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Friday, December 8th 2017

Double Dom Duo Booking - Back to School

**The blog below was written by a client who had come to see us for a duo booking. Not a single word has been edited. Much love and thanks to the saucy client who requested we bring his ultimate fantasy to life. It was quite possibly the best booking I have done to date. Pics from this booking can be viewed in my private gallery - enjoy!**

''I thought before this day I had seen a thing or two...!

Trust me meeting Charlotte and Jozaline together is an incredible experience. They will take care of your every need and ensure your fantasy is fulfilled with gusto.

Having plucked up the courage to meet these two I could hardly contain my excitement. When the day finally arrived I had hardly slept for days, having fantasised over these two ladies for ages. My anticipation was off the chart.

Arriving at the door heart in mouth after a few delays and issues I was a bit stressed out and more than a bit nervous. I needn't have worried..
As the door opened I was invited in by Charlotte who was obviously as genuine as her profile suggests. Wearing a short black dress she looked casual and relaxed and her bubbly personality was instantly a pleasure to be around. Then I laid eyes on Jozaline, also looking very casual, having just arrived before me, in her stripy top and blue jeans. Instantly I was in lust she looked gorgeous very girl next door but with a confident sexual ora about her. I knew I was in heaven.

I took a seat and was offered a cuppa, perfect after 2 hours in the car.
At this point I could feel myself shaking like a virgin but the two of them chatted away to me about what the plan was and made me feel relaxed. It was also very obvious they were very comfortable with each other and their very different personalities complemented each other perfectly.

We discussed the Headmistress and Head Girl role play I had proposed and they took care to make sure they got the scenario down exactly right and seemed very keen to give me the best experience they could. They both seemed up for either role and genuinely seemed as excited as me. For me it was obvious Charlotte as Headmistress and Jozaline as Head Girl.

Next I was lead upstairs to chose from the extensive wardrobe. My mind was already turning to mush in the presence of these two incredibly sexy ladies, so I struggled to chose until I caught sight of a really sexy blue leotard. For me this is the sexiest thing a lady can wear they highlight a ladies curves so perfectly.

A few more items were chosen for Head Mistress. A white top and short black skirt. I was told the role play would commence after a warm up lap dance!! Fabulous..

I was sat at the end of the bed and the pair of them began to teas me and rub themselves against me whilst Charlotte made her black dress disappear and Jozalines Jeans and top hit the floor to reveal there sexy underwear. My goodness they were hot gyrating in front of me and teasing me whilst kissing and touching each other. I was foaming at the mouth, it was magical.

Before I knew what was happing I was striped and on the bed hands tied together with Charlottes panties and then they left the room to get into character. O my what was to come.

In walked Head Girl Jozaline, looking totally stunning wearing the blue leotard. Fresh from gym class. I could hardly contain my excitement. This head girl was very very eager to improve her grades, and was willing to do almost anything sir wished to get to those A grades, she soon got from a D, to a C, to a B and all the way to and A+ with her excellent oral skills. Licking, sucking and playing with little sir, edging him several times.

O no in walks Headmistress Charlotte, looking very sexy in her white top, short black skirt and glasses. She was not best please to see what her star pupil was up to and with a stranger impersonating a teacher! She was not happy!

Far from drawing a halt to proceedings though Head Miss instructed Head Girl to continue what she was doing. While I was told I was going to pay for abusing the star pupil. What ensued I have no words for. I was ordered to lick and suck there gorgeous bodies, eat pussies, arses, suck nipples and everything else you can imagine… before being repeatedly edged, spanked, whipped, spat on, licked, sucked ,snogged, even bitten and wallet raped! Yes I had to offer hard cash to stop the canning I got! They both seemed to relish the canning! (They were kind enough to ask about leaving marks before going for it, the pair of them were in total control at all times!)

All the while they took pictures and video of each other, it was so hot.

Before long Head Miss decide she was going to fuck me and while she did so she gave Head Girl a good finger blasting making her Head Girl cum on her fingers, which we all had a good taste of.

Head Girl was doing her best to please her Mistress eager to make her cum. At one point Miss was spitting in my face and mouth, while riding me cow girl on the bed with head girl fingering Head Miss’s arse. What a view it was with the mirrored Wardrobes.

I was doing my utmost to hold on, I didn’t want this to end not exactly being in shape Im lucky to cum once a week! But am good at holding it, it was ecstasy, and they kept in character throughout. Total pros.

A brief break from the antics, the lunch bell had gone! I was relieved my arse was stinging, and my cock throbbing. However these ladies were not done.
I was instructed to go down to the kitchen, while the girls got changed. Both now in black leotards, they looked utterly stunning, and what filthy smiles they had on their faces. They had me in total lust for the pair of them.

What took place next blew my mind even more. I was covered head to toe in custard, strawberries, whipped cream, and chocolate sauce too. The girls still playing there roles it was the best school lunch ever. They too got covered head to toe, and their laughter and giggles were only silenced when they had there tongues in each others mouths or mine. It was a proper messy orgy of debauchery.
I literary lost my marbles whilst licking Head Girls custard and Chocolate coated pussy and arse. It might have been the foul language from Head Mistress telling me what to do while she edged me that took me over to dream land. I am sure she rammed a finger up my arse, while she wanked me hard, it was all so intense its hard to recall all that was going on.

All too soon I could hold it no longer and whilst the girls played with each others messed up pussies and snogged each other (with more posing for the camera) I had to shoot my load all over them both. I had not cum that hard in 20 years.. It actually hurt the orgasm was so powerful!

These ladies were utterly amazing very erotic genuinely passionate, very porno, yet respectful and in total control. Either they are the best actress’s in the world or they were having as much fun as me. I was totally convinced by their role play and they made sure I was having the time of my life.

I was done, or so I thought!
Miss Charlotte was not going to allow me to shower and was going to throw me out on the street unless I was even more generous, she left Head Girl to negotiate with me while Miss went and got herself cleaned up.! I was totally fleeced and loved it, they had taken me over completely.

After we were all showered and dressed again I was offered another cuppa and we all had a chat. I was in total awe of these 2 ladies they hands down gave me the best time I have ever had.

I was sad to be leaving. But with keys in hand, coat on and being led to the door, I thought I cant leave just yet. I was almost prepared to give these ladies anything to stay with them for just a few minutes more.

They allowed me one last treat before I left, Charlotte, sat on the edge of the couch lifted up her dress and spread her legs nice and wide as Jozaline striped once more, then burred her face between Charlottes legs, lapping at Charlottes delicious pussy until she was soaking wet, I could take it no more watching these to together is a total mind fuck, I new I was going to cum again, and sure enough I came whilst the pair of them displayed themselves for me, totally heavenly.

I was drained like I hadn’t been in years and left with a spring in my step and a invitation to come back any time. Amazing!''

Wednesday, May 24th 2017

Domination is fun - try it, you might like it....

So, it has been a while since I last wrote a blog. Lets talk about Domination fun and the journey so far.
I have indulged, learnt from and gone on to train some amazing people since I embarked on my Domination journey. It seems I have some unique and deeply satisfying skills when it comes to keeping my clients and my trainees on their toes.

I have an amazing domestic slave who is reliable and hardworking. Actually I have 2. And both of them are worth their wait in gold for the assistance they have provided around my house. I have a findom client who's DJ'ing and butler skills will be utilised at my next house party too. I give thanks to them here because in person I would rather spit in their face and keep them on their toes.

Sissys - without a doubt they have added a smile and spark to my life that just can not be captured or enjoyed in a relationship. How I love to dress them up and make them my hideous little princesses. The sluts are great to abuse with my strap on. In fact, I have just taken the strap on virginity of a hot 21 year old sissy sub. He took a fair beating with my spankers too - and didn't gag on my ball gag - so obvioulsy I pulled it tighter. He had never tasted cum before - but obviously if I am going to allow any gratification during a session then it's obligatory for them to tidy up after themselves.

Degradation, humiliation and objectification are fun. How hideous for a small cock humiliation client to actually get a twitch in his pants - in fact how dare he wear pants. A cock that putrid and tiny surely should be bondage taped down to avoid insulting anyone? Cock n ball torture would be mission impossible - I would just be kicking 2 pathetic little peanuts. Ha ha

So what do I train? I train industry workers - cam girls, escorts and porn stars in domination - and break it down so they can learn how to get into the phsyche of the client. I mean, with so many forms of domination its imperative that Dominatrix's know how to deliver a top class service. Yes yes yes the subs are there to serve us - but if you think telling someone to shove a cucumber up their ass is domination, then you need to book in some 1:1 expertise as there's a whole load more fun to be had.

I offer double duo meets with a beautiful domme who has recently completed her training with me. An example of a training session we had was where I had one of my bitch slaves here. He was instructed not to look at my protege. She was instructed to go upstairs and make him look at her and then to slap him hard around the face and insult, abuse and degrade him. She was wary of doing this. So, her choices were to do it or suffer the consequences like my slave. She went upstairs and got her domme head on - and came back downstairs over the moon and buzzing from stepping and felling like a domme should. Empowered, in charge and confident that the service she is delivering is exactly what the client wants - but with an edge that makes that domme shine in her own right. My slave was so happy with my protege that he requested to see her again.

We now offer the best double domme sessions available. Why the best? Because they are tailor made and don't follow any rules inflicted by categorisation or stigma.

I now need to release my sub from my cage and put his chastity on before he is released to go home.
Good night beautiful subs, sissys and slaves and sweet dreams to my amazing trainees.

Mistress Charlotte x x

Monday, March 6th 2017

Doctor Kink

Update in a nutshell...

Firstly may I apologise for taking so long to write another blog. I have many stories and will start writing them pronto.

I received many enquiries regarding the 'To mistress or not to Mistress' blog. This curiosity was satisfied and I was in a part time arrangement for the majority of 2016. This arrangement was fun and intimate. I was fortunate enough to share some incredible times with an incredible man and we will remain close friends forever. I feel blessed for having that experience as a result of writing a blog and I thank you. (You know who you are 😘)

As this arrangement has now reached the end of its journey, I have had to consider which paths to embark on next.

As many of you know, from camming with me, I train many industry workers in how to form relationships on cam and how to offer an exceptional personal service. I use my counselling skills and techniques to educate girls into how to step into their clients shoes; and how to delve into their sexy phsyche. Why? Because, if all that you guys wanted was filth, you would click into porn and watch it for free. Cam is about interaction and a personal experience. I believe each of you are unique and that as service providers, we should make sure it's all about meeting your needs. I have taught over 100 cam girls how to do this.

I have decided to open this service to all. Industry workers, private couples, and those who simply want to experiment and engage in all types of Fetish and fantasy, in a safe, discreet, confidential and fun way. I tailor make all training and build upon your existing strengths. From new cam girls to those with years of experience, I have proved with every training session that there's always additional strings to add to your bow. Let's not bore our clients with the same stuff hey, let's get out there and add some depth and variety to the lives of our clients. For clients that have been with us for years, let's keep adding spice and excitement to our services. It keeps us fresh and keeps them excited and happy. Training is about embracing our kink and theirs!

In particular, for existing service providers, it seems I have found my niche in training in domination, roleplay and Socratic questioning. Why? Because domination doesn't mean telling a sub to stick objects in his bottom. It took me over 2 years to master the various categories of domination. It really is not just a case of telling someone what to do. I mean, first we have to establish boundaries. It's about trust, the willing handing over of power etc. I won't go into detail here but for more info on training, please inbox me.

Due to the uniqueness of my phsychosexual and sexologist experience mixed with my sex worker/ adult industry experience, I have been approached by several TV channels to appear in documentaries. I always declined their requests as I was uncertain about their editing and feel strongly about the industry and clients having a fair voice that isn't edited to make 'good television.'

I was approached several months ago by an independent film maker who enquirer if I would be interested in making a documentary film about my journey from Investment Banker to Doctor Kink. I have been given the nick name Doctor Kink and even though it makes me giggle, I guess it is actually quite a spot on description of some of what what I do.

Please note that I say "what i do." And not, "who I am." I feel strongly about stigma and work hard to reiterate that industry workers are individuals. What they chose to do for work, is not who they are. Just the same as clients are not to be put in a box - they simply have needs and parts of themself to be embraced rather than suppressed. Their fetishes and desires are not who they are, it's simply what they enjoy doing sometimes.

I hope to give a voice to both the industry workers and clients. It's time to raise the roof and shout from the top of our voices that Adult Industry, Fetish, fantasy, kink, is all about FUN. Society assumes it's all about the 3 letter word S-E-X. It's time to educate and hopefully de-stigmatise some of the predjudice surrounding adult interests. I hope to encourage society to embrace their kink. Let's face it, we all have a saucy side - sometimes it just takes someone like me to have the skills and minerals to encourage and support you to embrace it.

So, Doctor Kink is the path I will be embarking on next. Training and embracing industry workers and clients in whatever kink and Fetish they wish to develop.

Yes, I am offering my exclusive escort service again. To be honest, I really missed not seeing some of you when I was a mistress. I'm looking forward to seeing what magic this year brings; and who I will be fortunate enough to meet and make memories with. I apologise for those of you who have waited months to see me. And I know I frustrate you when I won't see more than 1 person in a day. He he. You know how much I love what I do and I am not sure that if I was to see 5/6/7 of you in a day that I would enjoy it and look forward to each and every encounter like I do.

Do not despair though peeps because I have found a way to meet you half way....
I have a protege Dominatrix in training and we have been working together for a few months. She is great, and just as saucy as me. We now offer duo Dom and duo escort meets - soooooo, on Saturdays we are able to offer quite a variety of services. Ranging from 3sums, double Dom sessions, and even group sex. Yes, I am always adding and spicing up the services on offer. Well, some of you have been with me for nearly 3 years so I need to keep you on your toes don't I. 😜

I finally wrote this blog as a result of receiving a royal telling off from some of you. I consider my bottom well and truely smacked! I promise to not be so quiet or aloof for so long in future.

Embrace your kink peeps, keep it real and let's have some fun. X x

Thursday, August 25th 2016

Hippy Path

I figured I should write a blog about some of my personal interests outside of the adult industry. This is gonna have some of you thinking I am mental and others wondering what planet I am on. Quite rightly so, because since last September, I discovered the ancient tradition and practise of shamanism.

In a very brief nutshell I went to see a medicine shaman back in September and explored alternative realities. This totally blew my perception of the world we live in. Having only complted a degree in counselling ad psychotherapy a year before, I wanted to know more about the pineal gland. I wanted to know why this spiritual and very significant part of the brain was not explored on the degree. My curiosity led me on a path which uncovered scientifically proven facts about consciousness and how to tap in to non ordinary realities with and without peruvian and tribal plants.

Almost a year on, I have had the honour of embracing ayahuasca and Changa. These experiences are not for the faint hearted. The outcome of some of these journeys have been profound and life changing - for the better.

So where have I been hiding and what have I been doing for many weekends this year? I have been sat or laid in a giant teepee with like minded folk. I am now on the medicine wheel - which means I have committed to self growth. The south is the fist part - it involves shedding the past the way a serpent sheds its skin. Sounds deep - it is. It has kept me out of trouble and led to some very healthy life style choices - which is why I am up at the crack of dawn most mornings and on cam long before many of you wake up.

I am releasing and embracing the hippy within. The journey is fascinating and the people I have met, varied and all beautiful.

Its called The Awakening. Synchronicity is fact and not a myth, and I am amazed how many people I am meeting who have heard or are on a similar path of discovery. For an insight as to what I have been doing, there is a free documentary on You Tube called 'The DMT Spirit Molecule.' It speaks in terms of science but is the best back to up to help me explain how and why I am on this spiritual path.

Namaste & Carpe Diem x x x
(Have a nice day, and seize the day)

Wednesday, June 22nd 2016

Escorting versus Camming

Helloooo

Its been a while since my last blog and that is for a few reasons. One of them is that I have been to Ibiza. I had a whale of a time and the break came at a time when I really needed it. I actually thought I was close to having a breakdown prior to jumping on that plane. I was too busy and hectic trying to juggle life and alternative work. Adapting to a new lifestyle choice has been challenging but I am getting there.

Now that I am back from holiday, the good news is that I am relaxed, on top form again and very happy. :)

Some of you may have noticed that I am available on cam a lot more. This is part of my alternative lifestyle choice. My availability for escorting is vastly reduced and this is due to my experiences a few months ago. I have been very lucky - I swear a little angel has popped into my life. Without his help and him being in my life, I have no doubt that I would have made myself ill trying to juggle everything. I am eternally grateful and feel blessed to have had the honour and fun I have had meeting and getting to know many of you.

Being an escort has enriched my life, confidence, self esteem, sexual and non sexual experiences, imagination, sense of self worth, and created a whole web of possibilities and roles that will stay with me forever.

So, now that my services are extremely limited, it is down to me to excite, tantalise and explore your sexual fantasies and fetishes on cam. Can this be done?
I hear you say ''But there's nothing like the real thing.''
''How are you gonna make me cum without even touching me?''
''Shes having a laugh''

I hear you
I hear you!

No it is not the same. But cam is not meant to be the same. What we get to explore and how we do it on cam is totally different. And the joy of that is that I get to explore and indulge in many other aspects of your sexuality. If its a quick wank and happy ending you are after, then, just like with my escorting service, I am not the girl for you.

Just like in the bedroom, I play with cam in the same way. I am here for you to try different stuff, delve into fetish and fantasy and what floats your boat in a way that plays with your subconscious and really steps outside of your usual boundaries. The session unfolds at a pace you do no foresee. I do not foresee it either, as until I really get to play with you, who knows what paths we are going to go down and what roleplay is going to unfold.

As this is a topic which is too difficult to describe, I am going to start posting some erotica stories. These are actually going to be based on real cam sessions. These are the sessions that get me going and make my clit twitch. The sessions where you really get to see me at my best and get to release those inner parts of yourself you didn't know resided in you.

Please do not underestimate the power of the mind. For your cock to twitch it has to have a thought. It is down to me to get those thoughts out and to cultivate them to grow into tension, sensation and a happy ending which is explosive. If you wanted porn, you would click into it and get it for free right, so I am now focused on sharing what I believe a cam experience should be. Personal, intimate, trusting, a surprise, never predictable and always fun.

For the cammers who wanna pop in and say 'Get your tits out, get naked etc.'' please save your credits. I do not do this within the first 5 minutes of you clicking into group. You will read from my feedback that what I do and how to get the upmost best from any cam experience with me, is to build a relationship and let me work with your pervations, turn ons and imagination. I use my phsychosexual therapy and sexoligist skills to bring to life scenarious that will keep your cock twitching long after our session ends. You will be sitting at home or at work and the roleplay will pop back into your imagination. This is what my service is all about. Its the best I can do to transit from meeting you in person - so for those of you I will no longer be meeting in person, maybe try cam. You have met me and know me well enough to know I like you to try new things, experiment ''If you don't like it, we wont do it again!'' He he (Charlottes famous last words).

My private gallery and movies were also all taken on real life bookings with real life clients - many of you are in them. I will endeavor to keep updating the gallery. I actually asked my friend to take some outdoor fun pics yesterday as I was walking my dog. His face was a shock when i said ''hold the camera there and snap away. I proceeded to get down on my knees and whacked his cock out. I wish I had the camera as his face was a picture! Ha ha. The pics may take on a different style going forward. I like real life and spur of he moment spontaneity as you know. I will just have to seek opportunities and think outside of the box to keep them unique, surprising and as varied as they are.

I know many of you was wondering why my phone number has been removed from my profile and why my availability has shrunk. I hope this answers some of your questions. And I hope you still pop in to say hello and let me know how life is treating you.

I shall end this blog here as next on my agenda is sharing some erotica with you as an alternative way to put a smile on your face and a twitch in your pants.

Have a great day, Charlotte x x x

Thursday, April 21st 2016

To Mistress or not to Missress?

Good morning,

I am in a bit of a quandry and I am considering an alternative life style choice. For my clients this will not be something they encourage as it means my escorting days will be over....

I am considering holding 'interviews,' with the intention of possibly coming to some arrangement with a person whose lifestyle and commitments are as hectic as mine.... or perhaps someone who is happy to have a 'Mistress/part time girlfriend.'

I hear you ask, WHY?
Let me explain... Throughout my life, I have been in many relationships which have been very happy - but lacking in some areas. The main area of lack has been my time and sense of fulfilment. I have actually ruined many relationships because I am a workaholic and love to travel. For example, I went to Mallorca for a week and came back 3 months later. Needless to say, my boyfriend didn't wait for me to return. That is actually a choice I now deeply regret.

Many people are happy with routine, TV and the odd take away as a treat. This is not enough for me. Since I was a little girl I have held a vision of being with someone I fancy, respect, admire and have fun, exciting times with. That person has great work ethics, loves to travel, spoil his lady and respects / loves her intently. I also see a boat in my dreams and have visions of us having lunch at a port and then getting back on our boat to make our work calls and do what we have to do to run our respective businesses. = My ideal work hard and play hard lifestyle with the man of my dreams.

Nice vision huh? So how do I make it real? Where do I meet like minded people? How do I attract these people into my life. I hear you bellow to me ''Not from being an escort or being on adultwork Charlotte!!'' Might I add I have only been in the industry a few years and this was to fulfil a sexual sense of adventure that was not fulfilled in relationships but which I am aware has fulfilled its mission and has, more or less, now served its purpose. Hence my need to move on to forming a different relationship.

For years I have had the amazing ability to attract 23 year olds. I am not kidding - for the last 8 years, each of my boyfriends have been no older than age 23. They look a lot older. (They must have had a hard paper round. In the last 3 months I have attracted no less than 6, 23 years old's into my life and it is not until we go on that first date and they declare their age that I put my head in my hands and start laughing. It happened to me again last night which is the motivator for this blog.

I made a joke years ago that being a Mistress would suit me down to the ground. I am more than happy to be in an unconventional relationship with clear boundaries and terms. I am not jelous and know exactly what I am proposing here. A taste of my dream is better than the ridiculous relationships I keep attracting. I just want good times, no pressure, and no resentment towards running my own business and enjoying the finer things in life (which my exes have not been able to offer me).

I will stop escorting, but will continue with my private practise and other business. I will not see other guys and will be loyal to the person I meet and have a mutual attraction with. What are my pre requistites for my 'ideal partner' in this sense? He needs to be between age 30 - 45. He needs to have a sense of humour, a sense of adventure, be passionate and be able to hold a conversation. It would be nice if he liked music as I love to dance. A nice body and handsome face would be an absolute bonus - however I live in the real world and appreciate there are no real life Ken Barbie dolls out there. Ha ha

I feel like saying 'applicants please send your entries on a pastcard to....'' ha ha

All jokes aside, can anyone help with my quest to actually form a relationship with someone who is above the age of 23 who may fulfil some of my desires above? Or do you know where I might meet such people? Or maybe there are agencies out there that I do not know about who 'match' chicks like me with guys described above? I do not know, hence my request for any advice - or men who would love to meet me with the possibility of us forming a relationship which does not jeopardise their happy life?

I look forward to hearing your comments. Even if it is just to laugh at my audacity. He he.

It might be prudent for me to add I am single, child free, totally independent and live a lovely life. This is not about being a kept woman simply after a free ride or sugar daddy. There is a lot more to me than you might first suppose from learning about me on an escorting site as you will read from my feedback and field reports.

I look forward to hearing and possibly meeting some of you, Charlotte x x

Saturday, April 9th 2016

Writer, Reporter, Stage or Film Production?

Hello Readers,

This blog is a little bit diff to the others. It is more a request for any budding writers to contact me. It has been said many times and for years that I should write a book. I have the title of the book and I have the real true life stories to go in it. I just simply do not have the time or writing skills to get pen on paper.

The book is based on my life. And before any of you start hooting ''Who on earth does she think she is?'' Let me just say, once again, today, I have been told I need to write a book.

I have been to over 80 countries, stayed with tribes, been held at gunpoint, been lost, seen and experienced life in a way many can not imagine let alone live, feel and breathe. Just in answer to a simple question of ''Have I been to Rio?'' I responded with a story of how I had been to the Farvellas and when I stepped out of the land rover I was met with a machine gun pointing to my head until teh local confirmed I was with him.

In Thailand, 19 years ago, I accidentally stumbled upon a monks garden and wandered into an interesting doorway which happened to be in his home. He proceeded to welcome me in and although language was a barrier, we sat in silent meditation and he gave me a candle to light and proceeded to bless me. Looking back now, extremely surreal.

In India, I awoke on an overnight train to men stroking my hair lilke some kind of animal. My baseball cap had fallen off and where I thought I was more hidden on the top bunk, my loose hair soon became a flag calling unwanted attention.

The travelling aside, we have the lifelong education of homestudy and, more recently the university degree I did which took me to hell and back. Becoming a qualified counsellor is no easy task. A therapist can only take a client as far as they have been themself. I take mental health very seriously and threw myself balls deep into the course which very nearly put me on the edge of a breakdown.

Then we have the spiritual journey I am currently on. The Shamanic Path and the discoveries this adventure is mapping out for me. Synchronicity and Coincidence being a contradiction of terms.

Some of my story you will know from reading my blogs. The emotional, mental and physical challenges and outcomes, you do not. This blog is not a space for me to summarise a lifetime of shock 'coincidences', adventures, dreams and falls; but more me dipping my toe in the water to feel out what direction and steps I need to take to finally get this lifetime of stories documented.

One writer told me my story was more like a film and asked if I had I considered that option.

Finding a writer seems like the easiest place to start - unless any of you can guide me into approaching film directors? There are so many aspects of my life that even doing a timeline is baffling me at present. I need someone with the necessary skills to make this dream a reality please. I have the stories - I just need someone to write them so I have something to produce for writers and screenplay people to peruse. Bit rubbish really as nothing written will ever come out as captivating as when I actually tell the stories in that moment of jokes or conversation with my friends. I just dont know any other way of capturing it?

I am out of my depth and would appreciate any constructive ideas or pointers in the right direction pretty please.

Thank you for reading,
Charlotte x

Wednesday, March 16th 2016

Mister GFE who lost his virginity - again!

Ok, so this blog is immense and an honour to be writing.

Over the course of the last 6 months I have had the pleasure of building a relationship with a guy who has some amazing and admirable qualities. We have had many GFE's which has included overnight stays in London and dinner at Jamie Olivers restaurant, many beautiful gifts which have often brought tears to my eyes due to the care and effort put into choosing them. Just last night we went to see Derren Brown at the theatre.

The booking was made for 2 hours in the evening and so I thought I would ask him if he would like to arrive earlier and accompany me to the show. Being the spontaneous, last minute.com and 'live for the moment' kinda chick that I am, I was aware that I might have left it too late. :/

Luckily for both of us he could make it! Mister GFE told me he had not been spontaneous for years and that it felt good doing stuff on a whim..... so it looks like my sense of adventure might be rubbing off on him. Good!!! If something makes you feel good and alive, do more of it! Raise those vibrations and increase your energy field so that more of it comes into your life : )

During the intimate time at home we caught up over a glass of squash, ha ha. I don't keep alcohol at home and most people drive to me so squash is always on he menu. There was a radiant glow about Mister GFE. He was comfortable, confident, relaxed and really at peace with himself. It was beautiful to see as our previous encounter and brought up some stuff which was uncomfortable for him. As usual, the effects of our time together had left a lasting presence and through some reflection on his own life nad how he was feeling, he had made some massive changes. The results emanated from him like an aura you just want to immerse yourself in.

We went to the bedroom. Sensual fun was had. As we lay there with smiles on our faces Mister GFE told me that he had not had sex for 16 years. It was a massive mile stone for him and for me an absolute honour and privilidge to share with him. The pressure that he was putting on himself when we first met suddenly made sense to me. When people put this kind of pressure on themselves it causes blocks within. Was the reflection and life changes an important part to do with his ability to do what he had missed and obstained from his life for 16 years? We will never know. Whatever the reason, it does not matter, what matters is that the star of the show was him last night, not Dereen Brown.

Mister GFE found his own magic.
I am still buzzing for him.
And, I am left wondering how Darren Brown does his stuff and if the participants in the show are random or pre selected and made to think they are random. Or are they actors?

Acting is another blog I should do. We are all the stars of our own shows. Lets make the beginning, middle and end as magical and fun as we can hey?

Follow your bliss peeps and do what matters to you. It might not come straight away, but have faith and know that if you want anything enough, it will come to you.

Mister GFE you are an inspirational and amazing role model to have in my life. I have learnt a lot from you and just wanna say, 'Cindy and Paul are looking at the brochure to plan the next adventure!' ;)

Mmmmmmmmwah x x x

Friday, March 4th 2016

Top Pro, Sexologist, Escort, Psychotherapist...

Professional Title.

What's in a job title?
What does it all mean with regards to the services that, it seems, only I can offer?

I have been asked many times if I can recommend someone to provide services when I have been unavailable. I had tried referring some of my clients to some very beautiful and lovely ladies. The feedback was ok but clients later preferred to wait to see me. I have collated their comments and tried to ascertain what makes me different.

On a recent booking I met a lovely guy who once loved seeing escorts. He later entered a relationship and came to me at a time in his life when his sex drive had dropped - and he wanted it back. After the booking I recieved a text thanking me for the time we had together and said things had got better. He labelled me 'Top Pro' which made me chuckle. He said that the encounter could have damaged him further had he had seen someone else and he has booked to see me again.

I thoroughly enjoy the originality and diversity of each and every encounter so regular clients never get bored (and more importantly, nor do I.) There are other ladies that enjoy it - so back to the question of 'what makes me so different?'

I watched the TV programme on fetish which, in my opinion, was portrayed in an excellent light. The people commenting and presenting the show were psycologists, psychotherapists and sexologists. I am obviously a counsellor and psychotherapist - but did not know what a sexologist was. After looking it up, I discovered that I am actually a sexologist! I have studied sexual development, orientation, relationships, gender identity, Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Trans gender theory. I have also done alot of research into Stigma and the classification of different sex workers. The physcal, disabled and dysfunction of sexuality are also areas I am educationaly qualified in. More importantly, I have 3 years experience in the adult industry and have liased with a professor in Canada who has 20 years experience researching the sex industry.

I had never taken into account that my education, personal disposition, attitude and 3 years of experience in he industry makes me the 'Top Pro' that I am. I have been approached by TV companies in the past to portray a differing view to webcam girls to what is normally seen on the shows that have been aired so far. I declined them. I have been approached by other professionals to train them in exploration, unconditional positive regard, compassion, congruence, empathy etc. However, are these not inherent ways of being?

Many specialised fetishes, fantasies and tabboo require more than someone just going through a mantra of words and actions. In fact, doesn't everyone deserve the time and respect to develop and explore at a pace that suits them? I am guessing that the qualities I have, I take for granted.

I would like to say thank you to my clients, uni professors, friends, family and colleagues. Without all of you I certainly would not be the person I am today. My career and business in the Adult Industry has definately made me a better person and the buzz I get from making people happy is now filtered in a safe, exciting and innovative fashion.

I certainly had no idea, when I secretly entered the adult industry 4 years ago, as a dancer, to fund my psychotherapy degree, that I would be amalgamating all skills and would be using them in the empowering way that I do.

Empowering.... for who?
To be honest, just about anyone I come into contact with. I speak and feel passionately about the services I offer. We all know it isn't just about the physical act and we know that there is such diversity which resides under the label of 'sex.' Unfortunately some 'sex' has poor images linked to it due to the narrowmindedness and fear of some of society. I am driven to make sex fun again. Be it sweaty gentle wrestling with face sitting, latex tantric teasing, roleplay and uniforms, tie and tease, foot tickling, etc etc. Sex is and should be fun! Even if there is no physical stimulation, our senses can be heightened and excited so much that its better than the normal missionary position before bed time.

I am thinking of starting a You tube channel, lets bring the fun back into exploring our sexuality. Lets bring excitement, entertainment and a sense of adventure into our normal every day lives. WOuldnt it be fantastic if more people had fun with sploshing? If more people dared to step outside of their comfort zone and instead of judging cross dressing and domination etc, if they actually tried it? Coorrrrr, imagine that, people who were brave enough to try new things instead of judging those who are liberated and fulfilled and excited by trying new things.

I would like your feedback please peeps. If you think a You tube channel might be fun, anything you might like me to include and see. Its gonna be fun! This is the whole point isn't it? I am thinking Bikini Bake Off, fetish stories, interviews, and I will share a psychotherapist, sexologist and Top Pro point of view on this as I now realise that all of this matters. I have thought about asking someone else to deliver it, but the general consensus amongst my friends is that only I can?

Lets have some fun with this!
Thinking caps on peeps.
I wanna make 2016 a year for more people to embrace sexy fun!

Charlotte x x

Tuesday, March 1st 2016

Trip to India

Namaste!

Yo may have been wondering where I had disappeared to? I treated myself to a little holiday in India. Being prone to January blues, it gave me something to look forward to and certainly lifted my spirits. As well as the usual good food, constant sun and fabulous culture, the reason for the trip was to continue on my spiritual path.

I have been to India before, but this trip was totally different. My friend and I had some reflection and inner exploration we wanted to do. On a detox from Christmas, as soon as we got there, we partied hard!!! Ha ha ha. We was too excited and as soon as we heard the music at Anjuna Market, we stopped shopping and started dancing.

The rest of our time there was just as spontaneous. We lived in the moment, for the moment and made the most of meeting people from all backgrounds each of whom added there own spark to the trip.

Now to the nitty gritty - do I have white bits? Yes! There is no naked or topless bathing in India! Want to see them? You most certainly may. Did I get lucky on holiday? No I didnt - I was there for personal reflection and to indulge in inner peace. To reground myself and be fresh for 2016. Am I horny as hell? You bet ya - I have missed the fun I have with you guys and girls!!

Char x x x

Thursday, January 14th 2016

Back on top form!!!

All the best and sauciness for 2016 everybody!

January blues got to ya?
(They had got to me.....)
It's taken until today for me to feel powerful and 100% back in the game.

I have just had a fabulous booking with an amazing guy.
It reminded me of how extraordinary and open minded my clients are. Each of you fill a void. Previously lacking in excitement and stimulation all I need is my AW client fix and I feel rejuvenated and re-ignigted. I shine and get my mojo back thanks to you guys and girls.

I am currently dancing around my kitchen and am feeling immense gratitude for having the honour of getting to know each of you.

So what was the twist in todays booking that's inspired this blog?

Well, I decided last week that I'm ready to get back into the dating game. (I have an uncanny knack for attracting 23 year olds; which is a delight - but as my friends say ''Char, he's too young!!'' After which they shake their head and p*ss themselves laughing.

So, I decided maybe I should try dating ladies instead of delinquents. Last night I thought ''yeah, download a couple of dating apps, see what's going on in the real world...''

Well, loe and behold, my client today actually 'found' me through looking for a suitable date for his female friend as she is also bisexual and was ready to start dating again!

Apparently my profile stood out for both of their individual needs. Ha ha. I had no idea of my clients agenda until he arrived and we got to know each other. He later showed me a pic of his lady friend. ''She's hot!'' I screeched when he showed me a pic.

I am currently sitting here with a silly grin on my face waiting to hear if lady K would like to go on a date. I feel nervous, excited, and like a prat to be sharing this to be perfectly honest. Ha ha.

Anyway, I have uploaded a free 'feel good' video for all of you to enjoy. If my geeking off dance vid can spread a little bit of January happiness and makes you smile or laugh then good! Laugh at me or with me, just play it and tell me that even on a bad day it wouldn't make the corner of your mouth twitch.

(The cock twitching vids are in my private gallery, you cheeky little monkeys!)

Here's a little toast to feeling happy, powerful and sexy again... 2016bis gonna be a great year for all of us who want it. Lets up our game and all indulge ourselves in doing what really truely makes us happy - even if its a £5. dress and dancing around the kitchen ;)

Mmmmmmmwah
Charlotte

Tuesday, January 5th 2016

Pitfalls and Pricks

Firstly, I would like to wish you all a very happy new year.

I hope 2016 is filled with fun, laughter and joy. Be that in the bedroom, the car or at one with nature ;)

I decided to write this blog as over the festive period, as well as having some amazing times, there were some disheartening times too.

Whilst some of us were busy getting excited buying presents for loved ones; or out celebrating at Christmas parties; there were some who had too much time on their hand whom targeted working girls as their source of nasty entertainment. Their boredom cost us girls in time, money, travel and maybe childcare costs. But, more importantly, it costs us in our faith of mankind, our sense of safety and self esteem and has resulted in me changing the way I work and how willing I am to see new clients.

Let me tell you of some of the games these tricksters, shallow and ugly people play. Each pitfall is told from my own experiences:

A booking in Colchester... Colchester is an hour and a half drive from where I live. I have some wonderful clients in Colchester and so after 3 months of this guy trying to book me, I decide to visit him. I arrive at the street. I knock on the door. No answer. I see a lady walking towards me. I ask if I am at the correct address. She says yes. I realise we have both been victims. I tell her the truth. I am a working girl and have driven 1.5 hours to this address. I am duley sorry and inform her someone had sent me there. She tells me I am the 3rd escort and that the previous ladies had also travelled for hours. I get in my car. The sicko is watching me from a window close by as he sends me a text jibing me and saying how lovely I look and details my clothes and car. I go back to the address and give the phone number to the lady being harrassed by him. I inform her thhat if she goes to the police and gives then the number that they should be able to do door to door till they find the twisted man. She had a little boy. Surely she would want this to stop? She seems unbothered by working girls knocking at her door. Was she part of it?

Consequence of this is that I will not do long distance bookings unless 50% deposit is paid and my ravel costs are covered with a min 2 hour booking. Sorry to those genuine people who didn't waste my time but it's new personal rule of me coming to see you in 2016.

I was so upset and riled by this experiece that I had to share it. I cant help but onder why working girls shoudl be a target to people. It makes me shudder and brings back home just how dangerous our job can be. What if the next lady to go to that address gets dragged down an alley? On this note I will end the blog. There are more stories of time wasters...

Oh like the Jewish man who sold me his sob story and wasted hours of my time and gained free therapy and nothing but honesty from me. He had the cheek to message me last night wanting me to listen to his woes and prodeeded to speak about his religion with nothing but venom with such emotion that I was sucked in and wanted to help him. He has had to be blocked as his timewasting and drain on my emotions finally got to me.

It is a shame that a handful of people use alternative proffesions to get their sordid kicks.

As a believer in the power of our mind and imagination - and the teachings of The Secret by Rhonda Byrne, I would like to suggest you read the book or watch the film. In stead of coming from a place of harm, bitterness or hate, we can all live a much healthier or happy life coming from a place of love, joy and happiness. It takes practise. ''What we think about, we bring about.'' Maybe try making a dream board of what you do want to transpire in your life. Surround yourself by the beauty of nature, get back to basics. Do one thing a day that makes you happy. Do and say things which fill you with joy. Maybe say some positive affirmations.

But please, do not target working girls as the focus of your bad energy. There are some lovely people on here who can provide a much happier and nicer experience - if you will just let us.

I send love and healing to those who deserve it and to those sometimes who do not. Open your hearts and accept it man, the world will be a much better place if more of us were to practise this.

May the joy be with all of you for 2016!
Happy new Year! x x

Tuesday, December 15th 2015

Threesome Birthday Fun

I am sitting here with a massive silly grin on my face. #

This evening I had the absolute pleasure and delight to be a gorgeous ladys birthday present. They arrived, a bit nervous and with a bottle of bubbly in hand. The lady said she has been to a strip club and ben quite excited - but had never had a dance.

Being an ex dancer and having a pole in my house, it seemed rude not to start the fun on the pole. The lady went from nervous and cross legged to open legged and kissing me. I was so turned on. This was birthday ladys first experience with a female - obvioulsy this turned me on even more. SHe was hot and oozed sex appeal.

The three of us went upstairs and the dance continued while her boyfriend released his already hard cock. This couple were sooooo sexy and had told me they have been having a great time getting to know each other. They shared some liberating stories about themselves - which made me beam. If only more couples were as open and intimately adventurous as they both were together.

When Birthday lady went down on me, I actually thought it was my birthday. I am still wondering if I really was her first female as her touch gave me tingles and I can feel myself getting wet as I write this.
(For those of you who know me, we both know how exciteable I am, he he)

The passion and intensity grew.. we all got involved and there was no awkward silence or uncomfortableness. I wanted Birthday lady to fuck me. I had a double ender and really wanted her - but did she want to? This is not about me remember, I must wind my neck in and see what the client is thinking and feeling. F**k it, I made the suggestion.... BINGO... Birthday Lady was up for trying her hatrick of new experiences this evening.

Lets just say I cum hard as I watched her ride me in the mirror with her boyfriends cock in my mouth. Mmmmm, excuse me while I get my perv on just recapturing that moment in my memory.

I am getting carried away now and am going to have to save this before I get timed out. Lets just say that its a birthday that I hope she will never forget as she has ignighted the bi part of me which has not been devoured for several months.

Sexy ladies and men, keep enjoying yourselves and sharing the love. This little chick loved it - and I hope birthday chick and boyfriend did too. While you are eating your meal smelling of me and I am writing this blog smelling of you, I wish you a very happy birthday x x

Tuesday, December 1st 2015

Mister Harry Potter

It has taken me a couple of months to decide whether or not this story should be shared. It played on my mind for weeks before the booking and has long stayed with me as one of the most important and heart warming bookings I have done to date. I hope from this we all take a moment to appreciate our health and everything we may take for granted....

A few months ago I get a call from a client I have previously seen and had much fun with. He had been approached by his friend to ask if he knew anyone who might be able to help him grant his son one of his wishes.

The son, we will call Harry Potter - as he was a magical, beautiful young man who'se innocence, courage and strength will forever be in my heart. Harry Potter had a terminal illness and was of legal age to enjoy sex. He was a virgin. And one of his wishes was to experience an intimate encounter.

Having had a life threatening illness myself, (in my early 20's,) I knew how important it was to see the client and not the illness. I knew from my counselling training to arrive and to chat about what the client wished to speak about and to feel the way for what his comfort zone was.

It was a surreal experience for me. We were giggling and I made sure I went at his pace. This had to be the best delivery of service of my life. I may be the first and last intimate encounter Harry ever had. I wanted to make sure I caused no harm and made it feel as special and as fun as losing your virginity should be.

We all know that in real life, the majority of the population probably would rather forget that first encounter. I certainly do, it hurt and I didnt have a clue what I was doing. I was nieve, one of the oldest in my school to finally lose my 'V Plates' and was petrified.

I wanted better for Harry.

At the end of the booking I gave him a massive cuddle and sent healing thoughts and energies his way, hoping beyond all hopes that he had enjoyed himself and that I had in no way let him down or disappointed him.

I really wanted to send a text to his Dad to see how Harry was feeling after I had left. The counselling fundamental rule of ''If you can do no good then certainly do not do any harm,'' echoed in my head. Would it have been more ethical and best practise to decline the booking and leave Harry with his fantasy?
Was he ok or had the experience left him feeling muddled?
Did I deliver his dream and fulfil his wishes?

A while later a text came through.
It was Harry's Dad.
Deep breathe in, Charlotte...

I was thanked for the kindness and compassion showed to his son.
He said Harry didn't go into detail but Harry was very happy and still smiling when he returned home. Harry was relaxed and his father had managed to find a way to grant his terminally ill's son wish.

The strength, courage and family bond in such difficult and challenging times are an inspiration to me. The unconditional love, respect, empathy and congruence I felt from the first call to last text has filled my heart and soul with warmth.

Its a beautiful world out there with beautiful people in it.
May love and compassion always be in our hearts.

And Harry Potter, I hope you have the most wonderful Xmas ever, keep smiling darlin, cos I am sure you enrich many peoples hearts like you have done mine.

Charlotte x x