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Thursday, April 20th 2023

Chastity Matters

A good Mistress knows that chastity matters! It underlies the most important aspects of the Domme/sub relationship both psytchological and physical. You don't need to be in a full time relationship to start exploring but it helps if you can find yourself an online or in person Mistress to support and guide you. If you've been wondering whether chastity is right for you here are a few things to consider :

1. Chastity can help you take control of your life and make you more productive: Caging up your cock and handing over the key to Mistress frees you up to focus on other things. You will find that suddenly you have time on your hands! Time you can spend serving Mistress! If you don't have a Mistress you might engage in a hobby, read that book you've been meaning to or work out! I am sure you can find something interesting and productive!

2. Chastity can make you more submissive: having your cock caged 24/7 and not cumming whenever you choose means that your sexual frustration will build. This will be especially true if Mistress is in control of when and if you will be released. The hornier and more frustrated you get the more you will want to please and the more submissive you will become. This is one of my favourite reasons for keeping my subs in chastity as they become so submissive and willing to please.

3. Chastity can make you more sensitive and heighten your orgasm when you are allowed one! The longer you go without having an orgasm the more pleasure you will experience when you are finally permitted to cum! However, Mistress is always in control and can order you to ruin your orgasm if she feels that you don't deserve that pleasure! Your increased sensitivity also makes you more likely to experience a prostate orgasm when you are being pegged! Another reason Mistress loves this!

4. Chastity can also help get you in touch with your more feminine qualities: having your cock locked away means that your focus is no longer so phallocentric. You must now focus on finding other ways to please Mistress that don't involve your cock!

5. Chastity can deepen trust and nurture your relationship: honouring your chastity agreement will let Mistress know that you are serious and committed to serving her. Being in chastity is not always easy, especially when you are getting started. It will take time, patience and training. This will show Mistress that you are trustworthy and willing to tolerate frustration in order to please her.

I'd love you to try chastity for me! If you have questions about what kind of cage you should get you can come and find me on cam or IM!

Tuesday, April 18th 2023

Maid Wanted

Would you make a good maid? Essential qualities include: being desperate to please, to be able to take instructions and implement them diligently, hard working, patient, to pay attention to detail and prioritise Mistress at all times. Appearance is also very important. As a maid you will be representing Mistress and so you will need to look the part. Your outfit should be feminine, smart and meet the requirements of service. The hem of your dress should be suitably short so it doesn't get in the way when you are performing your duties. Thigh skimming uniforms I find are best in terms of look and functionality. I like latex and pvc outfits as long as they are well kept and highly polished, they look good and can be easily wiped down!

A maid also needs to be in chastity 24/7. You should make sure you are fitted with a nice tight cage which can be securely locked and can be worn for extended periods of time. The keys need to be handed over to Mistress when you arrive and will only be returned when you have successfully completed your duties. If you apply for a full time live-in position, Mistress will keep the keys indefinitely. From the moment you take up the post as maid your orgasm will be controlled by Mistress. Experience of chastity is useful and will give you an advantage as you will already know what it is like to be locked up!

Mistress will interview and assess you thoroughly and decide what kind of duties you will be useful for. Having previous experience as a maid is always helpful but not essential as full training will be given. I will want you to be active around my house and gardens, serve at sessions and parties, be willing to filmed (you can be hooded) and used as I see fit. I may also hire you out to other Mistresses and in some case Masters as part of your training and service protocol. Applications will be considered from serious candidates who can show their commitment to Mistress and the maid lifestyle.

Wednesday, March 15th 2023

Sissification

Have you ever wondered what it would be like to be more feminine? How it would feel to have smooth, hair free legs? Some beautiful lacey/silky panties, suspenders and a nice form fitting basque! I love the process of bringing out and developing the more feminine qualities in you! Dressing you up and making you into some kind of pretty, slutty, little doll for me! In feminising you, you become my creation! My desires become your desires, and you increasingly only seek to please Mistress.

Of course, feminising you will involve locking away your clitty! Keeping it nice and tightly caged and out of the way! Out of sight and out of mind! My only interest is in stretching and feminising your pussy. I want the sissygasm to be the only way that you will cum from now on! Living a life of servitude and chastity is not easy. It will be a challenge! This is how it is meant to be. I love transforming boys into a wonderful feminised, better versions of themselves so that they can at least be useful and entertaining to me. I love knowing that I have created a beautiful, manicured sissy that I can play with and use, whenever and wherever I like.

Thursday, February 23rd 2023

The Joy of Denial and Orgasm Control

You don't need to be a submissive to enjoy the playfulness and challenge of a beautiful Mistress controlling your orgasm! Mistress knows just how much your life will improve if Mistress was in charge of when, how and whether or not you cum at all! I love to take control of your urges and desires, breaking them down and reconstructing them exactly as I choose. There are lots of fun and kinky ways I can take control of you!

1. Caging you up is just one way I enjoy taking control of you! Mistress keeps a strict eye on you and expects daily check-ins to confirm that you are still nice and tightly locked! I love the sense of power and control that I wield over you! Ideally the keys are kept around my neck to remind you of who is in charge! They can also be locked inside a 'Time Lock Safe', or not accessed until a block of ice melts!

2. Psychological chastity: making the decision that you will be chaste for Mistress and not cum unless I give permission can be one of the most powerful forms of play and submission. I love teasing and edging you and watching you become more and more aroused! You never know when or if I will allow you to come!

Both of these options can have a wonderful impact on your life: whether that's freeing up more time to engage in other pursuits, or building up to a more meaningful and intense orgasm! What they both have in common is Mistress being in charge! It also leads to increased feelings of submission, horniness and sensitivity. The latter making it more likely that you would have a prostate orgasm, which I love! In fact, it can be extremely humbling and for some humiliating knowing that whilst you are under my control the only orgasm you will have is via your pussy! You had better get practising!

Thursday, February 2nd 2023

Smother Box

One of the first pieces of equipment I bought as a Mistress and immediately fell in love with was the smother box! I was very new to kink at the time and saw it being used at a club in Torquay. I had never seen anything like it before and I thought it was such a wonderful idea! To have a sub's head trapped inside a box with a beautifully crafted leather seat on top! What more could a Mistress want!

I sourced a box from a local Cornish craftsman and started using it immediately at my sessions and parties. It proved a great success! I have had hours of fun sitting on the faces of subs in my dungeon. Forcing them to pleasure me whilst inside the box whilst their naked body is exposed for me to tease and play with however I wish. Poor creature! But Mistress has so much fun!

During a party the sub is locked inside the box and myself and the other Mistresses take it in turns to warm the seat! I often enjoy playing a little trick and have another sub sit upon the box and then of course you are obliged to follow my strict instructions!

Sunday, January 29th 2023

St Andrew's Cross

As I enter the room, nothing pleases me more than to see my sub tied spreadeagle upon my beautiful St. Andrew's cross. Naked, restrained and vulnerable! The cross with sub attached provides the perfect canvas or backdrop for a session or a party where the sub is our entertainment for the evening! Hanging from this exposed position my sub can be blindfolded, flogged, edged, teased and punished. The possibilities are endless! The sub can be pinned facing out or facing inward, it allows access to all the main areas which Mistress loves to play with.

The St Andrew's cross or Saltire, is a very versatile piece of equipment and takes it name from the X shaped cross that the Apostle St Andrew was thought to be crucified on by the Roman's in 60 A.D. St Andrew was deemed to be unworthy of being crucified on a T shaped cross like the one Christ had been crucified on and an x shaped cross was chosen instead.

My vintage cross travelled all the way from Bournemouth to me and was once the star in a vintage film! I would love to find out which one! Perhaps one of you kinky creatures might recognise it and If you are fortunate enough Mistress might deem you worthy of being strapped to it!

Thursday, January 26th 2023

Worship my 10 Inch Heels

As a Mistress I possess a wonderfully large collection of latex and heels! I always love to add to it. Recently a slave gifted me an amazing pair of shiny black patent 10 Inch Pleaser heels! I think you'll agree that they deserve to be worshipped! I love towering above you as you kneel naked at my feet, collared and leashed. If you are a very good slave I might allow you a reward... as long as you clean my boots to perfection! Nothing gives me greater satisfaction than seeing you weak, exposed and vulnerable worshipping at my feet.

Monday, May 24th 2021

Devil's Tentacle

I am a firm believer in exploring and embracing new experiences! It makes life interesting and fun! This is one of the reasons I love BDSM as there are always new things to be discovered! I recently found this delicious, devilish tentacle! It's perfect for beginners as as well as more experienced sluts as it is made of soft silicone and has a beautifully tapered shape which means that it will slide into your pretty little asshole perfectly and with ease! Once it's inside of you - Mistress will administer a prostate orgasm, for which you will forever be addicted! From then on you will always want the candy which Mistress has to offer!

Friday, May 21st 2021

The 'S' Word!

Sounding is an amazing experience not everyone is familiar with. It involves inserting a steel rod into the urethra and letting gravity take its course! Lots of sterile, surgical lube is needed to ensure a smooth and comfortable descent! If done correctly and in a relaxed manner sounding can be extremely sensuous and often leads to an instantaneous urge to cum! This is because there are lots of nerve endings inside the urethra and if the sound goes in nice and deep it directly stimulates the prostate gland which results in an explosive ejaculation!

There are also things you can do to enhance pleasure as the sound slides in! You can stroke and wank the cock/clitty, place a vibrator on the cock or the sound itself which can be extremely arousing! If you are adventurous you can stretch your urethra by using thicker sounds each time. I offer coaching and expert tuition in the art of sounding and many other kinky activities! I would love to help you explore and instruct you how to cum for me!

Sunday, May 16th 2021

The glorious prostate orgasm! You should have one!

I have a delicious new latex glove? It is perfect for anal and pussy play!

Did you know that you can have a wonderful prostate orgasm by stimulating your P-spot otherwise known as your prostate gland! Your prostate is found between your bladder and your rectum and can be stimulated by placing toys, fingers or a
strapon inside of your lovely bottom! Of course a real cock would be simply divine and may work even better! Let me know if you try this as I would love to watch!

If you are newcomer or unsure about anal play you might want to work up to a real cock or some of the larger toys. Start small and get bigger! It's very important to be relaxed and have lots of lube - particularly when you first try. Experiment with positions and find something that really excites and turns you on. Toys that vibrate can be brilliant and you can always ask me about the best kind to get if you are a beginner as I am always happy to offer instruction, guidance and recommendations.

One of the things I love to administer the most is an amazing prostate orgasm - which I can do without without even touching your cock! In fact, your cock or clitty can be safely locked away! It seems the longer you have gone without having a penile orgasm the more sensitive your prostate will be and the more likely you will be to have a prostate orgasm! Another way of having divine orgasms is to access the prostate via the urethra - using a urethral sound! I will write more about this in my next blog post...so keep a look out for that or come and chat to me about it.

I would love to show you my scrumptious new glove and even use it on you!

Thursday, May 13th 2021

Questioning Monogamy

I was socialised to believe that monogamous relationships were the ideal template for relationships. That you could remain faithful, committed and in love with one partner for life. Ideally this relationship would fulfill all of one's needs and desires. I should say that I did not subscribe to what I saw as the outdated institution of marriage, for anything more than practical reasons i.e. protecting your rights and financial interests within a partnership. However, I failed to question and deconstruct the underpinnings of monogamy itself and whether it is the best form of relationship?

Working as a professional dominatrix I have chatted to so many people online and in person whilst hosting sessions that I've come to believe that monogamy may very rarely exist in actuality and it may instead be an ideal/unattainable standard to which so often most of us fall short!

The idea of a monogamous relationship/marriage may in itself cause so many of the difficulties and problems within relationships as it promotes unrealistic expectations of which many of us are unable to meet! Therefore, however hard we try we are inevitably bound to be disappointed and let down by monogamy!

Should we seek new and more flexible ways of having relationships, such as polyamory or new types of relationships altogether - one example of which could be the Domme/sub relationship? Where Mistress gets to decide whether or not she has multiple partners! I would love to know what you think!

Friday, February 12th 2021

BDSM Villa, Spain

Meeting Mistress C and Maid April opened up wonderful opportunities for me as it enabled me to explore so many kinky experiences!

Mistress C owned a private BDSM Villa in Spain and before lockdown I was very excited to be invited to the BDSM Villa, an isolated and secluded retreat near Malaga. I arrived late at night after being picked up at the airport by Maid April. I was transported down a long windy dirt track which seemed to go on forever. At last I caught a glimpse of the villa glittering brightly like a glowing beacon on the hill top.

As we approached I was somewhat both shocked and elated to notice what looked like a medieval cage hanging from the ceiling - inside a man hanging in a gimp outfit. On a bench was a sub in bondage with a latex clad Mistress using his cock for her pleasure. The Mistress was using a suspension harness for leverage and it was apparent from the moans that both Mistress and slave were enjoying the experience. I spotted a number of couples in various latex and bondage outfits in various states of undress all still managing to look very kinky and glamorous!

I had a delicious week at the Spanish villa! I visited the beautiful galleries and cafes by day and at night we all went out en mass! A kinky bunch we proved to be, dressed in our naughty outfits! We were made very welcome sampling the night life, nearby in Torremolinos! In the early hours we would return to the villa for more debauchery! I could never return to a vanilla existence!

Tuesday, November 24th 2020

Doxy Dream

Good morning to all you miscreants Mistress is calling out to you!

One of my favourite toys to use in my dungeon has been the wonderful and extremely powerful Doxy vibrator. Made in Cornwall it was the perfect gift from one of my faithful subs Marsyas (You met him in a previous post). Marsyas thought I would like to use the Doxy to pleasure myself! Well, it does have a delicious Rabbit attachment!

One of the amazing things about this vibrator is that you can change the attachments and the anal attachment is rather perfect for administering prostate orgasms!

So, it is my very close companion and aid in all things anal! I know it looks rather large and for some of you that will be a delight and for others somewhat of a worry. For the anal virgins out there, let me reassure you I don't start off using this vibrator on newbies! I would begin with my latex gloved finger or my super little prostate massager. Those are great at getting the ball rolling as it were!

I have found a vibrator to be so versatile and many men don't realise that if they use it on the frenulum of their cock (The bit of skin that attaches the foreskin to the shaft) they can cum like Vesuvius! Large, small or pocket sized they make the perfect gift! Buy yourself or your partner a vibrator and come and show me on cam just how you use it! It will make my day!

Sunday, November 22nd 2020

Anal Hooks

Good morning my wonderful minions!

I thought I would introduce you to some of the items I have ready for use in my dungeon. Have you ever considered wearing an anal hook? Some of you may have not encountered one before. The ball end fits tightly inside your anus and the hook protrudes and a chain or lead can be attached. This means that Mistress has complete control of your movements.

It amuses me to think of you naked and chained to the wall of my dungeon or perhaps attached to a leash and being led around my back yard. I know it is a little cold this time of year! Both still viable options!