my body lightly. He was definitely doing that in the very beginning and even after I exploded. Just like the previous lovers, I didn't provide any instructions/guidance, he just went down on me and were so spontaneous! I think he was very attentive to how my body was responding.

For me, reaching an orgasm (especially if I am NOT expecting one!) is an incredibly pleasurable experience that can be compared to the sensation of electricity flowing all over your body. As your arousal builds and intensifies, the feeling of electricity continues to grow until you reach the peak of climax. Your entire body will become tingly, as if every nerve ending has been activated at once, creating an indescribably intense sensation that radiates through every inch of your being.

Can you relate?

The moment you orgasm is often described as a wave of pleasure that washes over you, starting from your lower abdomen and radiating outward throughout your entire body.

This energy is powerful and intense, and it can cause involuntary muscle contractions that further heighten the feeling of pleasure. In some cases, even just thinking about climaxing can give rise to this same electric sensation coursing through the body.

For many people, this surge in energy can culminate in an overwhelming sense of bliss that overwhelms all senses and provides an unparalleled level of satisfaction.

This extreme pleasure-sensation is not only limited to physical sensations; it can also result in strong emotional reactions such as joy or euphoria that linger long after the sexual experience has ended.

Coupled with deeper breathing and an increased heart rate during orgasmic response, reaching climax truly does feel like electricity running through your veins - a unique sensation unlike anything else!

You might say, "What if I can't make you cum when we meet, Vee?! Will you not see me again?"

Reaching orgasm is an incredible and unforgettable experience BUT for me, it all starts with a slow and sensual foreplay.

This is a must-have in any sexual encounter with me - no exceptions!

If you are someone who doesn't know anything about foreplay, don't worry; just be open and willing to learn. But, if you're the kind of person who just wants to jump straight into intercourse (who just wants to put your penis inside my vagina) without any build up or arousal then you should look elsewhere.

Or if you are a lady, who just wants to put your fingers or a massive dildo inside my vagina - then it will not work and it would be best for you to seek a different person.....

It's important that we take our time during foreplay to explore each other's bodies, use all of our senses and stimulate one another in as many ways as possible.

Whether it be gentle caressing, passionate kissing or arousing massage techniques - the possibilities are endless! Not only will this lead to more intense orgasms but it allows us to deepen our connection and strengthen our engagement with one another as lovers.

Hope you've enjoyed reading this blog post as much as I've enjoyed writing it.

Stay kind, beautiful and have lots of mind-blowing sensual encounters with your lovers, and have a magical Easter bank holiday weekend!

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....If this is the first time you found my profile please take the time to Introduce yourself when sending me your first message.

I GUARANTEE YOU that my method of asking these questions is to be respectful towards you. This is for me to evaluate if we are a MATCH.

a. Your age
b. Ethnicity/background (Ex: Half Jamaican/Half Japanese)
c. Do you smoke cigarettes?
d. Any known disabilities that I should be aware of?
e. What type of encounter do you personally enjoy? Please be honest :)
(PSE, spanking a girl, humiliation, plain GFE, slow and very sensual GFE etc.)
f. Do you mind if the lady would choose an outfit that she would like to wear during the meet or you like to request an outfit as it is "essential" for you? Please be truthful :)

Saturday, February 25th 2023

#025 Incalls in London 26th-27th February 2023

Dear readers,

Hope all is well with you.

Another last-minute notification to all of you that I am visiting London tomorrow-26th (Sunday) and 27th(Monday) February..

As always, you can find the details in my profile, under the tab “Read This First”.

I'm going to call this blog post...

"The Flow of Sensual Lovemaking: Why Expectations Ruin the Moment"

Have you ever had an intimate sensual experience with someone that felt like it was “absolutely divine?" That's what flow feels like; and no, I'm not talking about the latest pop hit by Sam Smith.

I'm talking about a concept developed by Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi, known as the 8 traits of flow. These traits are applicable to any task and can even be used during moments of passionate lovemaking. Read on to find out how!

Flow is a concept developed by Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi (pronounced as Me-high Cheek-sent-me-high) that describes a state of mind when one is completely immersed in an activity or task.

Eight traits define this state:

1) Clarity of goals
2) Concentration on the task at hand
3) Suspension of judgment
4) Feeling of control over actions
5) Loss of self-consciousness
6) The transformation of time (time seems to stand still)
7) Effortlessness (action is automatic)
8) Lack of awareness regarding one’s environment

In other words, when you’re in a state of flow you aren’t conscious of your surroundings or really anything else BESIDES the activity itself; everything just comes together NATURALLY.

When I recently visited London, I had the pleasure of meeting two incredible lovers who gifted me with one of the most earth-shattering experiences of my life . It all started when these two gents honed in on my clitoris with their tongues and skillfully stimulated it for an extended period of time. Words don't do justice to the sheer intensity and pleasure that I experienced during this intimate encounter.

Just to clarify, I met them separately. They were not a same-sex couple or anything like that.

As I lay there afterwards, overcome by a flood of emotion, I asked each one of them if they did this often for other women. They coyly smiled and nodded, clearly familiar with the power they had over women’s bodies. But what was truly special was not just the level of pleasure they provided; it was also their attentiveness and genuine care for making sure that they were stroking every single part of my body very softly!

I told my lady about these beautiful gents and she got a little bit jealous. lol

But after I responded, "There's no need to be jealous about it. They are my clients - nothing more than that. Also, they are very respectful of boundaries. I'm sure they wanted to arrange an engagement with me because they can tell from my blog posts that I value other people's private life as well as boundaries", she replied with something else entirely: “I wasn't jealous that there might be something more; I was jealous because they managed to make you reach orgasm while I haven't made you (EVER!) because you won't let me lick you that long. You just want to use the toy immediately because you are too impatient."

I was laughing when I replied, "Haha, c'mon don't think that way. From the day I first laid eyes on you, I never expected you to make me cum, etc. Even before we met, I never thought that I have to reach orgasm with anyone. I did not have any set expectations, I was just going with the flow with each person I am naked with . Also, these 2 clients probably had a lot of experience when it comes to pleasuring a lady using their tongue. Both of them left my legs flat in the bed, they did not open my legs too wide (kept them open at a 45-degree angle), started licking me softly (whilst gently stroking my inner thighs), they slowly increased the pressure of their tongue. To be honest, I didn't provide any instructions/guidance, they just went down on me and were so spontaneous! I guess they were so attentive to how my body is responding to what they were doing to me. I remember I couldn't control my legs shaking when I was about to explode!"

The conversation ended with both of us laughing and recognizing how much there still was left for us to explore together sexually. We realized that although we both had different ways of getting aroused, it didn’t mean either one was better than the other; they were simply different approaches toward achieving pleasure and satisfaction in the bedroom.

Through this candid conversation with my lady, we learned that even though relationships are complex matters involving trust and understanding - there's still room for growth when it comes to exploring each other's sexuality without fear or judgment!

In fact, embracing our differences can even increase our closeness as lifelong partners (hopefully) - and bring us closer together! Whether it's trying out new toys or introducing new techniques into the bedroom - exploring our sexuality (using Adultwork as a platform for meeting beautiful sensual beings) can be an exciting journey if we take the time to communicate openly with each other first!

When it comes to lovemaking, expectations can ruin any chance of achieving flow. This doesn't mean that we should avoid having desires or fantasies during sex; rather, let go of any expectation for those desires/fantasies to come to fruition.

When engaging with someone else intimately, allow yourself to fall into their rhythm without worrying about whether you're meeting any expectations - yours or theirs - and focus instead on connecting with your partner in an authentic way. Don't worry too much about reaching orgasm - it'll happen if it's MEANT to happen - and don't worry if things don't work out perfectly every single time; there will always be ANOTHER opportunity down the line!

Achieving flow during lovemaking isn't something that happens overnight; it takes practice and patience before you can fully surrender yourself to your partner's rhythm without worrying about expectations or outcomes.

However, once you get there, trust me when I say it'll be worth it! Let go and just enjoy the moment for what it is - an opportunity for two people (or more) to connect deeply and authentically with each other on a physical level.

Who knows? Maybe one day soon you'll reach orgasmic heights that you never thought possible!

As always, I hope you've enjoyed reading this blog post as much as I've enjoyed writing it.

PS I will not be available in the next 3 weeks, sadly. Hence, this blog post is too lengthy! lol

Stay beautiful, have lots and lots of sensual mind-blowing encounters, and enjoy the rest of your day!

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....If this is the first time you found my profile please take the time to Introduce yourself when sending me your first message.

I GUARANTEE YOU that my method of asking these questions is to be respectful towards you. This is for me to evaluate if we are a MATCH.

a. Your age
b. Ethnicity/background (Ex: Half Jamaican/Half Japanese)
c. Do you smoke cigarettes?
d. Any known disabilities that I should be aware of?
e. What type of encounter do you personally enjoy? Please be honest :)
(PSE, spanking a girl, humiliation, plain GFE, slow and very sensual GFE etc.)
f. Do you mind if the lady would choose an outfit that she would like to wear during the meet or you like to request an outfit as it is "essential" for you? Please be truthful :)

Saturday, February 18th 2023

#024 Incalls in London 19th/20th February 2023

Dear readers,

Hope you are all doing wonderful and currently enjoying the "month of love" as what the society calls it!

This is such a very last minute blog post today to notify each one of you that I have confirmation to return to London tomorrow-19th (Sunday) and 20th(Monday) February.

As always, you can find the details in my profile, under the tab “Read This First”.

How did you spend your 14th February?

If you are like me who doesn't make a big deal about Valentine's Day - high five! lol

It's funny how we are all preconditioned by the society to make it such a very important date to make love or to take someone to dinner with. Why can we do it everyday or as often as we can? Why do we have to wait for the 14th to have a steamy, memorable and mind-blowing sex with our loved ones or lovers?

This past 14th February was certainly a memorable one! Instead of booking an expensive dinner out or going to a fancy restaurant in Mayfair, my lady and I decided to keep things relaxed and casual.

And while there wasn’t any candles-and-roses-style romance involved in this Valentine’s Day, it definitely stands out as one that is unforgettable because of its simplicity and intimacy. We may not have gone all out for this particular occasion like many couples do, but what mattered more than anything else was being able to spend quality time together without feeling pressured by societal expectations or norms. We just decided to have a meal somewhere in Central London and we talked about the highs and lows we have both faced over the years - from my health challenges to her own struggles. We discussed how these experiences have only made us stronger as a couple and that external factors pale in comparison to what we have overcome together. That’s why it will always remain special to me – even if it didn’t involve any fancy dresses or red roses!

Just in case this is your first time reading my blog post, I highly recommend scrolling down to "#013 Sapio Vee: Reborn" which I posted more than a year ago (Monday,10th January 2022).

Afterwards....

We decided to take our conversation a bit further by deciding to open up about our ‘Adultwork Adventures’ with one of our closest female friends. It's definitely one of the most beautiful moments we experienced together recently!

Initially, our friend thought I was a porn star [I was like, "No! LMAO!"] and couldn't believe that I was actually "working" in the adult industry.

We laughed it off but she was very supportive and even encouraged us to pursue this adventure! She said, “If you both enjoy it, might as well get paid for it!... so carry on girls!” lol

As we were sharing stories with her, there was a look of curiosity in her eyes that made us think that perhaps one day she might reach out to us asking for assistance in creating an account for herself. However, knowing her current situation with her upcoming marriage in the summer it is highly unlikely that will be able to happen.

The real lesson here however is not necessarily about Adultwork but rather about true friendship and true love.

When the friendship is genuine, nothing should ever come between them and this includes exploring different ways to express themselves sexually. As long as all parties involved (including any significant others) are completely comfortable with the decision then why not? It's important for couples to remember that openmindedness and communication are key components for a successful relationship.

This was something that filled us both with excitement and anticipation, but also provided us with a newfound sense of confidence that came from being able to be honest and open with another person. It was truly beautiful how we could be so comfortable discussing something so intimate without feeling any shame or embarrassment.

All I can say is....

No matter how much time has passed our friendship has always been unbreakable and unconditional which is what makes it so special.

We hugged our friend tightly after coming out to her showing her just how much we really care about her. This shows us yet another time that if you stop chasing the wrong things you can give the right things a chance to find their way into your life!

I think the best quality of love is the feeling that somebody understands you, and you understand somebody.

I hope you've enjoyed reading this blog post as much as I've enjoyed writing it.

To each one of you, stay beautiful and have a fruitful/wonderful day whichever part of the world you are in!
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....If this is the first time you found my profile please take the time to Introduce yourself when sending me your first message.

I GUARANTEE YOU that my method of asking these questions is to be respectful towards you. This is for me to evaluate if we are a MATCH.

a. Your age
b. Ethnicity/background (Ex: Half Jamaican/Half Japanese)
c. Do you smoke cigarettes?
d. Any known disabilities that I should be aware of?
e. What type of encounter do you personally enjoy? Please be honest :)
(PSE, spanking a girl, humiliation, plain GFE, slow and very sensual GFE etc.)
f. Do you mind if the lady would choose an outfit that she would like to wear during the meet or you like to request an outfit as it is "essential" for you? Please be truthful :)

Friday, January 27th 2023

#023 Incalls in London 29th/30th January 2023

Dear readers,

Hope you are all doing great and had a wonderful start to the new year!

I am writing this blog post today to notify each one of you that I have confirmation to return to London on the 29th (Sunday) and 30th(Monday) January - which is in the next few days.

You can find the details in my profile, under the tab “Read This First”.

I had a great time in my recent visit (22nd/23rd/24th January) at Old Street/Moorgate/Liverpool Street, where I got an opportunity to meet some incredible gentlemen who were sensual, humble, and kind.

One of them even gave me a compliment that having a conversation with me was like listening to an audible book!

That was definitely one of the most beautiful compliments I have received and it felt amazing actually.

Today's topic focuses on Tips for How To Have Sensual Sex and Prolonged Gentle Foreplay.

In order for sex to truly be enjoyable and satisfying for both partners, it is important that it be based upon communication and connection between both parties.

Here are my tips on how to achieve this:

1) Make sure both parties are relaxed – It can be hard to relax when your mind is preoccupied with work or stress from other areas of your life. Take some time out before sex to make sure both of you are relaxed and in sync with each other's needs and desires by using relaxation techniques such as stroking, caressing or soft massage

2) Set the Mood – Creating an atmosphere of intimacy is key for having an incredible sensual sex. Think about different ways to make your bedroom or other private space romantic and inviting, such as dim lighting and soft music. When you set aside time for just the two of you to explore each other’s bodies in a comfortable setting, it allows you both to relax and let go of any inhibitions or anxieties around sexuality.

3) Practice Foreplay – Prolonged gentle foreplay helps to increase arousal in both partners. Think about various activities that can help get you both in the mood like light strokes, kissing, caressing and gentle oral sex. Take time explore each other’s bodies without feeling pressure to move onto intercourse right away. This type of exploration can lead to greater trust and understanding between partners, as well as more intense pleasure when it comes time for intercourse itself.

4) Focus on pleasure rather than performance – Sex should not be viewed as a performance but rather an experience shared between two people that increases intimacy levels if done right! Pay attention to each other's reactions throughout foreplay so that there is no pressure placed upon either partner during sex itself; enjoy yourselves instead!

5) Connect Through Touch – One way to ensure maximum pleasure during intercourse is by connecting through touch with your partner before getting down! Start off by holding hands or cuddling up next one another on the bed; this helps ground each person in their own body while also allowing them room to explore one another's energy fields through simple gestures like stroking inner thighs or caressing skin! This kind of non-sexual touch releases oxytocin (the bonding hormone) which helps build trust between lovers as well as reducing stress levels so you're both relaxed when it comes time for intercourse!

6) Have fun with it - Above all else, remember that sex should be fun for everyone involved; don't take any part too seriously but instead embrace sensuality through connection between yourself and your partner where possible!

I hope these tips help make your sexual experiences even more enjoyable than before!

Remember, communication is key when it comes to enjoying intimate moments together; talk openly about what you want from each other so that expectations can be fulfilled on both sides without any pressure or awkwardness present in the room afterwards!

This is the main reason why I ask the key questions (enumerated below!) before I agree to arrange a meeting with a client.

Wishing you all a wonderful month ahead filled with passion & pleasure!

Thursday, December 1st 2022

#022 Incalls in London 4th/5th December 2022

Dear readers,

You are probably surprised to see this Incall blog post sooner than expected?

Same here! My schedule can be VERY spontaneous and unpredictable.

I received confirmation yesterday that I need to return to London on the 4th (Sunday) & 5th (Monday) December which is in the next few days.

If you've been following my profile for a while, you are aware that I ONLY travel to London because of my obligations in my line of work (not Adultwork).

When I'm in London fulfilling my responsibilities and experiencing mindblowing encounters (with selective sensual beings) at the same time, feels wonderful and rewarding!

Just in case I won't be able to write another blog in the next few weeks, I just want to thank every single one of you whom I had the opportunity to meet this year whether it is an outcall or an incall get-together. It was such a pleasure discovering each one of you in a naked manner and I truly value our time spent together, especially if I've learned something new from you.

I also want to mention the few beautiful gents who were so sweet to gift me packs of flaxseeds, chia seeds, maca powder, spirulina powder, and most importantly the only client who was so generous to get me a grounding mat!

When he opened his bag and handed me the box that says, "Earthing Mat" in it - I almost cried! lol

I got very emotional because I never expected anyone in Adultwork would EVER give me this product. I'm not sure if he will read this blog post as he told me that he might delete his account if he no longer needs it.

One of the beautiful things he said to me is he will try to implement the insights and techniques he learned from our encounter with a lady that he intends to date exclusively. He asked me various questions on how to make a female reach orgasm as he would like to make this lady reach orgasm. Apparently, she hasn't experienced it (yet) and doesn't know how to get there.

I honestly told him that I cannot help with that unfortunately because it depends on what she likes?

Only her own sexual experience(s) and open-mindedness to explore various things will help her reach her very first sensational orgasm!

I remember my "squirting moments" with my ex-gf. Haha!

That type of vaginal orgasm felt great BUT when I discovered clitoral orgasm I didn't look back! If you have witnessed me reach my orgasm during our rendezvous, you know that I can be very loud. Sometimes, I feel so sorry when a client startles especially when I shout "F**K!" loudly. I can't help it, unfortunately.

From my own experience, exploring sacred sexuality, using breath and AWARENESS for much more pleasure opens up my body and my sensuality. All of that has been extremely magnificent!

Sex should be an immersive experience full of passion, pleasure, and connection whether it is with the same sex or the opposite sex. My lifelong bedroom experiences led me to discover new levels of bliss and orgasmic ecstasy. Believe it or not, there are only a handful of selective individuals that I've met whose penis felt very "present" and healing where the thrusts are pleasurable and loving.

I often tell my other half, I do not enjoy the "hard and fast" men and she starts laughing at my stories. Well, she tells me similar stories.

If there are any straight women reading this post and you expect men to know these things instinctively, it is just impossible darling!

I truly believe that it is vital for women to know their own bodies, and to be able to communicate their needs. Men and women are profoundly different which is WHY communication is important.

Before this year ends I hope you all had lots of incredible mindful and conscious rendezvous with your lovers!.

Detach from fear. Understand that vulnerability is sexy.
Be welcoming. Be receptive. Be open to new experiences.

In entering the year 2023, may we all experience transcendental sex that is "out of this world." - Are you up for it?

PS I will not be available in the next 4 weeks, sadly. If we don't get the chance to meet this visit, there will be plenty of opportunities in 2023!

To each one of you, stay well, happy and healthy. Have a wonderful holiday celebration with your loved ones!

Wednesday, November 16th 2022

#021 Incalls in London 27th/28th November 2022

Dear readers,

Hope you are all well and keeping warm in this rather cold and rainy season.

Confirmation received and I'm coming to London on the 27th (Sunday) & 28th (Monday) November.

I will be near Old Street/Moorgate/Liverpool stations (EC1Y). You can view the details in my profile, under my "Read This First" tab

In my previous visit earlier this month, I had an incredible experience with every single one-on-one sensual rendezvous.

I specifically wrote "one-on-one" as I haven't had any FFM meetings in the past few weeks due to my work schedule and other priorities in my personal life. As much as I would love to say "YES!" but if my schedule doesn't match the client(s), there is nothing I can do about it, sadly.

Just so you know, I get really excited receiving FFM queries and sometimes it does make me wet thinking about it. If you have been following my profile for a while, you are fully aware that I love exploring a woman's curves as much as any sensual individual (man/woman/non-binary) out there.

...so if our schedule doesn't match this time around, I just remind myself that if it is meant to happen, it will happen. Perhaps next year maybe?

"We don’t know what the future holds" - so I am optimistic that if the right couple comes along and our schedule matches eventually it will be worth the wait!

I hope each one of you had a lot of very intense and memorable rendezvous these past few days? Perhaps you've discovered something new about yourself?

If we've met several times before, you know that I enjoy listening to each person's life experience and learning your story. It could be your experiences living in different cities/countries, the joys and challenges of switching different careers, the unforgettable intimate experiences with your other lovers as well as those whom you wished you didn't meet

and so much more.

I love this quote, “Every person that you meet knows something you don't; learn from them.” H. Jackson Brown Jr.

Would you agree that every person you meet has a purpose in your life? People who come into our life are there for a reason. Whether they're our friends, peers/colleagues, workmates, or Adultwork lovers, they serve as connections or stepping stones that help us grow and evolve.

Nothing that happens to us is by mistake!

For those of you that I've met in person, thank you for your kindness and for sharing your wisdom! Just know that I really value your time spent with me especially if you are a very beautiful sensual and sweet being.

To each one of you, have a wonderful and fruitful day!

Monday, October 31st 2022

#020 Incalls in London 6th/7th November 2022

Dear readers,

Hope you are all well and are trying different hacks to reduce your energy and gas bills these days.

Confirmation received and I'm coming to London on the 6th (Sunday) & 7th (Monday) November.

I will be near Old Street/Moorgate/Liverpool stations (EC1Y). You can view the details in my profile, under my "Read This First" tab

I just wanted to write about something..... It will be brief, I promise!

When I switched my phone "ON" the other day, I received a lot of sweet messages asking, "Vee, I noticed you haven't been on Adultwork for a few days. Just checking if you are OK? Would it be possible to know when you are around London again? Would love to see you soon. Speak soon."

I just want to let you all know that I am absolutely fine, happy, and well!

As you all know, my Adultwork life is an outlet and will remain that way, just like most of you who are reading this post.

Every now and then, I turn off my mobile device. Therefore, if your WhatsApp/Telegram message didn't go through, that just means I am offline.

Another reason why I like to switch off my phone into airplane mode or turn it off completely is to reduce the level of Electromagnetic fields (EMFs) that my body is exposed to on a daily basis. Airplane mode decreases the amount of EMFs but doesn’t eliminate it.

When I am making a call, I always use the loudspeaker or wired earphones. When I tested myself with wireless/Bluetooth earphones for several hours it gave me a terrible headache and that's when I know my body doesn't agree with this type of technology.

I don't want you to take my word for it but I definitely encourage you to do your own research, dig deeper and educate yourself and read more about the activation of voltage-gated calcium channels (VGCCs) from works of Martin L. Pall, Ph.D., Dietrich Klinghardt, MD, Ph.D., Arthur Firstenberg, Patrick Wood, Christian Thomas so much more!

Use your favourite search engine and enjoy your brand-new discovery!

To each one of you, have an amazing and fruitful day wherever you are reading this!

Friday, October 14th 2022

#019 Incalls in London 16th/17th October 2022

Dear readers,

Hope you are all well and are keeping warm in our current weather here in England.

Confirmation received and I'm coming to London on the 16th (Sunday) & 17th (Monday) October.

I will be near Old Street/Moorgate/Liverpool stations (EC1Y). You can view the details in my profile, under my "Read This First" tab .

I met a beautiful new client recently and he expressed his gratitude regarding the disability disclosure that I politely asks in my profile which is also written clearly in one of my FAQs (FAQ #4).

By the way, he told me I can write it in my blog post if I wish to write about it which was really wonderful of him.

He has a stoma bag (or colostomy bag) attached in his lower abdomen and he asked me if I was okay to see him. My response was like, "Why wouldn't I be? Of course I have no issues moving forward with the meeting. You just have to tell me what are certain movements/positions that we can't do so I will not cause you any discomfort etc."

We live in a beautiful BUT very complex modern society where we are exposed every second of our day-to-day lives with stressors in our external environment (such as pathogens, harmful pharmacological agents, heavy metals, pollutants, EMFs, workload, irate people etc.) that CONSTANTLY challenge our body's innate defence mechanisms to try its best to manage everything - until our body says "No!"

Then, we undergo different medical interventions to try to resuscitate and prolong our very brief existence in this world.

You might be wondering why am I writing about this topic?

This is for you to understand (especially if we haven't met) how important it is for me to know if you have any disabilities, conditions (such as asthma, chest pains, atopic dermatitis, psoriasis etc.) recent surgical procedures or any implantable medical devices such as pacemakers etc. attached to your bodies

There shouldn't be any reason for you to feel ashamed about this as I do not know your personal identity (technically) and there is no sense of commitment from us seeing each other (we see each other when it's meant to be).

Therefore, there is NO RISK (whatsoever) in disclosing this information as we may not see each other again?

It is only going to benefit us both so we can fully enjoy our time together and prevent certain emergencies to happen. I'm not going to go in details about the different possibilities - you see what I mean.

Over the years, I have met countless of clients who have various conditions, disabilities and devices attached in their bodies and this allowed me to learn more about their personal story. It is a fascinating discovery, if I'll be honest.

..so whatever it is that you have, please let me know and I would really appreciate you for doing so.

I hope I have provided some clarity why I ask this very valuable information.

To every single one of you, have an amazing and fruitful day whichever part of the world you are right now!

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....If this is the first time you found my profile please take the time to Introduce yourself when sending me your first message.

I GUARANTEE YOU that my method of asking these questions is to be respectful towards you. This is for me to evaluate if we are a MATCH.

a. Your age
b. Ethnicity/background (Ex: Half Jamaican/Half Japanese)
c. Do you smoke cigarettes?
d. Any known disabilities that I should be aware of?
e. What type of encounter do you personally enjoy? Please be honest :)
(PSE, spanking a girl, humiliation, plain GFE, slow and very sensual GFE etc.)
f. Do you mind if the lady would choose an outfit that she would like to wear during the meet or you like to request an outfit as it is "essential" for you? Please be truthful :)

Wednesday, September 28th 2022

#018 Incalls in London 2nd/3rd October 2022

Hope you are having a fruitful and amazing week so far!

Confirmation received and I'm coming to London on the 2nd (Sunday) & 3rd (Monday) October.

I will be near Old Street/Moorgate/Liverpool stations (EC1Y). You can view the details in my profile, under my "Read This First" tab .

During my last visit in the City, one of my regular clients asked me a playful but very entertaining question...

"Vee, what are your Top 3 Most Interesting facts of Sapio Vee?" and this was my response (Adultwork context, of course)...

1) I have never put my profile in "Escort of The Day" section.
2) I have never spoke over the phone with any of my clients before our meeting - everything is written using the Adultwork internal email.
3) In my early years, I used to require every client to send me a photo of themselves before I agree to meet them.

My reasoning would be the following:

1) There are many profiles who use this section and are willing to pay the amount required (can be expensive) for their profiles to be known to thousands of 'potential' clients browsing the home page. You will also notice that it's familiar profiles being shown all the time. You know why? Because, it is VERY effective (bring more clients) and that's why they will do it OVER and OVER again. Why won't I grab the opportunity? If you've been following my profile and read my blog posts for awhile now, you should know by now that I don't have any intentions to attract everyone. I would like to be unnoticeable to the majority. Unfortunately, the majority have an impulsive behaviour of sending vague messages without even thinking before pressing the "send" button. That is a fact, sadly.

2) Many profiles in AW only accept bookings over the phone and I'm fully aware of this. Most of them, specifically write that they do not respond to emails and texts. This method is great but not for me, unfortunately. All my regular sensual clients are aware that receiving phone calls is not a discreet option for me and that all of our correspondence should be written and recorded that way. I also think that expressing yourself in an effective written communication is so sexy! ...Yes you got it right - it can make me WET!

3) Before venturing my Adultwork journey, I had no interest (whatsoever) in dating men, sadly. I exclusively date women and I was only comfortable making love with women. Until my world went upside down when my family decided that they are no longer interested in lending me money to pay my tuition fee (just when I needed to transfer the funds to the institution) for my MSc. They said, they can only give me the funds for my airfare expenses returning back home. Long story short, my other half proposed that I see men in exchange for money and it was NOT an easy decision back then, if I'll be honest. We then talked about it (very strategically!) and I told her that I would only meet them if they send a photo of themselves and we would meet in public vicinities. Believe it or not, the gentlemen that I met back then actually appreciated me for asking their photos before agreeing to meet.

I am extremely certain that each one of you who are here in Adultwork whether you are seeking or providing services/experiences have your own version of "Top 3 Most Interesting Facts of ________ (your name)!"

Whatever it might be, I hope you are enjoying your experiences in this platform as much as I do - with no regrets!

On this note, I'm going to end my post here because it's getting really lengthy. lol

Enjoy the rest of your day and make it count!

Saturday, September 10th 2022

#017 Incalls in London 18/19 Sept 2022

Hope you are well!

I just received confirmation and I'm coming to London on the 18th (Sunday) & 19th (Monday) September.

I will be near Old Street/Moorgate/Liverpool stations (EC1Y). You can view the details in my profile, under my "Read This First" tab .

During my last visit in Liverpool Street, I had a one new client who asked me...

"Vee, what type of girls do you like?" and I responded, "Those who wear less make-up, independent (pays her own bills etc.), open-minded, calm, tactile, respectful to other people, intelligent (most importantly!) and humble (THIS makes me WET!)." I'm not even joking! lol

This is my struggle on a regular basis because I am surrounded with these types of women in my line of work as well as the venue where I currently study.

Thankfully, I have learned to control myself and I am able to talk these "horny feelings" and sexual urges to my other half. She just laughs at my desires-haha!

I must admit, I always get excited when I come to stay in London because of these types of conversations.

I get the opportunity to meet new sensual beings and spend time with my wonderful sensual regular clients! I always have an incredible time with each beautiful individual.

....if this is the first time you found my profile please take the time to Introduce yourself when sending me your first message.

I GUARANTEE YOU that my method of asking these questions is to be respectful towards you. This is for me to evaluate if we are a MATCH.

a. Your age
b. Ethnicity/background (Ex: Half Jamaican/Half Japanese)
c. Do you smoke cigarettes?
d. Any known disabilities that I should be aware of?
e. What type of encounter do you personally enjoy? Please be honest :)
(PSE, spanking a girl, humilitation, plain GFE, slow and very sensual GFE etc.)
f. Do you mind if the lady would choose an outfit that she would like to wear during the meet or you like to request an outfit as it is "essential" for you? Please be truthful :)

Friday, August 26th 2022

#016 Incalls in London 05/06 Sept 2022

Hope you are having an amazing day whenever you see this post!

Update: Schedule organised and I'm coming to London on the 5th (Monday) & 6th (Tuesday) September.

I will be near Liverpool Street/Aldgate/Aldgate East stations (E1). You can view the details in my profile, under my "Read This First" tab .

I had the opportunity to meet several incredible, humble and kind gentlemen in my previous visit in Old Street/Moorgate/Liverpool Street and it just made me miss my mind-blowing sensual experiences in London.

This is exactly the reason why I am coming down at least twice each month in City of London.

I'm not sure if my schedule would permit me to do more than that, but we'll see in the future?

Just to give you a hint..... I am a girl next door-type who enjoys a slow and sensual love-making.

Therefore, if you don't enjoy what I enjoy, I ask you politely to browse a different profile who enjoys what you want. I think it's only fair that way.

....if this is the first time you found my profile please take the time to Introduce yourself when sending me your first message.

a. Your age
b. Ethnicity/background (Ex: Half Jamaican/Half Japanese)
c. Do you smoke cigarettes?
d. Any known disabilities that I should be aware of?
e. What type of encounter do you personally enjoy? Please be honest :)
(PSE, spanking a girl, humilitation, plain GFE, slow and very sensual GFE etc.)
f. Do you mind if the lady would choose an outfit that she would like to wear during the meet or you like to request an outfit as it is "essential" for you? Please be truthful :)

No Feedback = No Meeting : Unless you transfer a non-refundable 50% deposit via REVOLUT App prior to our meeting. This app is very secure and discreet so I will NEVER know your full name. I'm happy to send you my referral link (via SMS/WhatsApp/Telegram) if you don't have an account yet.

Thank you for respecting my preference and for valuing my time!

I look forward to spending time with you on the, 5th (Monday) & 6th (Tuesday) September!