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Monday, May 20th 2024

Three things Timewasters love to do

Hello my loves,

I've had an unprecedented amount of time-wasting clients over the last few days! It's an annoying yet typical part of the job but I thought I'd list a few ways weirdos love to try to wind us escorts up (It also gives a bit of catharsis for me, hehe)

1. Sexting right from the off

Listen, I get it, you want me to get you all hot and bothered before we meet - but flirting is miles apart from what these guys will do. They'll send the most repulsive messages, trying to go for the shock factor - with no intention of ever booking me. These people get blocked very quickly.

2. Getting me to explain what's on my advert

If you try to get in touch and have no idea what I look like, where I'm based, what my rates are, etc, then I have news for you; you might be a timewaster! This type loves to get me to explain in great detail what I offer, all before hanging up the phone and never hearing from them again.

3. Haggling

This isn't a Moroccan bazaar sir, and my prices are not negotiable LOL. If you want to haggle get down to the local market and do it over the price of artisan cheese! Honestly, even if I did agree to a lower rate, would you really still expect a good service? When it's your body on show being told you aren't worth a price is a shitty thing to hear (:-D)

And there we have it! Honestly 99% of you all are gems but if you know anyone who likes to do the above, give them a swift smack in the head from me <3

Sinfully yours,
Sophie xx

Friday, May 17th 2024

Things you may not think we escorts do

Hello my loves,

A few of you have been curious as to what else I get up to when I meet clients, aside from the naughty stuff!

Well, I'll let you in on three things I can confidently say I do every day that you might not have thought of:

Build intimacy

While a lot of you want to just jump right into things, believe it or not, most of my clients want to get to know me a little and let some sparks fly before we rip each other's clothes off. Building a connection before we explore each other can make the experience even better, and I'm all for it :)

Offer emotional support

I can't tell you the amount of times I've had a client crying on my shoulder after telling me their problems. This job has taught me that men can really avoid letting their feelings out, particularly to those closest to them for fear of being judged. The anonymity we offer means they feel safe telling us things they might not otherwise, a bit like a therapist! Some escorts (hopefully to include myself!) move into counselling after they retire for this exact reason.

Behind the scenes

Fellas, I don't just roll out of bed like this (I wish) - I have hair, make-up, nails, lashes, gym and more, just to look my very best for you guys. When you see me, just know I've tried my best to look as good as I can; although some days this is easier to do than others :(

So there you have it - if you see me and have read this, let me know what you think :) I'll be waiting.

Sinfully yours,
Sophie

Sunday, December 17th 2023

It's Christmas!

It's the most wonderful time of the year!

Dearest pals, clients and everyone in between,

As the year draws to a close it is a great time for reflection and counting one's blessings. I am particularly blessed to have such a fabulous network of friends who are always there for me, who help me out and boost me up when I need it. You girls are the cat's pajamas.

My dear clients, it's been a hell of a year. From my tonsillectomy in January when I was convinced I was on death's door, my first holiday abroad in 5+ years in August, to the untimely death of Sugar in September, you guys have been here through it all. I thank you from the bottom of my bum. I would say heart but my bum is bigger. :)

Special mentions go to certain individuals: The one who is transitioning (I am so proud of you and watching you flourish with my help makes me beyond happy), The one who brought me far too many gifts as a make-up for not making a previous session (You didn't have to go to all the trouble, but I still think of you when I use the lovely perfume and make-up brushes), The one who is always bloody late (But I love you for it, your quirks and random silly injuries always make up for this lol!), The one who gave me 100+ pairs of stockings and a narwhal squishmallow (Narwhal the Narwhal is very safe and taken care of, how do I contact you for joint custody? LOL).

And to everyone I haven't mentioned, my regulars, and people who have offered me continued and unwavering support - THANK YOU! :)

Merry Christmas my lovelies,

All my love

S xx

Thursday, October 26th 2023

What I love in and out of the bedroom x

Hello again lovelies,

Today is my escorting anniversary! I want to thank all my amazing clients, other escorts in my friend group, and you, dear reader, for your support over the years. Here's to many more years of naughty fun xx 🍾

Now, I thought I'd do a quick post on what I love, in and outside the bedroom, from my clients. There isn't enough time to include it all, so please do ask if you're unsure, but these are just a few of the things I love to see/hear/smell etc:

1. Politeness. I cannot tell you how much I love speaking, touching, and spending time with someone who treats me with respect. Remember, escorts are humans too, and a "please" or "thank you" goes a long, long way...!

2. Gentleness. Listen, I love a hard fuck as much as the next girl, but let me warm up a bit first LOL! Girls are sensitive souls you know ;). My favourite thing as foreplay is being gently stroked, especially in unusual areas (Spoiler: if you stroke the back of my thighs or arms while kissing me, I will melt). If you treat me like a queen, I'll treat you right back, king <3

3: Conversation. My friends will tell you I can talk for England (Or the Netherlands). My favourite part of being an escort is getting to meet so many interesting people, you included! Please (within reason) ask me anything, tell me anything and even sing to me anything you like.

So there you have just a few of the things I value most in my clients - honourable mentions go to personal hygiene, punctuality and generally not fucking me about - but these are no-brainers!

Anyway, I'm off to open the champers, speak to you soon xx

Soph <3

Wednesday, October 18th 2023

Confessions x

I've been an escort for almost four years now, and I've seen and done it all. I've met some amazing people, and I've also had some pretty negative experiences. But overall, I wouldn't trade it for anything. I genuinely love what I do, I love meeting new and interesting people and I love making new friends.

I find escorting really empowering. I'm in complete control of my own body and my own business. I set my own rates, I make the rules and I am in complete control. I'm able to meet people from all walks of life, and I learn something new from almost every booking.

Of course, there are also some downsides to being an escort. One of the biggest challenges is dealing with the stigma. Many people still view escorting as a dirty/illegal/immoral job, which IMO is such a bloody outdated way of thinking! I want to be clear: escorting is a real job, and it's one that I take very seriously. I'm proud of the work that I do and the things I have achieved :)

Another challenge is that sex work can be demanding, both physically and emotionally. It's important to set boundaries and to take care of yourself. I regularly check in with myself and if, on a certain day, I feel tired/not up to my impeccably high standard of working, I take a personal day and fill my day with things I feel like doing instead :) My hobbies when I'm not working tirelessly to please you include (but are not limited to): cheating winter and getting a beautiful tan on a sunbed, playing computer games to unwind, walking in the woods near my house to clear my head and watching the entirety of Netflix (I think we are all guilty of this, am I right?)

I also study Psychology & Counselling in my free time, when I can handle the heavy subject matter. Ask my about my mind melting powers! LOL. I cannot tell you why you like a certain fetish, or why it is appealing to others, but I love giving it my best educated guess so feel free to ask me :)

Overall, I'm grateful for the opportunity to work as an escort. It's a challenging but rewarding job, and it's allowed me to live life on my terms. I am grateful for the friends I have made along the way, both clients and other working women and I would not trade my life for all the money in the world.

If someone wrote down all of the things I have achieved and showed it to me 5 years ago, I would have never believed them! Funny how things work out :)

Forever grateful for being a tease, temptress & business owner.

Soph <3