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Sunday, December 1st 2024

The Wake-Up Call I Never Saw Coming

Dear Gentle Readers,

I hope you’re staying snug and toasty in this chilly, frost-nipping weather—and maybe even sharing some steamy moments with your lovers or long-term partners. Whether it’s hot cocoa or cosy cuddles, I trust you're savouring every sensual second.

Now, fair warning: this one’s a bit of a long read, so grab your favourite drink—coffee, tea, or something stronger if it’s that kind of day—and settle in. My hope is that you find real value in this post. That’s why I’m sharing it, despite the vulnerability it brings up for me.

Before diving in, let me make something crystal clear: everything you’re about to read is 100% real. It happened earlier this month. I could’ve kept it all bottled up, but I felt compelled to write about it. Why? Because if even one person going through something similar finds it helpful, then it’s worth every keystroke.

To keep things crisp and coherent, I’ll be using some abbreviations throughout:

1) w = my current long-term partner (female). Nope, it’s not short for “Wolverine.”

I picked this letter because it’s tied to the word I use to describe her. If we’ve met at least three times, you’ll know exactly why!
2) kate = the pseudonym I’m using for a woman I met through an arranged FFM (Female-Female-Male) meet earlier this month. Spoiler alert: it was hands-down the most mind-blowing threesome experience I’ve ever had. No exaggeration.

A quick backdrop: I’ve been in this industry for a while, but my focus has always been on meeting male clients. This was a decision w and I agreed upon early on. I’ve never entertained female clients or FFM meets before. Dating apps? Not my thing—who has the time or energy? Between juggling career goals and life’s curveballs, it’s just never been a priority.

But at the start of 2022, w gave her blessing for me to explore FFM meetings since we hadn’t been intimate. I even offered to book a female escort to scratch that particular itch, but scrolling through profiles on AdultWork back then was terrifying. Let’s just say it didn’t ignite confidence.

So, the idea fizzled out—until May 2023, when a sincere enquiry came through from a lovely married couple.

I’ll never forget my first FFM experience. I still vividly recall kissing the wife—her first time kissing another woman! Knowing I was her “first” made the moment electric. (And yes, it definitely got me wet—let’s keep it real here, people.) Since then, I’ve had other enjoyable encounters, but the meeting earlier this month set a new standard. It was extraordinary. Why? Because both individuals—particularly the lady, kate—were not only gorgeous but also mindful, spontaneous, and refreshingly authentic.

Truth be told, I felt a powerful mental and physical attraction to kate. The moment I opened the door to greet them, my inner monologue screamed, “Holy fck, she’s stunning. I can’t wait to explore every inch of her body, slowly!” Of course, on the outside, I kept my professional cool, making sure they both felt at ease and welcome.

I won’t go into explicit details—it’s not necessary. What stands out most isn’t the physical experience, but the emotional aftermath. Specifically, the lingering feelings I had for kate. Let’s clear the air: It wasn’t “falling in love.” It was pure, unfiltered infatuation.

And just so we’re on the same page, falling in love (at least in my book) is something deeper. It’s when you see someone’s flaws and imperfections in all their glory, yet still want to be with them. I’ve had several men in this industry declare their "feelings" for me, and I’ve sat beside them, helping them untangle their emotions. Nine times out of ten? It’s infatuation, not love.

<:::::Availability: 6 DAYS ONLY for December 2024:::::>
Speaking of connections, here’s my upcoming availability for incall engagements in the City:

Sunday, 8th Dec: Afternoon/Evening Only
Monday, 9th Dec: Daytime Only
Tuesday, 10th Dec: Morning Only

Wednesday-11th to Friday-13th Dec: Unavailable for 3 Days [Both Incalls & Outcalls]

Saturday, 14th Dec: Evening Only from 6:30pm onwards
Sunday, 15th Dec: Morning/Evening Only
Monday, 16th Dec: Morning Only

Tuesday-17th Dec 2024 to Saturday-4th Jan 2025: Unavailable for 19 Days [Both Incalls & Outcalls]

[Festive break including my birthday]

Picking up where I left off...

After the encounter, I found myself hoping that kate and her male friend wouldn’t reach out again. I thought it would be easier to process my feelings in peace and, hopefully, move on quietly. But life had other plans.

The gent messaged me a lovely note of gratitude, to which I responded with an equally heartfelt (and rather lengthy) reply. A few hours later, kate herself messaged me privately, having obtained my number from him (they’re friends with benefits, not a married couple—something that, admittedly, intensified my feelings).

When kate proposed an “exchange of skills”—she teaches massage, after all—my brain couldn’t help but go there. Who gets a massage fully clothed these days? Let’s be real. All I could think was: “She wants to see me naked again!” (Cue the awkward inner monologue and a slight spiral of emotions.)

I suggested meeting the following week to address my feelings in person. My plan? A mature heart-to-heart where I’d lay everything on the table and she could confirm that what I was feeling was just infatuation. Surely, that would help me let it go. Unfortunately, she was abroad and couldn’t meet. Then came the dreaded radio silence—her lack of response to my last message was a pretty clear “no thanks” to even a casual coffee.

Ironically, her silence turned out to be a blessing. It gave me the space to flip into full geek mode. Suddenly, I was combing through research papers, asking myself questions like, “What happened to logical, pragmatic V? How did I turn into this emotional, clingy mess?” (Cue laugh track here, because I was definitely laughing at myself.)

In my deep dive into the human psyche, I uncovered something important: my feelings for kate weren’t just about her. They were a wake-up call. They pointed to a truth I’d been avoiding for years—I wasn’t truly happy in my long-term relationship with w.

Without spilling every detail, I’ve realised I’ve been living with someone who’s taken on more of a motherly role than a romantic partner. W hasn’t shown much interest in personal growth or evolution, while I’ve been on a constant journey of self-improvement—reading books, listening to podcasts, attending trainings.

Let me give you an example: if a lightbulb goes out, I’ll replace it myself to save time and keep things moving. Same goes for any other household repairs, cooking, gardening, or laundry. I’m all about efficiency and growth, but I hadn’t stopped to notice that my relationship wasn’t growing with me. My internal struggles needed an external catalyst to wake me up—and in this case, that catalyst was kate.

Let me share one of the most profound insights I’ve gained through this journey:

According to Dr Joe Dispenza, everything we experience begins in the quantum field, where our thoughts and emotions interact with infinite potentials. When we elevate our frequency—by aligning our thoughts, emotions, and intentions—we start to see the world differently. This expanded awareness shifts how we act and who we allow into our lives.

Often, this shift reveals relationships or environments that no longer resonate. For example, someone who once dismissed a friend or family member as “just negative” might come to see them as caught in self-sabotaging patterns. The question then becomes: Do I stay in this dynamic or step away to preserve my energy and growth?

For many, the answer is a form of withdrawal—temporary or permanent—not out of superiority but out of necessity. Protecting your newfound vibration is essential for maintaining growth and well-being. It’s about honouring yourself and the work you’ve done.

Now, you might be wondering: “But V, what if kate writes to you again? Wouldn’t you be tempted to see her?”

The short answer? It’s not happening. Even if she did reach out, I’d politely decline. I’d thank her for being the catalyst for a realisation I’d been avoiding for years, but I’ve grown past that moment.

Here’s the takeaway: If someone hasn’t reached out to you in a while, take it as a cosmic nudge—a sign from the universe that this relationship may not align with your highest good, whether it’s romantic or platonic.

And the next time you feel that rush of infatuation with someone new—whether sex is involved or not—PAUSE. Think before you fire off that overly eager message (guilty as charged!).

While I don’t regret my own experience, as it led me to fascinating research and profound personal growth, it’s a reminder to reflect before reacting.

<:::::Final Thoughts:::::>

Life has a way of presenting us with the lessons we most need, often disguised as unexpected encounters or emotional upheavals. Whether it’s through kate, a new crush, or an old friend, these moments serve as mirrors, reflecting parts of ourselves we may have overlooked.

Take these experiences as opportunities to grow, to question what truly makes you happy, and to realign with your highest self. Every infatuation, heartbreak, or awkward text you wish you hadn’t sent is just another chapter in your story—a chance to learn, laugh, and love yourself a little more.

So, gentle readers, the next time life throws you a curveball, embrace it. Who knows? You might just end up on a fascinating deep dive into quantum fields or discovering a truth you’ve been avoiding for years.

Until next time, take care of your energy, cherish your growth, and always, always replace your own lightbulbs. lol

With all my affection and anticipation,
Vee

xx

______________________________________________________________________________

....If this is the first time you found my profile please take the time to Introduce yourself when sending me your first message.

I GUARANTEE YOU that my method of asking these questions is to be respectful towards you. This is for me to evaluate if we are a MATCH.

a) Your actual age or age group (Ex: late 20s, early 40s, mid 50s etc.).
b) Your gender (male or female).
c) Ethnicity/background (Ex: Half Jamaican/Half Japanese, White/Irish, White/French, Black/Gambian, Black/Namibian, British born with Indian heritage etc.)
d) Do you smoke cigarettes?
e) Any known disabilities (physical/developmental/behavioural/sensory impaired) that I should be aware of?
f) What kind of encounter are you longing for? Choose 1 of the following:
Option 1: Porn Star Experience
Option 2: Bondage, Discipline, Sadism, Masochism
Option 3: Transactional-type of Girlfriend Experience
Option 4: Slow and very sensual GFE with with gentle touches, light strokes, and passionate French kissing.
g) Do you mind if the lady would choose an outfit that she would like to wear during the meet or you like to request an outfit as it is "essential" for you?
Please be truthful :)
h) If you don't have a feedback from reputable escorts - Are you happy to move forward with the 50% deposit via Revolut (or bank transfer)?

:::Your choice in question (f) will help me determine if we are compatible and whether I feel comfortable proceeding with arranging our meeting.:::

*OUTCALLS :::> NEW Clients*:
I DO NOT accept Outcall proposals with NEW clients. :::> Unless you transfer a non-refundable 50% deposit via Revolut/Bank Transfer. This is still applicable to you even if you have numerous feedback.

*INCALLS :::> NEW Clients*:
No Feedback = No Meeting :::> Unless you transfer a non-refundable 50% deposit via REVOLUT App prior to our meeting. I've been using it successfully on several occasions and each transaction has been SECURE and DISCREET. The app will NEVER disclose the full name of the sender. I'm happy to send you my referral link (via SMS/WhatsApp/Telegram) if you don't have an account yet. Bank transfer is available as a last resort if you're unfamiliar with how Revolut works.

I have always maintained utmost discretion with my clients' details out of respect for their privacy, and I expect the same in return. It's a matter of mutual respect.

Thank you for respecting this process and for valuing my time!

I hope that our schedule will match either, 8th, 9th & 10th December!

Thursday, October 31st 2024

Mindful Encounters: How Duality Shapes Connections

Dear Gentle Readers,

Are you all excited to start a brand new month (November)? I certainly am! With plenty going on in my personal and professional life (outside Adultwork), I’m feeling ready for the energy and opportunities this month brings. A quick note about my schedule, as I’ll only be visiting the City for 12 days, meaning my availability in December is limited to three days. Consider this your early notice! lol

For those interested in meaningful, respectful connections, here’s a little more about my approach to intimacy and connection within this industry. I hope this blog post provides insight and inspires thoughtful conversation about finding balance in both personal and professional lives. Let’s explore together.

Finding Balance: Autonomy and Intimacy in the Adult Industry
How do we reconcile our desire for genuine connection with the need to maintain personal autonomy in a professional setting?

In a world where career ambitions and personal satisfaction often feel at odds, balancing intimacy with independence is essential. Within Adultwork, emotional connection and professional exchange frequently meet, creating a unique dynamic requiring mutual respect and clear boundaries. For me, this balance means prioritising discretion and mutual respect, allowing relationships to remain fulfilling yet aligned with my personal values.

These principles ensure that connections remain both meaningful and unburdened by expectations beyond the agreed terms. With intention and integrity, it’s possible to honour both the light and dark aspects of human nature, allowing us to fulfil personal needs while respecting professional standards.

Embracing Duality: The Light and Dark in All of Us
Is it possible to find harmony between our nurturing instincts and our need for freedom?

As humans, we naturally embody a duality—a blend of qualities that drive us to connect while also safeguarding our independence. This duality, though challenging, enables a unique harmony, particularly in Adultwork. Here, we respect both the desire for genuine connection and the understanding that intimacy doesn’t always require commitment. Non-committed interactions, when thoughtfully engaged, provide freedom while also fulfilling our need for connection.

1) Non-committed connections: These allow for closeness without attachment, respecting both connection and independence.
2) Professional alignment: Clear boundaries help both parties maintain their goals, enhancing well-being and growth.
3) Intentional intimacy: By approaching connection with care, we satisfy both personal and professional needs in a harmonious way.

Crafting Intentional Connections: My Seven-Question FAQ
To help ensure a meaningful experience, I put great effort into crafting my profile to attract clients interested in a tender, thoughtful, and sensual approach to intimacy. Over the years, I’ve refined my preferences and created a welcoming space for those who genuinely seek this philosophy.

Why the Seven-Question FAQ?
My seven-question FAQ acts as a respectful filter, helping ensure a deeper connection by focusing on meaningful interaction. When someone skips answering these questions, it signals they may be more interested in a transactional exchange, which doesn’t align with my goals. I’m here to provide an outlet for intentional, respectful connection. The FAQ allows both me and potential clients to establish mutual understanding from the beginning.

1) Intended for genuine connections: Each question helps screen for clients who value respectful, intentional intimacy.
2) Setting boundaries: The FAQ is meant to build trust and clarify expectations.
3) Fostering engagement: Thoughtful responses indicate a shared interest in a respectful, mindful experience.

<:::::Availability: 12 DAYS ONLY for November & December 2024:::::>
Speaking of connections, here’s my upcoming availability for incall engagements in the City:

Sunday, 3rd Nov: Contact me for my availability (Afternoon/Evening Only)
Monday, 4th Nov: Contact me for my availability
Tuesday, 5th Nov: Contact me for my availability (Morning Only)

Wednesday-6th to Saturday-9th Nov: Unavailable for 4 Days [Both Incalls & Outcalls]

Sunday, 10th Nov: Contact me for my availability (Afternoon/Evening Only)
Monday, 11th Nov: Contact me for my availability
Tuesday, 12th Nov: Contact me for my availability (Morning Only)

Wednesday-13th to Saturday-23rd Nov: Unavailable for 11 Days [Both Incalls & Outcalls]

Sunday, 24th Nov: Contact me for my availability (Afternoon/Evening Only)
Monday, 25th Nov: Contact me for my availability
Tuesday, 26th Nov: Contact me for my availability (Morning Only)

Wednesday-27th Nov to Saturday-7th Dec: Unavailable for 11 Days [Both Incalls & Outcalls]

Sunday, 8th Dec: Contact me for my availability (Afternoon/Evening Only)
Monday, 9th Dec: Contact me for my availability
Tuesday, 10th Dec: Contact me for my availability (Morning Only)

Wednesday-11th Dec 2024 to Saturday-4th Jan 2025: Unavailable for 25 Days [Both Incalls & Outcalls]

Why Thoughtful, Grounded Clients Matter
Those who resonate with this mindful approach often bring fresh perspectives and enriching conversations. Small talk can reveal surprising insights and new ways of seeing the world, enhancing my understanding of human nature. These grounded, thoughtful interactions foster unique connections, free of attachment or expectation, offering both freedom and closeness—a valuable combination in any industry.

For those seeking this level of connection, the experience is much more than a transaction. It’s an opportunity to enjoy a rare, meaningful exchange while respecting each other’s time, intentions, and boundaries.

Final Thoughts: Creating Connection with Integrity
In Adultwork, fostering connections that honour both autonomy and intimacy requires intentionality. Through principles of respect, discretion, and emotional intelligence, both individuals can find value and growth. Embracing duality—the light and dark within each of us—enables relationships that respect freedom without isolating us from meaningful connections.

As we enter this new month, I look forward to connecting with like-minded individuals who value presence, respect, and genuine exchange.

Thank you for reading, and here’s to a November full of balance, connection, and growth!

With all my warmth and anticipation,
Vee

xx

______________________________________________________________________________

....If this is the first time you found my profile please take the time to Introduce yourself when sending me your first message.

I GUARANTEE YOU that my method of asking these questions is to be respectful towards you. This is for me to evaluate if we are a MATCH.

a) Your actual age or age group (Ex: late 20s, early 40s, mid 50s etc.).
b) Your gender (male or female).
c) Ethnicity/background (Ex: Half Jamaican/Half Japanese, White/Irish, White/French, Black/Gambian, Black/Namibian, British born with Indian heritage etc.)
d) Do you smoke cigarettes?
e) Any known disabilities (physical/developmental/behavioural/sensory impaired) that I should be aware of?
f) What kind of encounter are you longing for? Choose 1 of the following:
Option 1: Porn Star Experience
Option 2: Bondage, Discipline, Sadism, Masochism
Option 3: Transactional-type of Girlfriend Experience
Option 4: Slow and very sensual GFE with with gentle touches, light strokes, and passionate French kissing.
g) Do you mind if the lady would choose an outfit that she would like to wear during the meet or you like to request an outfit as it is "essential" for you?
Please be truthful :)
h) If you don't have a feedback from reputable escorts - Are you happy to move forward with the 50% deposit via Revolut (or bank transfer)?

:::Your choice in question (f) will help me determine if we are compatible and whether I feel comfortable proceeding with arranging our meeting.:::

*OUTCALLS :::> NEW Clients*:
I DO NOT accept Outcall proposals with NEW clients. :::> Unless you transfer a non-refundable 50% deposit via Revolut/Bank Transfer. This is still applicable to you even if you have numerous feedback.

*INCALLS :::> NEW Clients*:
No Feedback = No Meeting :::> Unless you transfer a non-refundable 50% deposit via REVOLUT App prior to our meeting. I've been using it successfully on several occasions and each transaction has been SECURE and DISCREET. The app will NEVER disclose the full name of the sender. I'm happy to send you my referral link (via SMS/WhatsApp/Telegram) if you don't have an account yet. Bank transfer is available as a last resort if you're unfamiliar with how Revolut works.

I have always maintained utmost discretion with my clients' details out of respect for their privacy, and I expect the same in return. It's a matter of mutual respect.

Thank you for respecting this process and for valuing my time!

I hope that our schedule will match either, 3rd, 4th & 5th November!

Monday, September 30th 2024

A Therapeutic Escape in a Fast-Paced World

Dear Gentle Readers,

Hope you are all excited as we transition from the vibrant energy of summer to the gentle embrace of autumn? A beautiful reminder of life's natural rhythms.

The changing leaves paint our world in warm hues, inviting us to slow down and appreciate the beauty around us. This seasonal shift offers a perfect metaphor for the topic we'll explore today: the importance of slowing down in our intimate lives and the profound impact it can have on our well-being.

The Power of Slow, Sensual Love-Making

In our fast-paced world, where instant gratification often takes precedence, there's immense value in rediscovering the art of slow, passionate, and sensual love-making. This intimate "dance" isn't just about physical pleasure; it's a therapeutic escape that can rejuvenate our mind, body, and spirit.

Why Slow Down?

1) Deep Connection: Slow, intentional intimacy allows partners to truly connect, fostering emotional bonds that extend beyond the physical.
2) Stress Relief: Mindful sexual experiences can significantly reduce stress levels. A study published in the Journal of Health and Social Behavior found that satisfying sexual experiences were associated with lower stress levels and improved overall well-being (Ditzen et al., 2008).
3) Improved Self-Awareness: Taking time to explore and communicate during intimate moments can lead to greater self-awareness and body acceptance.
4) Enhanced Pleasure: Slowing down allows for a more intense build-up of sensation, often resulting in more satisfying experiences for both partners.

The Importance of Selective Intimacy

While the benefits of slow, sensual love-making are clear, it's crucial to be mindful of who we share this experience with. Intimate encounters involve a significant exchange of energy, and the effects can linger long after the physical act.

Research-Backed Reasons for Selectivity

1) Energy Exchange: Research in the field of bioenergetics suggests that during intimate encounters, partners exchange subtle energies. This concept, while not fully understood by Western science, aligns with many Eastern philosophies and practices (Chia & Chia, 1986).
2) Long-term Satisfaction: A longitudinal study published in the Journal of Sex Research demonstrated that individuals who were more selective in their sexual partners reported higher levels of sexual and relationship satisfaction over time (Mark et al., 2015).

Assessing Your Intentions and Partners

Before seeking a sensual partner, it's essential to be aware of your own intentions. Ask yourself:
1) Are you looking for a quick release or a deeply fulfilling experience?
2) Do you want an encounter that will radiate through your entire being?
3) Are you prepared for the energy exchange that comes with intimacy?

Remember, even brief encounters with partners who carry toxic energy can affect you negatively. Pay close attention to how you feel after an encounter. Do you feel rejuvenated and alive, or do you experience regret and emotional depletion?

The Modern Dilemma: Easy Access vs. Quality Connections

In today's world, finding sexual partners has become increasingly easy through dating apps and websites. However, this ease of access doesn't necessarily translate to quality connections.

It's crucial to differentiate between:
1) Casual Encounters: Often driven by immediate physical needs or desires.
2) Mindful Connections: Focused on mutual growth, respect, and genuine intimacy.

:::Let’s Connect:::
Speaking of connections, here's my upcoming availabilities for incall engagements in the City:

Sunday, 6th Oct: Contact me for my availability (Afternoon/Evening Only)
Monday, 7th Oct: Contact me for my availability
Tuesday, 8th Oct: Contact me for my availability (Morning Only)

Wednesday-2nd to Saturday-5th Oct: Unavailable for 4 Days [Both Incalls & Outcalls]

Cultivating Transformative Experiences

When approaching intimate encounters, set the intention for both you and your partner to feel like new people when you part ways. This mindset shifts the focus from mere physical gratification to holistic well-being and mutual growth.

Consider these aspects:
1) Energy Alignment: Seek partners whose energy resonates positively with yours.
2) Communication: Openly discuss expectations and boundaries before engaging in intimate acts.
3) Mindfulness: Stay present during the encounter, focusing on the sensations and emotional connection.

Conclusion: A Dance of Mutual Transformation

Intimate encounters have the potential to be profoundly transformative experiences. By approaching them with intention, selectivity, and mindfulness, we can elevate these moments from mere physical acts to therapeutic escapes that nourish our entire being.

As you navigate your intimate life, I encourage you to seek partners and experiences that leave you feeling renewed, respected, and deeply connected. In doing so, you'll not only enhance your own well-being but also contribute to a culture of more meaningful and fulfilling relationships.

Remember, in the dance of intimacy, every step, every touch, and every moment has the potential to be a catalyst for personal growth and mutual transformation. Choose your dance partners wisely, move with intention, and let each experience radiate through your entire being.

Attune to your body, nurture the connection, and let the health benefits flow effortlessly.

Wishing you all cherished, intimate experiences ahead. Here’s to a life filled with deep connection, and radiant health.

Excited to share more moments of slow, meaningful connection with some of you soon.

With warmth and anticipation,
Vee
xx

______________________________________________________________________________

....If this is the first time you found my profile please take the time to Introduce yourself when sending me your first message.

I GUARANTEE YOU that my method of asking these questions is to be respectful towards you. This is for me to evaluate if we are a MATCH.

a) Your actual age or age group (Ex: late 20s, early 40s, mid 50s etc.).
b) Your gender (male or female).
c) Ethnicity/background (Ex: Half Jamaican/Half Japanese, White/Irish, White/French, Black/Gambian, Black/Namibian, British born with Indian heritage etc.)
d) Do you smoke cigarettes?
e) Any known disabilities (physical/developmental/behavioural/sensory impaired) that I should be aware of?
f) What kind of encounter are you longing for? Choose 1 of the following:
Option 1: Porn Star Experience
Option 2: Bondage, Discipline, Sadism, Masochism
Option 3: Transactional-type of Girlfriend Experience
Option 4: Slow and very sensual GFE with with gentle touches, light strokes, and passionate French kissing.
g) Do you mind if the lady would choose an outfit that she would like to wear during the meet or you like to request an outfit as it is "essential" for you?
Please be truthful :)
h) If you don't have a feedback from reputable escorts - Are you happy to move forward with the 50% deposit via Revolut?

:::Your choice in question (f) will help me determine if we are compatible and whether I feel comfortable proceeding with arranging our meeting.:::

No Feedback = No Meeting : Unless you transfer a non-refundable 50% deposit via REVOLUT App prior to our meeting. This app is very secure and discreet so I will NEVER know your full name. I'm happy to send you my referral link (via SMS/WhatsApp/Telegram) if you don't have an account yet.

Thank you for respecting this process and for valuing my time!

I hope that our schedule will match either, 6th, 7th & 8th of October!

Monday, September 2nd 2024

Slow Lovemaking for Cellular Health

Dear Gentle Readers,

I hope you're doing well and feeling great! You might have noticed that today’s post is arriving on the 1st of September, rather than yesterday-31st of August as I initially planned. The past couple of weeks have been quite hectic, leaving me with little time to write. However, I wanted to make sure this post was truly worth your time, so I put in the extra effort to make it especially insightful for you, your lovers and anyone keen on enhancing their immune function and cellular defense.

Just recently, I had the pleasure of reconnecting with a few clients I hadn’t seen in years. They were surprised by how much younger and healthier I look, and naturally, they wanted to know my secret. One of the key reasons, I told them, is that I’ve always embraced the art of slow lovemaking. It’s a practice that not only deepens emotional connection but also offers incredible health benefits. And today, I’m excited to share with you just how this beautiful, mindful approach to intimacy can improve your immune system and fortify your body’s cellular defenses against illness.

In today's fast-paced world, where stress and anxiety often take a toll on our health, the importance of intimacy and connection cannot be overstated. Slow, sensual lovemaking is more than just a way to bond with your partner—it's a powerful tool for enhancing your immune system and fortifying your body's cellular defenses against illness.

In this blog post, we'll explore the science behind this connection and how taking the time to engage in mindful, unhurried intimacy can lead to better overall health.

1) The Science of Intimacy and Immunity
At its core, slow lovemaking fosters a deep emotional connection between partners, which in turn triggers the release of various hormones and chemicals that are beneficial to our health. One of the most significant of these is oxytocin, often referred to as the "love hormone." Oxytocin is known for its role in promoting feelings of closeness and bonding, but it also has a direct impact on the immune system.

Studies have shown that oxytocin can reduce inflammation and lower cortisol levels, the stress hormone that, when chronically elevated, can weaken the immune system. By reducing cortisol levels, oxytocin helps to create an internal environment that supports immune function and allows the body to more effectively combat infections and diseases.

2) The Role of Stress Reduction in Cellular Health
Chronic stress is one of the biggest enemies of a healthy immune system. When we're stressed, our bodies produce higher levels of cortisol, which can lead to a state of chronic inflammation. This inflammation, if left unchecked, can damage cells and tissues, making us more susceptible to illness.

Slow lovemaking, with its emphasis on relaxation and connection, is a natural antidote to stress. When you take the time to engage in slow, mindful intimacy, you allow your body to enter a state of deep relaxation. This relaxation not only lowers cortisol levels but also promotes the release of endorphins, the body's natural painkillers, and mood enhancers. As stress levels decrease, the immune system is freed from the burden of chronic inflammation, allowing it to function more effectively.

3) Enhanced Circulation and Cellular Defense
Another benefit of slow lovemaking is its impact on circulation. The gentle, sustained physical activity involved in slow, sensual lovemaking increases blood flow throughout the body. This enhanced circulation ensures that oxygen and essential nutrients are delivered to cells more efficiently, supporting cellular repair and defense mechanisms.

Improved circulation also means that immune cells can move more freely throughout the body, quickly reaching areas where they are needed to fight off infections. In essence, slow lovemaking helps to keep the body's defense systems in optimal condition, ready to respond to any threats.

:::Let’s Connect:::
Speaking of connections, here's my upcoming availabilities for incall engagements in the City:

Sunday, 8th Sept: Contact me for my availability (Afternoon/Evening Only)
Monday, 9th Sept: Contact me for my availability
Tuesday, 10th Sept: Contact me for my availability (Morning Only)

Wednesday-11th to Saturday-14th Sept: Unavailable for 4 Days [Both Incalls & Outcalls]

4) Building a Stronger Immune System Through Connection
One of the most profound aspects of slow lovemaking is the deep sense of connection it fosters between partners. This connection goes beyond physical touch; it encompasses emotional and mental intimacy as well. When you feel truly connected to your partner, your body responds by entering a state of homeostasis, where all systems are balanced and functioning optimally.

This state of balance is crucial for maintaining a strong immune system. When the body is in homeostasis, it is better able to regulate its responses to external stressors, reducing the likelihood of illness. Moreover, the emotional satisfaction that comes from a deep connection with a partner further boosts immune function by promoting a positive outlook on life, which has been shown to correlate with better health outcomes.

Conclusion
Slow lovemaking is not just an act of physical intimacy; it is a holistic practice that nurtures the body, mind, and spirit. By reducing stress, enhancing circulation, and fostering emotional connection, slow lovemaking strengthens the immune system and fortifies the body's cellular defenses against illness. In a world where we are constantly bombarded by stress and negativity, taking the time to engage in slow, mindful intimacy with your partner can be one of the most powerful ways to protect your health and enhance your overall well-being. So, the next time you and your partner, lover, or lovers find yourselves in a moment of intimacy, remember that you're not just sharing pleasure—you're also nurturing stronger, healthier cellular health together.

Remember, the key is to take your time and connect deeply with your partner(s). If you’re new to the idea of slow lovemaking, start at your own pace—perhaps by focusing on being more mindful during your intimate moments and savoring each touch.

Listen to your body, embrace the connection, and let the health benefits follow naturally.

Wishing you beautiful, intimate moments ahead, dear readers! Here’s to a future filled with love, connection, and vibrant health.

Looking forward to sharing more slow lovemaking with some of you soon.

With warmth and excitement,
Vee
xx

PS: The attached photo captures a serene moment right after a deeply connected lovemaking with my lady. An unblurred version is available in my private gallery for those curious to see more.
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....If this is the first time you found my profile please take the time to Introduce yourself when sending me your first message.

I GUARANTEE YOU that my method of asking these questions is to be respectful towards you. This is for me to evaluate if we are a MATCH.

a) Your actual age or age group (Ex: late 20s, early 40s, mid 50s etc.).
b) Your gender (male or female).
c) Ethnicity/background (Ex: Half Jamaican/Half Japanese, White/Irish, White/French, Black/Gambian, Black/Namibian, British born with Indian heritage etc.)
d) Do you smoke cigarettes?
e) Any known disabilities (physical/developmental/behavioural/sensory impaired) that I should be aware of?
f) What kind of encounter are you longing for? Choose 1 of the following:
Option 1: Porn Star Experience
Option 2: Bondage, Discipline, Sadism, Masochism
Option 3: Transactional-type of Girlfriend Experience
Option 4: Slow and very sensual GFE with with gentle touches, light strokes, and passionate French kissing.
g) Do you mind if the lady would choose an outfit that she would like to wear during the meet or you like to request an outfit as it is "essential" for you?
Please be truthful :)
h) If you don't have a feedback from reputable escorts - Are you happy to move forward with the 50% deposit via Revolut?

:::Your choice in question (f) will help me determine if we are compatible and whether I feel comfortable proceeding with arranging our meeting.:::

Thursday, August 1st 2024

Why You Should Sleep Naked

Dear Esteemed Readers,

I hope this post finds you well and rested! You may have noticed that this blog post was uploaded today-31st August instead of yesterday-31st July as originally planned. My packed schedule left me with little time to write, but I wanted to ensure that this post would be worth your wait. So, I've taken extra care to make this piece especially valuable for you, your lovers and anyone interested in improving their sleep quality and overall well-being.

Today, I want to share something a bit personal with you all - a nightly ritual that has genuinely changed my life for the better. It's simple, liberating, and backed by science: sleeping naked.

Now, I know what you might be thinking. "Really? Is this necessary?" Trust me, I had the same reaction when I first heard about it. But after giving it a try and doing some research, I'm here to tell you why ditching those pajamas might be one of the best decisions you can make for your health and well-being.

1) Better Sleep Quality
Let's start with the most obvious benefit - improved sleep. When I first started sleeping in the nude, I noticed I was falling asleep faster and waking up feeling more refreshed. Turns out, there's science behind this! A study published in the journal "Sleep" found that lower body temperatures are associated with deeper, more restful sleep. By sleeping naked, you're allowing your body to cool down naturally, promoting better sleep quality.

2) Healthier Skin
Our skin needs to breathe, especially after a long day. By removing restrictive clothing, you're giving your skin a chance to air out and regenerate. This is particularly beneficial for areas that are usually covered, like armpits, genitals, and feet. A study in the Journal of Physiological Anthropology suggested that sleeping naked can improve skin health by reducing the risk of skin diseases caused by overheating and excessive sweating.

3) Weight Management
Believe it or not, sleeping naked might even help with weight management. When we sleep in cooler temperatures, our body produces more brown fat - the good kind of fat that helps burn calories. A study published in the journal "Diabetes" found that sleeping in a cool environment increased brown fat activity and improved insulin sensitivity.

4) Improved Intimacy
For those of us in relationships or having multiple partners, sleeping naked can foster a sense of closeness and intimacy. Skin-to-skin contact releases oxytocin, often called the "love hormone." A study in the journal "Frontiers in Psychology" highlighted how physical touch, including during sleep, can strengthen emotional bonds between partners.

5) Stress Reduction
There's something incredibly freeing about sleeping au naturel. It's like letting go of the day's stresses along with your clothes. While there isn't a specific study on naked sleeping and stress, research in the "International Journal of Behavioral Medicine" has shown that lower body temperatures can lead to reduced cortisol levels - our body's main stress hormone.

I’d love to hear what you think, when we meet in person.

:::Let’s Connect:::
Here's my upcoming availabilities for incall engagements in the city, promising opportunities for us to explore intimately, in person:

Sunday-4th Aug: Afternoon/Evening Only
Monday-5th Aug: Contact Me For My Availability
Tuesday-6th Aug: Very Limited Availability (Morning Only)

Wednesday-7th to Saturday-10th Aug: Unavailable for 4 Days [Both Incalls & Outcalls]

6) Better Reproductive Health
For both men and women, keeping the genital area cool and aired out can have health benefits. In men, cooler temperatures are better for sperm production. For women, allowing air to circulate can reduce the risk of yeast infections. A study in the journal "Human Reproduction" suggested that cooler testicular temperatures improved sperm quality.

7) Increased Comfort
This one might seem obvious, but it's worth mentioning. No more twisted pajamas or uncomfortable elastic bands digging into your skin. The freedom of movement can lead to a more comfortable sleep, which in turn contributes to better overall rest.

8) Improved Circulation
Without restrictive clothing, your blood can flow more freely throughout your body. Better circulation means better overall health, from your heart to your skin. While there isn't a specific study on naked sleeping and circulation, research in the "Journal of Physiological Anthropology" has shown that clothing can impact blood flow and body temperature regulation.

9) Cost-Effective
Here's a practical benefit - you'll save money on pajamas! Plus, with less nightwear to wash, you'll reduce your laundry load, saving on water and energy bills. It's a small but nice bonus.

10) Boosted Self-Confidence
Last but not least, sleeping naked can be a great way to become more comfortable in your own skin. It's an exercise in self-acceptance and body positivity. While this benefit is more anecdotal, numerous psychological studies have shown that body acceptance is linked to higher self-esteem and overall well-being.

Remember, the key is to do what feels comfortable for you. If you're new to this, start slow - maybe begin with just sleeping shirtless and see how you feel.

Listen to your body and adjust accordingly.

Sweet dreams, dear readers! Here's to healthier, happier nights ahead.

Looking forward to possibly meeting some of you soon.

With warmth and anticipation,
Vee
xx

PS The attached photo shows me just after waking up in the morning. An unblurred version is available in my private gallery for you to enjoy.
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....If this is the first time you found my profile please take the time to Introduce yourself when sending me your first message.

I GUARANTEE YOU that my method of asking these questions is to be respectful towards you. This is for me to evaluate if we are a MATCH.

a) Your actual age or age group (Ex: late 20s, early 40s, mid 50s etc.).
b) Your gender (male or female).
c) Ethnicity/background (Ex: Half Jamaican/Half Japanese, White/Irish, White/French, Black/Gambian, Black/Namibian, British born with Indian heritage etc.)
d) Do you smoke cigarettes?
e) Any known disabilities (physical/developmental/behavioural/sensory impaired) that I should be aware of?
f) What kind of encounter are you longing for? Choose 1 of the following:
Option 1: Porn Star Experience
Option 2: Bondage, Discipline, Sadism, Masochism
Option 3: Transactional-type of Girlfriend Experience
Option 4: Slow and very sensual GFE with with gentle touches, light strokes, and passionate French kissing.
g) Do you mind if the lady would choose an outfit that she would like to wear during the meet or you like to request an outfit as it is "essential" for you?
Please be truthful :)
h) If you don't have a feedback from reputable escorts - Are you happy to move forward with the 50% deposit via Revolut?

:::Your choice in question (f) will help me determine if we are compatible and whether I feel comfortable proceeding with arranging our meeting.:::

Monday, July 1st 2024

Connections That Last With Mindful V

Dear Gentle Readers,

Did you all miss me writing my blog post?

I certainly missed penning down my thoughts and sharing them with you. The beautiful weather has been an absolute delight lately, and I hope you've all been basking in the sunshine, feeling its warmth on your skin and letting it brighten your days as much as it has mine.

There’s something truly magical about this time of year, don’t you think? The blossoms are in full bloom, the days are longer, and everything seems a bit more vibrant, a bit more alive.

As I sit here with my cup of tea, reflecting on the past few months, I am filled with a deep sense of gratitude and fulfilment. Each encounter I have had the pleasure of sharing has been a unique tapestry of connection, passion, and mutual enjoyment.

I treat every moment as if it’s my last with a client, savouring the intimacy and ensuring that it’s a memorable experience for both of us.

This is the essence of why I am called "Mindful V."

Unlike others who may inundate you with calls and texts, urging you for repeat bookings,

I sincerely believe in the natural flow of connections.

If it's meant to be, it will happen organically. There’s no need for coercion or force.

Our paths will cross again when the time is right, and the universe deems it so. This approach has allowed me to form genuine bonds with my clients, fostering relationships that are based on mutual respect and authentic affection.

Since the beginning of this year, I am thrilled to share that the generosity of my clients has enabled me to make significant strides in my personal and professional life. Your support has allowed me to save enough to pay for my tuition fees and invest in several books that are enhancing my skills and elevating my career outside of Adultwork (Escort/Adult Industry). Education is a passion of mine, and being able to pursue it independently means the world to me.

Every meet not only helps me relax my mind, body, and soul, but it also plays a crucial role in funding my projects. Your support goes beyond mere financial assistance; it’s a reflection of your belief in me and my journey (outside Adultwork). I cannot express enough how much your generosity means to me. It has provided me with the confidence to pursue my dreams with vigour and passion.

I am curious to know more about your preferences and desires...

Are you the type of person who prefers to see a female companion only once and then move on, or do you enjoy the company of a select few high-quality companions who seek mutual enjoyment rather than purely transactional experiences?

I eagerly look forward to hearing your thoughts when we become one.

:::Let’s Share A Breathtaking Sensual Encounter:::
Here are my upcoming availabilities for incall engagements in the City—perfect opportunities for us to explore our intimacy together:

Sunday-7th July: Afternoon/Evening Only
Monday-8th July: Contact me for my availability
Tuesday-9th July: Morning Only

Wednesday-10th to Saturday-13th July: Unavailable for 4 Days [Both Incalls & Outcalls]

Over the years, I have heard so many interesting stories from various clients' experiences, and some are shocking, funny, sad, and wonderful. These stories have painted a vivid picture of the diverse spectrum of human desires and connections, and each one has enriched my understanding of this unique world.

There’s a special kind of joy that comes from forming deeper connections, where the experience transcends the purely physical and enters a realm of true companionship and understanding.

I have always cherished these connections, finding that they bring a richer, more fulfilling dimension to my life and the lives of those I meet. It’s in these moments of genuine connection that we find the beauty of human interaction, where both parties leave with a sense of satisfaction and joy.

To each one of you who has been a part of my journey, thank you from the bottom of my heart. Your kindness, generosity, and support have made a profound impact on my life.

I am eternally grateful for every single one of you who has supported my career and studies.

Every encounter helps me grow and reach my goals, and I look forward to creating many more beautiful memories with you.

Warmest regards to each one of you,
Vee
xx

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....If this is the first time you found my profile please take the time to Introduce yourself when sending me your first message.

I GUARANTEE YOU that my method of asking these questions is to be respectful towards you. This is for me to evaluate if we are a MATCH.

a) Your actual age or age group (Ex: late 20s, early 40s, mid 50s etc.).
b) Your gender (male or female).
c) Ethnicity/background (Ex: Half Jamaican/Half Japanese, White/Irish, White/French, Black/Gambian, Black/Namibian, British born with Indian heritage etc.)
d) Do you smoke cigarettes?
e) Any known disabilities (physical/developmental/behavioural/sensory impaired) that I should be aware of?
f) What kind of encounter are you longing for? Choose 1 of the following:
Option 1: Porn Star Experience
Option 2: Bondage, Discipline, Sadism, Masochism
Option 3: Transactional-type of Girlfriend Experience
Option 4: Slow and very sensual GFE with with gentle touches, light strokes, and passionate French kissing.
g) Do you mind if the lady would choose an outfit that she would like to wear during the meet or you like to request an outfit as it is "essential" for you?
Please be truthful :)
h) If you don't have a feedback from reputable escorts - Are you happy to move forward with the 50% deposit via Revolut?

:::Your choice in question (f) will help me determine if we are compatible and whether I feel comfortable proceeding with arranging our meeting.:::

Friday, May 31st 2024

The Art of Mindful Lovemaking

Dear Gentle Readers,

At last, I've managed to find the time to upload my blog post for May, right on the very last day of Spring, the 31st of May. Are you all as excited for the summer as I am? Eager to meet new lovers and discover new facets of your romantic selves? I certainly am!

If you scroll down, you'll find my previous blog post titled, "What is a Non-Monogamous Relationship Like?" from two months ago, where I shared the inspiring story of Olga and Meg, a real couple who have engaged in a consensual non-monogamous (CNM) relationship for over a decade. It's a fascinating read if I do say so myself.

I'm incredibly grateful to Adultwork for being the bridge that has allowed me to explore my sexuality with like-minded individuals seeking spontaneous and mindful encounters. These connections are with people who have rich, full lives and other important commitments. It's a world where passion meets purpose, and it's been a transformative experience for me.

Over the years, I've gained so much from these encounters, particularly the wealth of knowledge and stories from various industries. It's amazing how much you can learn from someone during those intimate moments. Hearing about their careers, travels, and life challenges, and how they've overcome each hurdle, is incredibly valuable. While many ladies on Adultwork might be there for the quick cash—hey, no judgement here!—for me, it's been an outlet to destress from the daily grind. And who wouldn't enjoy some mindful, slow, and sensual lovemaking as a form of relaxation? Maybe it's just me? Lol.

But beyond the physical pleasure, there's something deeply enriching about meeting different sexual partners. Each encounter becomes an opportunity to savour every second, as if it were the last time you'd see each other. This mindset encourages you to be fully present, to appreciate your partner's unique qualities, and to cherish the intimacy you share. And when it's time to part ways, there's a profound respect for each other's boundaries and a mutual understanding that the time spent together was precious.

One of the most beautiful aspects of these encounters is the fleeting nature of the moments shared. Knowing that each meeting might be a one-time experience adds a layer of intensity and appreciation. You become more attuned to your partner's needs, desires, and emotions, creating a connection that is both deep and ephemeral. This heightened awareness transforms even the simplest gestures into something memorable and significant. Whether it's a lingering touch, a shared laugh, or a whispered secret, these moments are etched into your memory, offering a treasure trove of experiences to reflect on and cherish.

Moreover, meeting different sexual partners teaches you a lot about yourself. It's a journey of self-discovery where you learn what truly excites you, what your boundaries are, and how to communicate them effectively. Each partner brings out different facets of your personality, helping you grow and evolve in ways you might not have imagined. It's like a dance where you both lead and follow, exploring new rhythms and steps together. And with every new partner, you become more confident, self-aware, and in tune with your own desires and needs.

I can't wait to hear your thoughts when we meet in person.

:::Let’s Connect:::
On the topic of meetings, here are my upcoming availabilities for incall engagements in the City—perfect opportunities for us to explore our intimacy in person:

Sunday-2nd June: Afternoon/Evening
Monday-3rd June: Early Morning/Evening
Tuesday-4th June: Morning Only

Wednesday-5th to Saturday-15th June: Unavailable for 11 Days [Both Incalls & Outcalls]

{A much needed routine break}

In this ever-evolving dance of intimacy, there's a profound sense of liberation. You're free to be yourself, to explore your sexuality without judgement, and to connect with others on a level that transcends the ordinary. It's a celebration of human connection in its most raw and beautiful form, where every encounter is a testament to the joy of being alive and open to new experiences.

Each person I meet brings their own stories, wisdom, and perspectives, enriching my understanding of the world. Whether I'm learning about a new career field, discovering exotic travel destinations, or hearing about personal triumphs and challenges, these interactions offer so much more than just physical connection—they're about personal growth and lifelong learning.

Approaching intimacy in this way fosters a healthy respect for oneself and others. By treating each encounter as a unique and cherished moment, I cultivate a deeper appreciation for the diverse ways people experience and express love and desire. It also reinforces the importance of consent and communication, ensuring that both parties feel valued and respected.

So, as we step into summer with its promise of new connections, let's embrace the excitement of meeting new lovers. Let's explore our desires with mindfulness and respect, savouring each moment and leaving each encounter with a sense of fulfilment and mutual appreciation. Here's to a summer of discovery, connection, and unforgettable experiences!

Until next time, dear readers, enjoy the journey and the beautiful connections you make along the way.

Remember, life is too short not to savour every single second!

Sunday, April 28th 2024

It has been a Game Changer For Me!

Dear Esteemed Readers,

Hope this finds you cozy despite the dreary London drizzle. I’m sure we’re all eagerly awaiting a glimpse of sunshine.

Don't worry, this blog post won't be a lengthy one compared to my previous blog posts.

Today, I’m excited to chat about something that's truly spiced up my life—my experiences on Adultwork.

So, what’s the big deal about Adultwork? It’s this fabulous platform where I’ve met some amazing, career-driven souls who are all about slow, sensual, and utterly mindful love-making .

This isn't just about physical connection; it’s about a profound, mindful intimacy that resonates with what researchers like C.E. Leavitt are saying. Their study in the Archives of Sexual Behavior talks up big benefits like deeper relationship ties and more satisfying encounters. And let me tell you, they’re onto something!

Navigating Adultwork has been a game changer for my mental and physical well-being. Imagine a place where every interaction is about quality time, not just filling time. We dive deep into our moments together without the anchor of commitment. It’s refreshing, especially when everyone respects the time—and your emotional bandwidth.

I’ve been incredibly lucky to cross paths with people who not only respect my time but also bring genuine warmth to our encounters. It’s all about mutual respect and enjoying our time without any pressure. And honestly, it’s been a mental boon, keeping me more balanced and genuinely happy.

Let’s talk emotional intelligence. Being mindful about how we feel and connect during these intimate moments does wonders. It makes every interaction richer and more fulfilling. High emotional IQ in relationships? Yes, it’s a thing, and yes, it matters. It means better communication, clearer boundaries, and a whole lot more satisfaction.

And here’s something else—being mindful can actually be good for your health. Seriously, focusing on your breath and being present can dial down stress and crank up the feel-good vibes. It’s like giving your body a mini-vacation every time you meet someone unique and grounded like Mindful V. lol

:::Let’s Connect:::
Speaking of meetings, here's my upcoming availabilities for incall engagements in the City:

Sunday, 5th May: Contact me for my availability (Afternoon/Evening Only)
Monday, 6th May: Contact me for my availability
Tuesday, 7th May: VERY Limited availability (Morning Only)

Wednesday-8th to Saturday-18th May: Unavailable for 11 Days [Both Incalls & Outcalls]

{A much needed routine break}

Being present isn’t just a buzzword; it’s about fully experiencing the now with someone. This doesn’t just make for better dates; it can enrich your whole life, sharpening your focus and easing anxiety. And let’s be honest, who doesn’t want to feel more connected and centered?

Of course, everyone’s different. What works for me might not be your cup of tea, and that’s totally fine. Mindfulness teaches us to approach these differences with curiosity rather than judgment, exploring our desires safely and openly.

So, here’s the takeaway: bringing mindfulness into your intimate life isn’t just about improving dates—it’s about enhancing your overall quality of life, fostering deeper connections, and embracing the joy of the present. As we keep navigating these experiences, let’s cherish every lesson and connection, making our lives richer and more vibrant.

Stay present, and enjoy each journey with your lovers in Adultwork — it’s worth every moment.

Warmest regards to each one of you,
Vee

xx

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....If this is the first time you found my profile please take the time to Introduce yourself when sending me your first message.

I GUARANTEE YOU that my method of asking these questions is to be respectful towards you. This is for me to evaluate if we are a MATCH.

a) Your actual age or age group (Ex: late 20s, early 40s, mid 50s etc.).
b) Your gender (male or female).
c) Ethnicity/background (Ex: Half Jamaican/Half Japanese, White/Irish, White/French, Black/Gambian, Black/Namibian, British born with Indian heritage etc.)
d) Do you smoke cigarettes?
e) Any known disabilities (physical/developmental/behavioural/sensory impaired) that I should be aware of?
f) What kind of encounter are you longing for? Choose 1 of the following:
Option 1: Porn Star Experience
Option 2: Bondage, Discipline, Sadism, Masochism
Option 3: Transactional-type of Girlfriend Experience
Option 4: Slow and very sensual GFE with with gentle touches, light strokes, and passionate French kissing.
g) Do you mind if the lady would choose an outfit that she would like to wear during the meet or you like to request an outfit as it is "essential" for you?
Please be truthful :)
h) If you don't have a feedback from reputable escorts - Are you happy to move forward with the 50% deposit via Revolut?

:::Your choice in question (f) will help me determine if we are compatible and whether I feel comfortable proceeding with arranging our meeting.:::

Saturday, March 30th 2024

What is a Non-Monogamous Relationship Like?

Dear Esteemed Readers,

I hope this message finds you bathed in beautiful sunshine rays. As for me, I'm in our garden, cherishing the warmth, eager to share a tale with you on this fine Easter weekend. I trust you're making memories with your loved ones too.

Today, I bring you the story of Olga and Meg (pseudonyms for privacy), partners in a consensual non-monogamous (CNM) relationship for over a decade, childfree by choice. Their story, rooted in true events, offers a window into the workings of CNM relationships.

Brace yourselves, dear readers, for this is a lengthy exploration. So, clutch your favourite drink, and let's wade through a bit of research before we unravel their narrative.

(1) Amy Muise's Study on Sexual Need Fulfillment elaborates on how satisfaction in one relationship within a CNM setup can positively ripple into another. The essence of this study is the beneficial "spillover effect" of having one's sexual needs met by a primary partner.

(2) Misconceptions About CNM, addressed by Amy C. Moors and her team, reveals that CNM relationships often share similar levels of satisfaction and commitment with monogamous ones, sometimes even reporting higher levels of trust and satisfaction.

(3) Eli Sheff's Research on CNM and Parenting uncovers the advantageous psychosocial outcomes for children within polyamorous families, emphasizing the benefits of such a familial structure.

Armed with this knowledge, let's dive into Olga and Meg's story.

Their meeting was serendipitous, on a now-defunct bisexual/lesbian website. Meg, entangled in a long-distance relationship, sought casual connections, while Olga yearned for something deeper, having grown disillusioned with men.

Their first date was a dance of contrasts—Meg's outgoing nature against Olga's reserved demeanor. Meg, adamant about not seeking a relationship, and Olga, curious if past hurts shielded Meg. Despite this, a spark ignited, compelling Meg to seek Olga's company relentlessly, culminating in an invitation to stay for easier commutes to Central London.

A pivotal moment arose when Olga discovered emails from Meg's long-distance partner, Hazel, leading to a confrontation. "Who is Hazel?" Olga inquired, unraveling the façade of Meg's other life. This revelation brought to light Hazel's financial support for Meg, framed by Olga as a sugar mommy arrangement. It was a moment of truth for Meg, who then chose to end things with Hazel, spurred by Olga's ultimatum and her own desire for authenticity.

The breakup was fraught with challenges, from Hazel's manipulative threats to the daunting task of achieving financial independence. Yet, through resilience and determination, Meg embarked on a path of self-discovery and empowerment, juggling jobs and dreams with scant hours for rest.

Their journey is more than a love story; it's a narrative of breaking free from toxicity, embracing self-worth, and navigating the complexities of CNM relationships.

:::Tough Times Lead to Tough Choices:::
Life was pretty good for Olga and Meg, just the two of them, for about six months. Then, things got tricky. Meg found out she couldn’t pay for her tuition fee anymore. She tried asking her family for help, but they bailed on her at the last minute, offering instead to pay for a ticket to send her back home.

When Olga heard about it, she came up with an idea that was out there: "What if you make money by spending time with men?" Meg couldn't believe what she was hearing. "Are you serious? Do you even love me?" she asked. Olga was quick to reassure her, "Of course I love you. I just can't stand the thought of losing you. We'll figure this out together."

Meg shared that she’d been told before (by two ex gfs) she could make good money because of her looks and charm, but she never thought about it seriously because of the stigma. Still determined to stay in London, she didn't go down that path immediately and tried to juggle three jobs instead.

But desperate times called for desperate measures. They went ahead with Olga's plan, and it wasn't long before they had enough money for Meg's tuition and to keep her in England. Meg always remembers the first encounter with a client, not sure how it would go, but it turned out the guy was respectful and everything went smoothly.

:::Where They Are Now:::
Fast forward, and Olga and Meg are still together. They've had some unique experiences along the way, meeting different men. Olga tried it too but hasn’t been active lately. In their personal life, they're just about each other, thinking it’s greedy to want more. lol

They’ve learned a lot from the individuals (clients) they've met, not just about their sexuality but about life in general. It’s been good for them, letting them choose who they want to spend their time with.

Meg is all about her career these days, always pushing to be her best. She’s also there for Olga, helping her figure out what she wants. Like any couple, they’ve hit some rough patches, but they know whatever the future holds, they've got a special bond. They've been through a lot, stuff that would've broken many, but they've come out the other side.

:::Living in Today's World:::
In today's fast-paced world, really working through problems together seems like a lost art, especially for couples.

As we wrap up this pretty long (and I hope, insightful) blog post, I've got some questions for you.

Do you believe monogamy is the only way, or are you exploring the waters of consensual non-monogamy with your partner?
Did Olga and Meg’s story strike a chord with you?

I’d love to hear what you think, when we meet in person.

:::Let’s Connect:::
Speaking of meetings, here's my upcoming availabilities for incall engagements in the city, promising opportunities for us to explore intimately, in person:

Sunday, 31st March: Afternoon/Evening Only
Monday, 1st April: Limited Availability
Tuesday, 2nd April: Booked :::> Unless there "might" be cancellations

Wednesday-3rd to Saturday-6th April: Unavailable for 4 Days [Both Incalls & Outcalls]

Sunday, 7th April: Contact me for my availability
Monday, 8th April: Contact me for my availability
Tuesday, 9th April: Contact me for my availability (Morning Only)

Wednesday-10th to Saturday-20th April: Unavailable for 11 Days [Both Incalls & Outcalls]

{A much needed routine break}

If we've already crossed paths, you might find that Meg's journey sounds familiar! For those I haven't had the pleasure of meeting, I won't spoil the surprise.

Life throws challenges at us, and sometimes, we have to pick from the options we've got. I believe there's no absolute right or wrong. It's about owning our choices and their consequences.

Society will always have opinions, whether we choose path A or B. But at the end of the day, it's our life, our choices. What matters is finding what works for us in our unique situations.

I hope this story and my thoughts spark some reflection on how you navigate your relationships and life choices. May you all find deep, meaningful connections with your partners, filled with joy and understanding.

Looking forward to possibly meeting some of you soon.

Thursday, February 29th 2024

From 'Sapio V' to 'Mindful V' Transition

Dear Esteemed Readers,

I hope this message finds you navigating the capricious tides of our current weather with grace—be it the brisk winds that seem to whisper secrets, the sporadic sunbeams that dance across the sky, or the gentle drizzle that completes the symphony. Amidst this, I’ve been maintaining a delicate balance of wellness in mind, body, and soul, and I sincerely hope the same for you.

In the tapestry of changes, you might have noticed a subtle yet significant transformation in my profile—from "Sapio V" to "Mindful V." This evolution mirrors a deeper introspection and a redefined approach to my interactions and connections.

Over the years, some of you, my cherished clients, have gently nudged me towards reevaluating my pricing structure, citing the relentless march of inflation as a compelling reason for adjustment. Despite these suggestions, my rates have remained unchanged. However, I've been touched by the spontaneous acts of generosity from many of you, offering tips that speak volumes of your kindness.

This gesture of authentic generosity resonates deeply with me, reinforcing the value of genuine connections over mere transactions.

In my previous writings, particularly in the piece titled "My Specific Screening Process - Are We A Match?" published on Friday, 14th July 2023, I delved into the ethos behind my interactions. The essence of affordability on my page is not a beacon for compromise on quality or the depth of our engagements.

I sought to make it clear: my allure is not tethered to the socioeconomic standings of those I meet —be they executives, directors, or professionals from illustrious firms.

The crux of my offering is an invitation to those who value sensuality, authenticity, and a grounded demeanor. My pursuit is not of superficial connections but of those that are rich in respect, understanding, and mutual satisfaction.

Hence, the term "service" finds no home in my profile.

What we share is not a service but an "EXPERIENCE" — a journey of mutual exploration and enjoyment, marked by mindfulness and a profound connection.

Before I embark on delineating what I envisage as Mindful Sex, allow me a moment to share my upcoming availabilities for incall engagements in the city, promising opportunities for us to explore these ideals in person:

Sunday, 3rd March: I can only accept 1 engagement.
Monday, 4th March: Availability details upon inquiry.
Tuesday, 5th March: Morning encounters only.

To me, Mindful Sex is an art form. It’s about being fully present with one another, exploring each touch, each kiss, as if it were both our first and our last. It’s about creating a space where time stands still, and all that exists is the connection between us.

This approach to our encounters ensures they are not just remembered but cherished deeply, possibly as if they were our last encounter.

My commitment to discretion and respect extends beyond our time together. I initiate communication only when you desire another meeting, respecting the sanctity of our shared experience and the anticipation of possibly rekindling our connection.

Additionally, a pivotal reason behind the evolution from "Sapio V" to "Mindful V" is a heartfelt aspiration to welcome female clients into my sphere. Recognizing that the landscape of Adultwork predominantly caters to men, I remain optimistically hopeful.

Perhaps among you, there lies the potential for introducing me to your female friends in search of companionship that is unburdened by expectations and strings.

For those in open and transparent relationships, the idea of facilitating a one-on-one encounter between your female partner and me might indeed be intriguing. This is not merely a whimsical thought but a genuine expression of my desire to explore connections that delve beyond the surface, into the realm of slow, sensual discovery of one another.

My experiences have largely been shared with couples, navigating the dynamics of threesomes, which, while enriching, offer a different texture than the intimacy of a one-on-one encounter. Despite the rich tapestry of connections I've had the privilege of experiencing, the singular encounter with a woman remains uncharted territory for me.

This candid confession underscores my genuine eagerness to connect with female souls who resonate with the art of sensual exploration. The question might arise, given the breadth of my encounters, whether such experiences with male clients suffice. Yet, as I've touched upon in previous discussions, the essence of intimacy varies significantly across genders - akin to comparing the distinct natures of apples and oranges; both delightful yet inherently unique.

The allure of understanding and exploring a woman's being, particularly those who embody sensuality, sweetness, kindness, and, paramountly, hygiene, holds a special place in my aspirations.

Should this year bring the opportunity to meet one or two female clients, especially those who share a passion for the realms of engineering, mathematics, science, or literature etc., it would not only fulfill a long-held wish but also enrich my journey in ways beyond measure.

:::As I'm writing this, the thought alone sends waves of anticipation through my vagina, pulsing. It sparks a sense of excitement and anticipation for the possibilities that lie ahead.:::

With this open-hearted confession, I invite the universe to weave these potential connections into the fabric of our shared experiences, adding yet another layer of depth and richness to the tapestry of our encounters.

Here’s to the unfolding of spring, with its promise of renewal and beauty, mirroring the blossoming of our connections.

As we look forward to the renewal that spring promises, I hold onto the hope of not just witnessing the blooming flowers but also of welcoming new and returning souls into my space — each encounter a step deeper into the realm of mindful connections.

I hope this post provides insight into my motivations and aspirations. May you all enjoy mindful and fulfilling encounters with your beautiful lovers.

With all my warmth and anticipation,
Vee xx

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....If this is the first time you found my profile please take the time to Introduce yourself when sending me your first message.

I GUARANTEE YOU that my method of asking these questions is to be respectful towards you. This is for me to evaluate if we are a MATCH.

a) Your chronological age (not your physiological or functional age)
or you can just mention your age group (Ex: late 20s, early 40s, mid 50s etc.)
b) Ethnicity/background (Ex: Half Jamaican/Half Japanese)
c) Do you smoke cigarettes?
d) Any known disabilities (physical/developmental/behavioural/sensory impaired) that I should be aware of?
e) What kind of encounter are you longing for? Choose 1 of the following:
Option 1: Porn Star Experience
Option 2: Bondage, Discipline, Sadism, Masochism
Option 3: Transactional-type of Girlfriend Experience
Option 4: Slow and very sensual GFE with with gentle touches, light strokes, and passionate French kissing.
f) Do you mind if the lady would choose an outfit that she would like to wear during the meet or you like to request an outfit as it is "essential" for you?
Please be truthful :)

:::Your choice in question (e) will help me determine if we are compatible and whether I feel comfortable proceeding with arranging our meeting.:::

Wednesday, January 31st 2024

I Just Want To Say Thank You!

Dear Esteemed Readers,

I know it's literally the last day of January (31st), but I wouldn't miss the opportunity to upload this blog post today, as promised – my first ever for 2024. First and foremost, I hope you all had an amazing start to your 2024, The Year of the Dragon – a time of strength and fortune!

As we whirl into this vibrant and energetic year, I want to pause and express my heartfelt gratitude. This year, more than ever, I feel enveloped in gratitude. Being a sensual companion/lover is a journey filled with unparalleled experiences and remarkable people. To my generous and kind clients, both those I've recently missed and those I continue to see, you colour my world with joy and excitement - making this journey so enriching and fulfilling!

:::A Grateful Heart in a Sensual World:::
Each encounter with you is more than just a meeting; it's a chance to explore, to learn, and to grow. Whether it's solving a tricky problem together or indulging in our shared passions, you bring joy and excitement into my life. For this, I am eternally grateful.

To those I haven't seen in a while, know that you're always in my thoughts. The memories we created together are cherished, and I eagerly await the day we can reconnect. Your support and kindness have left an indelible mark on my heart.

And to my lovers who I share "repeated encounters", what can I say?
You're the rhythm to my Adultwork life's melody. Our continuous encounters are chapters in an ongoing saga of pleasure and discovery. Your ideas, your suggestions, and, most importantly, your respectful and caring nature make every meeting something to look forward to.

:::Gratitude in Choice and Respect:::
I want to extend a special thank you to those who respected my decision to decline certain proposals, whether for incall or outcall, because they involved activities I don't personally enjoy. Your understanding and respect in these matters mean the world to me.

Thank you also to those who have shared their intriguing stories about past companions who became overly attached or intrusive.

It's unfortunate when individuals use this platform to seek personal security or catch an ideal partner. Those of you who have met me know I uphold the highest standards of discretion. I never send unsolicited messages or pry into your personal life; our connection is solely about our shared, sensual experience. I value your privacy as much as our time together.

:::Healthy Sex Life: Where Minds and Bodies Unite:::
Maintaining a healthy and exciting sex life is an art form, and it's one we're perfecting together. The exchange of ideas, the exploration of desires, and the mutual respect we share is the foundation of our exhilarating encounters. It's a dance of sensuality, where each step is both familiar and thrillingly new.

==>Mark Your Calendars!<==

And speaking of thrilling, I’m excited to announce my upcoming visit to the City for Incall engagements.

Here are the dates:
Sunday, 4th February: Contact me for my availability
Monday, 5th February: Contact me for my availability
Tuesday, 6th February: Contact me for my availability (Morning Only)

These days are not just dates on a calendar; they're opportunities for us to create new memories and continue our journey together. Whether it's reigniting an old flame or kindling a new one, I am here for it all.

:::A Year of the Dragon Adventure:::
2024, the Year of the Dragon, symbolizes strength, luck, and good fortune. It's a year for boldness, for passion, and for embracing life's adventures. And I can't think of better companions to share this journey with than you.

Thank you for every laugh, every whisper, every shared secret, and every moment of bliss.

Here's to a year filled with joy, excitement, and unforgettable experiences.

:::Closing Thoughts:::
Life is full of beautiful surprises, and every encounter is a testament to the myriad connections we can foster. I look forward to continuing this journey of discovery and pleasure with you.

To my dear readers, I promise to return with more content that will inspire and invigorate you. Until then, take good care of yourselves, stay sensual, and keep in touch.

With all my affection and anticipation,
Vee xx

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....If this is the first time you found my profile please take the time to Introduce yourself when sending me your first message.

I GUARANTEE YOU that my method of asking these questions is to be respectful towards you. This is for me to evaluate if we are a MATCH.

a) Your chronological age (not your physiological or functional age)
or you can just mention your age group (Ex: late 20s, early 40s, mid 50s etc.)
b) Ethnicity/background (Ex: Half Jamaican/Half Japanese)
c) Do you smoke cigarettes?
d) Any known disabilities (physical/developmental/behavioural/sensory impaired) that I should be aware of?
e) What kind of encounter are you longing for? Choose 1 of the following:
Option 1: Porn Star Experience
Option 2: Bondage, Discipline, Sadism, Masochism
Option 3: Transactional-type of Girlfriend Experience
Option 4: Slow and very sensual GFE with with gentle touches, light strokes, and passionate French kissing.
f) Do you mind if the lady would choose an outfit that she would like to wear during the meet or you like to request an outfit as it is "essential" for you?
Please be truthful :)

:::Your choice in question (e) will help me determine if we are compatible and whether I feel comfortable proceeding with arranging our meeting.:::

Thursday, December 7th 2023

Year-End Review:Lessons & Connections With Clients

Dear Esteemed Readers,

As the festive season unfolds, bringing with it a tapestry of twinkling lights and joyful melodies, I find myself in a reflective mood, warmed by memories of the year gone by.

I hope this message finds each of you well, basking in the warmth and joy of the holiday season.

Your support and engagement with my blog have been the highlights of my year, and for that, I am deeply grateful. Though it's been 38 days since my last update

, I promise this post, filled with intimate revelations and heartfelt gratitude, will be worth the wait.

"Year-End Review: Lessons & Connections With Clients" – this is more than a post; it's a celebration of the profound connections and learning moments I've shared with remarkable individuals.

Story 1: Resilience in the Afterglow
Our encounter transcended the bounds of physical intimacy, leading us to a space of emotional openness. Post our passionate connection, we found ourselves immersed in a conversation about life's challenges. My client shared their journey of overcoming professional hurdles, emphasizing the latent strength in adversity. This resonated with me, underscoring the idea that within each challenge lies an opportunity for growth and self-discovery.

"Each adversity reveals what you are capable of," they whispered, their words lingering in the air, a testament to their journey of self-discovery and resilience. This revelation struck a chord in me, reminding me that in the face of adversity, we often find our true strength.

Adding Depth: Understanding Adversity
This conversation led me to ponder the nature of adversity. It's not just about the struggle but also about the resilience we build along the way. It reminded me that our responses to challenges can reveal hidden strengths, much like how a diamond emerges under pressure.

Story 2: The Dance of Life and Love
In another encounter, where our connection seemed to defy the limits of the physical realm, we ventured into a discussion about balancing personal and professional life. My client spoke of the intricate act of juggling family responsibilities with a demanding career. Their insights provided a fresh perspective on maintaining harmony amidst life's chaos, emphasizing the importance of setting priorities and embracing the beauty of balance.

Their insights offered me a new perspective on managing my own life’s demands, highlighting the beauty of finding balance amidst chaos.

Insightful Reflections: Balancing Acts
This exchange made me reflect on the universal struggle of balance. It's a dance we all engage in, trying to synchronize the rhythm of our personal desires with our professional ambitions. It's about finding that sweet spot where passion meets responsibility, a harmony that resonates with the melody of our lives.

Story 3: Financial Wisdom Amidst Sensual Bliss
In the midst of laughter and shared joy, a conversation about financial management unfolded. My client, adept in the art of investments, shared valuable advice that transcended the conventional understanding of wealth. This discussion opened my eyes to the importance of financial literacy and the empowerment it brings.

Their insights not only challenged my understanding of financial stewardship but also inspired me to approach my finances with a newfound confidence and strategic thinking.

Enriching Perspectives: Financial Enlightenment
Reflecting on this dialogue, I was struck by the importance of financial knowledge in achieving personal freedom and security. It's not just about accumulating wealth but understanding how to manage and grow it to support our dreams and aspirations.

The Essence of Shared Experiences
Each story, each encounter, goes beyond the realm of the physical. They are profound exchanges of life lessons and shared human experiences. It's a journey of mutual growth and understanding, where every interaction leaves an indelible mark on our lives.

The Power of Connection
As I prepare for my last visit (see below), I am reminded of the incredible power of human connection. It's not just about the shared physical experience but also the emotional and intellectual exchange that occurs. Each client brings a unique perspective, enriching my life in ways beyond measure.

This is my last visit for this year:

Sunday-10th December : (Booked - Apologies)
Monday-11th December : I can only accept 1 engagement (Morning Only)
Tuesday-12th December : (Booked - Apologies)

As I approach my final visit of the year on the 10th, 11th, and 12th of December, I realise it's not possible to meet every beautiful, sensual soul who has graced my journey.

But to each of you, know that your kindness and generosity have not only uplifted me in moments of passionate lovemaking but have also supported a project very dear to my heart. This endeavor has enabled me to help a family member support their dream and their young family – a gift of love and hope.

Being naked, both physically and emotionally, with grounded, incredible individuals like you has been an absolute pleasure. Adultwork has been the bridge that connected me to each of you, for which I am eternally thankful.

A Heartfelt Conclusion
As we approach the end of the year, I am filled with gratitude for the moments we've shared and the wisdom exchanged. Each interaction has been a stepping stone in my personal and career journey, helping me support not just my own dreams but those of my loved ones as well.

As we part ways for this year, I leave you with this thought: our encounters are more than just moments of physical pleasure. They are exchanges of energy, wisdom, and warmth that nourish the mind, soul, and yes, our sexual appetites.

My hope is that each meeting leaves you as enriched and fulfilled as it leaves me.

Looking Forward: Anticipating New Encounters in 2024
As I look forward to my final visit this year, I am excited about the new stories, lessons, and connections that await. It is with a heart full of gratitude that I thank each of you for your kindness, generosity, and the shared moments that have enriched my life.

PS I will not be available in the next 3 weeks, sadly. If we don't get the chance to meet this visit, there will be plenty of opportunities in 2024!

Wishing you a festive season filled with joy, warmth, and meaningful connections. May the new year bring you happiness, success, and the fulfillment of your deepest desires.

With all my gratitude and warmth,
Vee xx
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....If this is the first time you found my profile please take the time to Introduce yourself when sending me your first message.

I GUARANTEE YOU that my method of asking these questions is to be respectful towards you. This is for me to evaluate if we are a MATCH.

a) Your chronological age (not your physiological or functional age)
or you can just mention your age group (Ex: late 20s, early 40s, mid 50s etc.)
b) Ethnicity/background (Ex: Half Jamaican/Half Japanese, White/Norweigian, White/Irish etc.)
c) Do you smoke cigarettes?
d) Any known disabilities (physical/developmental/behavioural/sensory impaired) that I should be aware of?
e) What type of encounter do you personally enjoy? Please be honest and specific :)
(PSE, spanking a girl, humilitation, plain GFE, slow and very sensual GFE etc.)
f) Do you mind if the lady would choose an outfit that she would like to wear during the meet or you like to request an outfit as it is "essential" for you?
Please be truthful :)

No Feedback = No Meeting : Unless you transfer a non-refundable 50% deposit via REVOLUT App prior to our meeting. This app is very secure and discreet so I will NEVER know your full name. I'm happy to send you my referral link (via SMS/WhatsApp/Telegram) if you don't have an account yet.

Thank you for respecting my preference and for valuing my time!

I hope that our schedule will match either, 10th, 11th & 12th December!

Tuesday, October 31st 2023

What you are seeking in Adultwork?

Dear Esteemed Readers,

I hope this message finds you well and in the mood for Halloween festivities. As always, I extend my sincerest thanks for your ongoing support of my blog. Your feedback and interest in my content is greatly appreciated.

I must admit that keeping up with regular blog posting has been quite the challenge,

but I am committed to improving.

Moving forward, I will do my utmost to publish one post every month.

Without further ado, let's dive into the topic of this post: "What Are You Seeking in Adultwork?" This question is complex and multifaceted, and answering it requires a careful consideration of our desires, boundaries, and values. As always, I encourage you to approach this subject with an open and curious mind.

Before I proceed, I would like to extend an invitation to my esteemed lovers. I am available for a few slow, intimate rendezvous in the coming days. If you are seeking companionship and the opportunity to experience the sweet sensation of my soft lips and naked skin, please take note of my availability:

Saturday, 4th November: Contact me for my availability (evening only)
Sunday, 5th November: Contact me for my availability
and Monday, 6th November: Contact me for my availability (morning only)

Let's dive deeper into the topic of "What you are seeking in Adultwork?"

As someone who has been in the industry for a while, I understand that it can be overwhelming to navigate the different options and experiences available to you. However, it's important to take the time to figure out exactly what you are seeking in an escort to ensure a fulfilling and safe experience.

Perhaps you've found yourself on this platform unsure of your exact needs or desires, especially if you're relatively new to the world of professional companionship?

To shed some light and perhaps bring some clarity, let's delve into a few potential reasons individuals might seek out escorts:

1) Exploration: You might not be certain about what intrigues you, but you're open to discovering diverse experiences, whether it's a passionate PSE, the allure of BDSM, or the comforting embrace of a GFE. It's a journey of self-discovery to pinpoint what resonates with you.

2) Visual Attraction: Some are captivated by provocative photos, drawn to profiles regardless of the feedback or credentials. It's essential to approach with caution and be aware of the potential risks, including the unfortunate reality of trafficking within the industry.

3) Experienced Patron: Having engaged with escorts for some time, you've learned about your desires and preferences. You value respect, professionalism, and mutual enjoyment, and prioritise meeting an independent and honest companion. Thorough research, reading reviews, and understanding what you seek in an encounter, like sensuality and deep connection, are paramount for you.

4) Luxury Experience: For some, it's about indulgence. With financial comfort, you might have specific requirements or expectations for your encounters. The focus here is primarily on personal entertainment, with less regard for mutual enjoyment.

5) Spontaneity: Some individuals act on impulse, seeking immediate companionship without thorough consideration of the setting or the individual's presentation. The experience tends to be transactional.

While these are just a few reasons, they represent common motivations.

If you align more with the third option, seeking genuine connection and mutual respect, then this blog and my companionship might be just right for you!

Understanding Your Desires: The Key to a Satisfactory Encounter

Venturing into the world of professional companionship can be a delightful and transformative experience, but as with any service industry, knowing what you want is the cornerstone of satisfaction. Many individuals, unfortunately, walk into these encounters with vague expectations or none at all, only to find themselves feeling disillusioned, disappointed, or even misled.

Why does clarity matter? For starters, it saves you from potential regrets or unpleasant situations. Escorts provide a variety of services, and each one has their unique specialties and boundaries. By understanding and articulating your desires, you ensure that you're on the same page as your chosen companion, preventing any misunderstanding that might lead to disappointment.

Moreover, with the rise of digital platforms, it's become increasingly easy for individuals to misrepresent themselves. Those who are uninformed or uncertain about their wants might fall prey to scams or deceptive practices. Just like in any other industry, forearmed is forewarned. The more specific you can be about your desires, the more equipped you are to find someone genuine and avoid potential pitfalls.

If you've read my "Read This First" tab in my profile, you will see this note:
"This profile is still here because it allows me to meet people who enjoy slow/sensual love-making which, in return, helps me relax my mind as well as my body."

This note is a testament to the power of clarity. I've put forward my desires and expectations transparently, and it's allowed me to connect with like-minded individuals, ensuring mutual respect and enjoyment. If both parties enter an engagement with a clear understanding of the expectations, the likelihood of a fulfilling experience increases manifold.

So, before you take the plunge, reflect on what you truly desire. Research thoroughly, read profiles and reviews, and communicate your expectations. This due diligence will not only protect your interests but will also elevate the quality of your encounters, ensuring they're memorable for all the right reasons.

A Heartfelt Shout Out to a Special Someone

Before I wrap up today's post, I must pause for a moment and extend my deepest gratitude to a very special client who would prefer to remain anonymous. I am overwhelmed and truly touched by the generosity he has shown me and my beautiful lady.

This amazing individual went out of his way to gift me an incredibly durable waterproof commuter's backpack, which I had the pleasure of using on my recent trip to Paris a few days ago. But that wasn't all; he also provided me with several packs of organic superfoods, something both me and my other half have come to treasure and consume daily. The sheer thoughtfulness of this gesture was enough to bring tears to my eyes. No one has ever shown this level of generosity to us, and it's something I'm truly grateful for.

What makes this connection even more special is our shared enthusiasm for holistic health. Discovering that he crafts his own herbal concoctions only further showcased how aligned our wavelengths truly are. It's interactions like these that serve as beautiful reminders of why my journey in Adultwork has been filled with such positivity and uplifting experiences over the years.

Closing Thoughts

Life has a beautiful way of surprising us, and every encounter, every gesture, is a testament to the myriad connections we can foster.

To my dear readers, I promise to return with more content that will inspire and invigorate you.

Until then, take good care of yourselves, stay sensual, and keep in touch.

______________________________________________________________________________

....If this is the first time you found my profile please take the time to Introduce yourself when sending me your first message.

I GUARANTEE YOU that my method of asking these questions is to be respectful towards you. This is for me to evaluate if we are a MATCH.

a) Your chronological age (not your physiological or functional age)
or you can just mention your age group (Ex: late 20s, early 40s, mid 50s etc.)
b) Ethnicity/background (Ex: Half Jamaican/Half Japanese, White/Norweigian, White/Irish etc.)
c) Do you smoke cigarettes?
d) Any known disabilities (physical/developmental/behavioural/sensory impaired) that I should be aware of?
e) What type of encounter do you personally enjoy? Please be honest and specific :)
(PSE, spanking a girl, humilitation, plain GFE, slow and very sensual GFE etc.)
f) Do you mind if the lady would choose an outfit that she would like to wear during the meet or you like to request an outfit as it is "essential" for you?
Please be truthful :)

No Feedback = No Meeting : Unless you transfer a non-refundable 50% deposit via REVOLUT App prior to our meeting. This app is very secure and discreet so I will NEVER know your full name. I'm happy to send you my referral link (via SMS/WhatsApp/Telegram) if you don't have an account yet.

Thank you for respecting my preference and for valuing my time!

I hope that our schedule will match either, 4th, 5th & 6th Nov.!

Sunday, September 24th 2023

I'm Speechless!

Dear Esteemed Readers,

I trust this blog post finds you in good health and vibrant libidos

, enjoying each day as we transition into the latter half of the year.

It has been five weeks since my previous one - and I apologise for the delay.

However, I am thrilled to announce that I am available for a few slow, very intimate rendezvous in the coming days, and I want to extend the opportunity to all my esteemed lovers.

Should you find yourself in need of companionship (especially touching my very soft skin), please take note of my schedule for the next few days:

Sunday, 24th September: (Booked - Apologies)
Monday, 25th September: Availability for one morning appointment only
and Tuesday, 26th September: Availability for one morning appointment only

After these 3 days, I will be taking a beautiful, much-needed break from accepting any Adultwork engagements for a period of 11 days, from Wednesday, 27th Sept. until Saturday, 7th October.

Before I sign off, I want to express my heartfelt appreciation to the beautiful, sensual individuals who graced me with their company in my recent visit from 17th Aug through the 19th. Your gentle and caring demeanor has filled my heart with immense joy and a feeling of contentment that is invaluable to me. Your thoughtful actions and compassionate words have not gone unnoticed and I am truly grateful for how you have touched my life.

As you may have noticed from the attached photo in this blog post, I am inundated with a staggering number of emails and queries, specifically 36 and counting. While I do my best to respond to each and every one in a timely manner, the sheer volume of inquiries I receive can often feel overwhelming and impossible to keep up with.

I want to assure you that despite the challenges that come with managing a high volume of correspondence, I am committed to providing a personalised level to each and every one of you. I have no intention of hiring a secretary or joining an exclusive "elite" agency, as I believe in maintaining a direct and authentic connection with those who seek out my companionship.

While some may see the constant flow of queries as a sign of success, I am more interested in the quality of the inquiries I receive. It is not uncommon for me to receive requests for long bookings without even a proper introduction, which I find rather perplexing. As someone who values meaningful connections, I am more interested in spending time with a select few who share similar values and interests.

It's interesting how so many people approach me on this platform, and while some of them have good intentions, others seem to think that I'm just here for the money. This couldn't be further from the truth - I'm curious about meeting new people and forging sincere connections. When someone sends me a message like, "I have a 9-inch cock for you babe etc."

or makes it clear that they're only interested in a "transaction" type of meeting, it doesn't bother me. I simply smile, laugh, or hit the "block" button, knowing that I won't be meeting that person anytime soon.

I'm here because I'm hoping to connect with genuine, sensual lovers who respect my boundaries and privacy. For me, money is secondary - it's not the goal. Instead, I want to build relationships and connect with people on a deeper level during our time spent together. Whether it's with new lovers or rekindling a connection with someone from my past, I'm always excited to meet someone new and explore the possibilities.

Recently, I had the opportunity to reconnect with a previous lover - someone whose username seemed familiar, but whose face didn't immediately come to mind. As soon as he walked through the door, I felt an immediate spark of recognition. "Oh my god, it's you!" I exclaimed, thrilled to be reunited with someone who had left such an impression on me in the past. It was a beautiful reminder of the power of connection.

Upon meeting him, I couldn't help but notice how adorable he was - it was almost overwhelming. He seemed incredibly nervous, and requested that we take a few deep breaths together. I have to say, I adored this moment of connection, and found myself lost in the serenity of our synchronized inhalations and exhalations. It was in that moment that I felt a spark of excitement about what the rest of our time together might hold - and I certainly wasn't disappointed.

Years have passed since that initial meeting, and I am thrilled to report that he has lost none of his sensual touch. In fact, I'd argue that his skills have only grown stronger with time. It's clear that he values touch and intimacy in a way that few people can truly appreciate. His willingness to openly share his experiences with a Tantric masseuse is just one example of his adventurous spirit, and I've been eager to explore this aspect of his personality further.

In the midst of my busy schedule - both within and outside of the realm of Adultwork - I always make sure to take a moment to reflect on my encounters. This helps me to re-evaluate my interest in meeting with individuals again in the future. While there are certainly some people that don't spark my curiosity, I firmly believe in the importance of remaining polite and respectful throughout every encounter. After all, building connections and fostering positive energy is the true joy of this type of engagements.

So the next time you arrange a get-together with anyone (not just me), make sure it is something you truly want to do and not just something you feel obligated to do. After all, life is too short to waste on meaningless interactions.

Lastly, I want to express my deep appreciation for your kindness and support. Your unwavering genuine interest in my well-being means more to me than words can express. It is beautiful souls like you who makes my Adultwork journey truly worthwhile and fulfilling, and I am grateful for every moment spent with each one of you.

I would like to take this opportunity to express my gratitude for your unwavering support and interest in my blog. It brings me immense pleasure to share my perspectives with you, and I hope you have found my recent post to be as insightful and engaging as I intended it to be.

As much as I relish interacting with you all, I regret to inform you that I will be out of reach for the next 11 days. Nonetheless, I urge you not to despair; we live in a boundless universe where the possibilities of our rendezvous are infinite.

During my absence, I implore you to embark on your own explorations and discoveries, venture into uncharted territory, and uncover some hidden gems (other escorts in Adultwork) that you can share with me on my return.

Let's use this hiatus as a time for reflection and rejuvenation, and I promise to return with more content that will inspire and invigorate you. Until then, take good care of yourselves, stay sensual, and keep in touch.

No Feedback = No Meeting : Unless you transfer a non-refundable 50% deposit via REVOLUT App prior to our meeting. This app is very secure and discreet so I will NEVER know your full name. I'm happy to send you my referral link (via SMS/WhatsApp/Telegram) if you don't have an account yet.

Thank you for respecting my preference and for valuing my time!

I hope that our schedule will match either, 24th, 25th & 26th Sept.!