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Sunday, November 18th 2018

Treating Kitty

As some of you know, I thoroughly adore all things cabaret, drag and burlesque … and this autumn, I’ve been in my element. First of all I’ve seen performances by two of my favourite drag queens. Both shows were glorious combinations of glitter, fabulousness and filth. Right up Kitty’s ally.

And then to top it all – last month, I finally found myself at a performance of one of my all-time inspirations: Dita von Teese.

My friend and I dolled ourselves up for the London Palladium (over a glass or three of prosecco). Even waiting at the theatre doors was an event in itself, as Argyll Street was overtaken by queues of dazzling burlesque fans – turned out in everything from immaculate recreations of Dita’s unique vintage style, to steam-punk outfits, to tail coats and evening gowns. Not to mention, an enviable number of pairs of louboutins.

I could harp on for ages about the immense talent and sensuality on stage – the sheer silk, champagne and feathers, a million Swarovski crystals, the choreography and the tease of skin … still, it wasn’t just about staring at gorgeous humans taking their clothes off. Don’t get me wrong – there was plenty of that. But at the same time, one of the aspects I loved the most is what Dita and her fellow performers offered to the audience: not so much the objectification of bodies, but an invitation to join them in celebrating sexuality, sensuality, and beauty in all its forms. And to find as much joy, humour and freedom in that celebration as they so clearly do.

This resonates so strongly with me. I’m a firm believer that we all deserve the chance to explore and express our own sexuality (with mutual respect and consent of course) – to find the freedom to enjoy oneself and one’s body, and have an amazing time doing it.

And I think Dita puts it beautifully in her introduction to the program when she describes burlesque as “an antidote to conventional ideals of beauty”. She goes on to explain that her goal for the show

"... is for fans to leave inspired to embrace their own distinctive beauty and sensuality."

Dita von Teese, "The Art of the Reese" Burlesque Revue

This goal is, without doubt, most thoroughly achieved!

So – other than fantasizing about how I can get hold of my next Dita ticket, what comes next? Well, I’ve got another treat lined up for myself, since I’m staying in London again in a couple of weeks – this time to see you lovely people, as well as catch up with some old friends.

I’m really excited about this next visit as I haven’t been able to offer in-calls in London for a few months, so I can’t wait to get back to one of my favourite cities. And hopefully I'll have a few stories to tell afterwards too … xxx

Wednesday, December 13th 2017

Fancy a good workout? ...

--And by workout, I literally mean exercise! ;) Although, let’s be honest – a great sex session is often just as good for you as an hour in the gym – if not better.

A lot of clients ask me if I work out, and the answer is most definitely yes. I love that people dig the results - but that's not why I do it.

I was an exercise bunny long before I started escorting. I’d even go so far as to say I’m a bit of a fitness “nerd”. ;) I started out with yoga – then the gym – and now I try to go to at least one dance or exercise class six out of seven days a week. And at this time of year, now that the days are getting darker, I crave my workout classes more than ever.

Now don’t get me wrong, like any playful kitty, I’ve got my exhibitionist side and very much enjoy showing off my body – and having it enjoyed. But hand on heart, I’ve never been able to get into exercise to control how I look – or less still, because “I ought to”! I tried when I was younger, and it just never stuck. There are some virtuous souls who manage it, but I could never stay motivated, when the goal was appearance or long term benefits in the future.

So why do I do it?

Because it feels amazing! I feel instantly 200% more me: I have more energy, my mood is up, and it just keeps the volume turned down on the noise of the world.

That’s not to say it’s easy. There are times in some of my classes, where the instructor is pushing even harder, I’m dripping wet … and at that point, I’ll happily admit that I’m questioning some of my life-choices! But afterwards, without fail, I’m on top of the world – the buzz from the happy-chemicals makes me feel invincible.

In short, exercise is my happy place: it’s one of my essential forms of stress-relief (no prizes for guessing some of the others!) And it is, by far, the most effective method I've found for keeping my mental health at its best. Everyone has mental health, after all, whether or not we’ve ever experienced mental illness – and it’s just as important to look after, as overall health. And for me, exercise is an essential part of that. Which is why it's even more important to me, with the shorter colder days!

It's definitely not everyone’s jam – plenty of my friends are horrified by my exercise schedule. So it never bothers me whether other people work out or not – if you enjoy it, and it gives you the same boost and buzz, fantastic! If not, what's important is having your own ways of taking care of the happy chemicals and finding stress relief.

And whatever you do - keep doing it! ;)

And then of course, after dancing or working out, I’m all set to enjoy the darker evenings, preferably with a mulled wine or mulled cider – and hopefully a wonderful someone to cuddle up to as well.

Monday, November 13th 2017

November Plans - or, Kitty's Adventures So Far

In just over two weeks, it’ll be six months since I first signed up to AdultWork. It feels like longer, but also like just the other day. I started off thinking, let's see how it goes, maybe I'll just do it as a filler job – a temporary thing. But almost as soon as I started, I thought, “why didn’t I do this sooner?!”

Hand on heart? Honestly, so far, it’s been way more rewarding than I could’ve imagined – so much more exciting, strange, fulfilling and fun. I adore being able to give people what they need or want, to make people happy. I think I’ve been incredibly lucky with the wonderful gentlemen I’ve met on here – you’ve given me the best introduction to escorting that I could hope for. And when I get to spend time with my absolutely gorgeous regulars, it really doesn’t feel like work at all! You know who you are. ;)

So now I find myself, almost six months in, excited for my next trip to London (next week!) – looking forward to the festive months, eager to find out what adventures I’ll have next. And very excited to see what 2018 will bring!

I’m especially looking forward to next weekend. I’m combining a personal trip with my next visit to central London. First of all, I’m travelling to Hampshire to catch up with my ex-girlfriend. We split up way before I started escorting but have stayed extremely close friends. We’re staying in a little cottage in the middle of nowhere – absolutely ideal, as I’m still a country girl at heart. Lots of chilling out, putting the world to rights over wine, and a long overdue catch-up. She’s so excited to hear about my work, and I can’t wait to tell her!

Then on Sunday, I’ll head back up to the City of Westminster. I might be a country lass, but I do have a thing for big cities, especially London. And I’ve had nothing but the best experiences meeting you London gents – each trip just gets better. I'm staying for two nights and can't wait to meet some more of you.

So - thank you AdultWork for an amazing first six months. I can't help but feel that the next six are gonna be even better still... who wants to help me get the ball rolling?!

xxx Kitty xxx

Wednesday, October 18th 2017

Why I love longer liaisons

When I’m arranging to meet someone, I often get asked “but what do you like?” There are various replies I could give, but above all, what I’ll enjoy the most depends on the person I’m meeting, and how we click. Each interaction is as different as the individuals I meet; and so what I enjoy is going to be determined by our particular dynamic, our chemistry once we’re face to face.

In fact, one of the things I love about this job is the connection on every level. Intellectual, personal, physical – all these ways of connecting are intertwined for me. And my love of connection is why I’m a sucker for having a good two hours or more in each other’s company. Of course, life and practicalities don’t always allow for it, but this is my ideal scenario.

Let me explain.

For as long as I can remember, I’ve loved meeting people. Even people I never see again in my life. It sounds cheesy, but I’ve always gravitated really quickly towards that something about a person that fascinates me, that I find beautiful, unique, just damn cool: their quirks, what makes them tick … something I can’t even pin-point. I don’t consciously try to do it – it’s just always been me. Before I know it, I’m genuinely digging a virtual stranger.

Maybe you’ve had this sort of experience too: you get on a crowded train, end up sitting opposite someone, and you strike up a conversation. You spend the next couple of hours thoroughly enjoying their company – seeing a glimpse of reality through their eyes; perhaps you’re intrigued by how their mind works, or you're absorbed by exploring their stories, their world, and sharing yours. In short, you have a connection. Maybe sparks fly. Maybe it’s purely platonic.

Eventually the train stops, and you go your separate ways.

I love these encounters – and I don’t think their importance is determined by whether or not you keep in touch, by whether it lasts for months or simply hours. You can enjoy them for what they are, in the moment. For me, the connection is very real, and I feel very lucky that I'm able to connect so easily with so many different individuals.

And this is one of the many things I adore as an escort, and why my preference is for longer meetings and dates. I want to get to know you. And whilst I don’t need days or months to find that click between us, I also want to relish the process, to not force or rush it. I want to enjoy the intellectual connection, to give you my full focus, even it’s the only time we meet. In fact, my absolute preference is for meetings of two hours or longer: I adore getting lost in the encounter, being in the moment, loving the process of connection. Not having to rush, taking our time to get to know each other, to find genuine intimacy.

Monday, August 21st 2017

In love with London

I only started escorting this year, and still consider myself a newbie. So far, I've mostly stuck to out calls. However, I've recently started touring and I'm really loving it. Right now I'm in London - and I've been especially excited to tour here.

So why am I excited about London? Well, perhaps you'd exist the obvious things: great night life, so much to do and see. And don't get me wrong, those are bonuses - but it's not actually that.

Call me a hopeless romantic, but I've just always had a thing for London. It's so intense, but so patchwork, so fragmented. And the blend of people here is like nowhere else. Everyone weaving in and out of each other, each person with their own story - stories overlapping, brushing past each other. Even in the most mundane of ways. And I just love that shit. Even in its most everyday form.

And I've always been in love with the London skyline and cityscape too - I went for a walk last night along the river, across Tower Bridge. It was a rainy, but beautiful for it. All the lights were doubled up in the reflections, water spraying off tires making that constant distant-wave sound. Even on a Sunday night, so many people on the pavements. So many snippets of conversations, leaving me wondering what their story was.

So today I'm doing one of my favourite things - people watching. I'm in my hotel coffee shop with my mocha, listening out, watching for stories. And if I get chatting with someone - all the better. I love that exchange of getting to know someone you've just met, someone you may not see again - briefly being given a glimpse of their world. Whether it's in a coffee shop, on a train ... London is full of these stories. That's one of the many reasons I love it. And why I'm always excited to be here.