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Thursday, May 23rd 2019

A Star-DOM is born May 15th 2019

So its been just over 2 months since I started camming, and entered into the wonderful world of AW!

I have more questions piling into the chat box as I take call after call.....

Do you offer humiliation?

Will you be my Mistress?

Foot worship?

CBT?

CP?

My head is spinnng.... WT actual F does all of this mean, so I smile politely and say, yes sure baby, I can do that - next minute im off cam, looking up the abbreviations of the words described! Total novice!

BUT the faascination of the fetish is getting the better of me. So I start to look at other girls profiles who are offering FEMDOM services, and think wow, there is so much to this, different avenues to go down, so many fetishes where do I start.

SO, I contact another cammer and I ask - Do you know where I can learn this stuff? Im mean, surely people don't just say they are a DOM and inflict pain on people without being trained first? Probably yes, but not me. At 44 I have learnt the way of professionalism, and have no problem with being a beginner. Everybody was here at some stage! And, I'm a super fast learner, so I find out exactly where I can go to be taught by a professional. Let the journey begin.....

Email sent, booking confirmed - Wednesday May 15th 9.30am

I finish my early morning personal training clients, thinking all the while i'm training them - my god, what am I doing.... am I nervous? Excited? actually both. I head to the station and off I go to the London School of Dominatrix.

Having read the syllabus, i'm aware that the session will involve a Mistress, and a sub. My own real life 50 shades experience. Jesus. Laugh out Loud!

She opens the door, and welcomes me to the school, I sit down and can feel the nervous excitement building up. We go through the consultation and the first question is do you have Kink experience? um.... nope not me! Normal me! Vanilla me! But thats okay, because everyone starts somewhere!

Lesson 1 - Corporal Punishment (Sounds scary to me, but it is a thing!)

We enter the room, she takes me through all of the equipment, Spanking bench, St Andrews cross, Bondage table, nipple clamps, gimp masks and then the hanging instruments - she is smiling while telling me a few stories about she herself became a DOM and how it has changed her life.

Next - In comes the SUB! My very own SUB! brilliant!

She takes me through the spanking bench set up, and how to buckle someone into it safely. Ok this doesn't seem too bad....

First, a lesson on how to spank with your bare hand. Listening for the noise it makeswhen you just "SLAP" and when you spank correctly, placing a little warmth to the apple of the cheek, ready fot the instruments! Here we go!

Instrument No 1 - The Flogger

There are many different types of course, so she shows me how to stand correctly, how to position my body so that I can hit the sweet spot. So much more to it than I had ever imagined, a real technique, concentration to perfect your strokes - apparently i'm a natural!

Instrument No 2 - The Paddle

Much easier to use than the flogger. Why? Because the flogger has many tassles so to position correctly takes time to perfect. Listening for the correct sound as I learn how to paddle spank on a single cheek and both cheeks together! This is really an art! I love it.

Instrument No 3 - The Crop (Horse whip)

This takes me back to my childhood, an avid horse rider, but I don't think in the 70's anyone ever really taught me how to hit correctly with this! SO I practice lining it up, tapping and teasing the bum cheeks again, softly at first, and then "Crack" a little harder a number 5 on the pain scale

"6 of the best" You will count my strokes and you will thank me for everyone do you understand? "Yes Mistress" - wow, I can totally understand and see how this can be such a release for the client, i make my words sensual as I stroke and tease him in between each stroke, I have found my new career!

Last but not least - Instrument No 4 - The Cane

Thinner than I thought, but can still mark someone with not very much force. We apply the techniques, and off I go again "6 of the best" You will thank me and count my strokes...... and of course..... he does.... I am his mistress for the lesson.

We finish all of the techniques, and I cannot wait to be tested, so we go through the flogger again, lining up the distance, tapping, teasing to find the sweet spot and I deliver the strokes with different intensity, again she says, "you are a natural"

So my first lesson is over, I literally could not wait to book the second session for 1 week later. Rope Bondage..... stay tuned!

Thursday, May 16th 2019

Adultwork had changed my life

Dubai to the UK January 2019

As I sat on the plane home on January 30th from living and working in the middle east, I felt scared, hopeless and incredible fearful of my future. How at 44 would i be able to start again, from literally scratch.....read on!

Ive had a long 18 year career in fitness, and in 2017 pursued living abroad to see if the streets of Dubai were really paved with Gold. Having always worked for myself, I found it a struggle to be employed in a country where labour laws are different, but I loved learning the culture and living in another country was something i had never done. (For those that want to cam or meet with me, remember this - I am a try anything once kind of girl!)

Events happened, life happened and I had to return to the UK earlier this year, not something I had planned to happen before I had my chance to develop my career there. So the future was now looking a bit scary, coming home and starting a personal training business from scratch. My god this could take years!

With enough funds to last me approx 1 month after returning, at week 3 I was getting more and more anxious. UNTIL....... a very old MALE friend said to me "why don't you do webcamming" my response was, um.... "what guys actually ring those numbers do they?" He replied, you will do well, you have the body, the personality the looks go for it. I was sceptical, but agreed to look it up. Then I found AW!

Since the 4th March 2019 I have never looked back. I've met some absolutely gorgeous men on AW, i've had fun, my confidence has grown, and I am fully supporting myself again thanks to all of the great cam clients I now have, who visit regularly, and i'm getting to know those that take the time to do this. It has 100% honestly changed my life.

Its has literally opened up a whole new world to my sexual confidence. I didn't realise I was so vanilla before starting AW. I am now one of the sexiest, athletical, beautiful MILF's on the whole site, and i've experienced things on AW that I had never even considered in my life with partners.

I cannot thank every single one of you for your time that you take to spend with me in group, private or skype, for those that pay me the nicest compliments and for those that have invested in spending real life time with me, I have made all of you truly happy and im so thankful for this.

Please see my other blogs about me developing my career with AW, and plunging into the world of escorting

Thanks for reading
Star xxx

Thursday, May 16th 2019

Was it on the bucket list?

It was not, that's for sure. Definitely not a career path I had ever considered before starting AW.

Would I accept money for sex. Never. No way. Not me. Nope. Urgh. But wait....

The camming calls are coming in hard and fast, day in day out - "do you meet" "I wish I could meet you" babe your beautiful, would you meet me? its just kept going every single day. So I started to consider the possiblity of actually meeting someone and accepting money for sex.

The men seem very genuine, some just wanting company, some in sexless marraiges, some just wanting sex with a stranger the list goes on. So if I tell someone where I am, meet in a public place, surely it will be ok?

That week, I have a phone-call through AW. Me and Mr X chatted, it got hot, and intense, and we quickly realised that there was a connection.

We also realised that we lived very close to each other. So in that split second after a sexy fantasising call, I agreed to do the meet.

We would go to a hotel in Buckinghamshire. WOW was I nervous, but inside I felt like a princess. This man could not have been more genuine, generous and I had one of the nicest evenings i've ever had. In truth I was treated better than any date i've ever been on! I'm not joking.

It was nowhere near the seedy, disgusting images I had built up in my head prior to starting AW, of what an escort does. We had great sex, conversation lovely food, drink and just a really nice time. It was a very normal, enjoyable experience which I was extremely thankful for.

So from that day, I changed my profile and set out some prices, and some boundaries for what I will and wont accept for meeting a client. Escorting is not something I wish to do by choice on a regular basis, however I have now gone on to meet some other extremely professional men, and have had some great times.

This experience has been life changing in so many ways.

My next blog is about Female Domination and my journey to become a ProDom. Mistress Star is in the making.

Stay tuned.

Bye for now!
xxx