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Tuesday, November 26th 2024

Stormy months

It seems I could be developing affinity for storms, in less than two months I have battled three extreme weather events on my travels. One very local the other 2 national, the national events coinciding with significant travel. I have to admit to determinedly driving through storm Ashley, and encountered the effects of the aftermath of Bert. Both journeys were a battle but in different ways, however I got to where I needed to be in reasonable time.

Storms haven't affected every trip away this autumn, I have visited Blackpool, Liverpool, as well as Manchester and the north east. Each trip does have it's unique standout points - firework championships, learning and improving skills and techniques, getting to know a different part of a few cities already visited several times, reconnecting with networks and people as well as making new connections.

The most recent long excursion was to London, I call this my annual London trip. I am however aware of a couple of events I would like to attend in London during Spring 2025, with this in mind I am now starting to investigate options and feasibility of such a trip.

For the next few months unless my presence is specifically required elsewhere, I am looking forward to more time in my usual location. This does not mean I will not be travelling perhaps for a day, evening or even overnight but currently in the lead up to Christmas I do not have any current planned trips away and a little calm after the storms is more than welcome.

Friday, May 10th 2024

Fully fashioned or RHT?

Some people have a preference for fully fashioned (FF) stockings but what are they and how do they differ from other types of stockings. FF describes the original very fine nylon stockings woven without elastane or lycra, this means the fabric does not stretch or cling to the leg so the stocking must be woven in a shape to match the shape of the foot and leg. True FF stockings are woven in one flat piece both sides then stitched together using one seam, with the top folded over to create the welt. A signature keyhole ready for suspender clip completes the stocking.

RHT stands for reinforced heel and toe, when it became possible to weave tubes of nylon a seam was no longer required. Instead manufacturers started to produce RHT so called because of the denser weave around points of wear being heel and toe of the foot.

Sizing for both types of these stocking are a little different but both are based on a combination of foot and leg length. Having long slender-for-my-height feet, means I do not fit perfectly into the FF sizing structure. A size 9.5 fits my foot but is too long for my leg they flop, a 9 very tight on my foot but perfect for my leg length. RHT I once again fall between two sizes small are a little tight in the foot a medium fit my foot but too long in the leg but small is the best fit of the two. Usually I buy size 9 FF, small RHT.

The lack of elastane (lycra) means even when perfectly sized worn with 6-strap suspender belts, FF and RHT 100% nylon stockings do wrinkle around knees, ankles and to some extent sag during wear. Those who have a fetish for FF or RHT stockings find this very attractive, whereas someone who prefers stockings to cling perfectly to the leg are likely to find this irritating. These stockings are very delicate when I put them on they feel like gossamer silk, absolutely delightful.

Because of their cost, delicacy, less resilient quality and very specialised appearance I only wear FF or RHT when specifically requested. The words fully fashioned, or RHT have to be explicitly stated, only then do I know you are an aficionado a stocking purist, and I will go into my collection to select a pair to treat both myself and you.

If you are a FF or RHT fan please do mention this when making contact, also feel free to bring a new pair for me to wear - a gift for us to both enjoy.

Wednesday, March 6th 2024

Marching forward

I have just noticed it's been a while since my last blog, this is not least because I have been very busy. December saw a trip to London a very enjoyable and successful visit, giving me a break from the northwest I have decided my annual London break is a must every year.

Next a lighter January schedule left plenty of time for content creation, the ideas keep flowing partly inspired by suggestions, partly my own imagination and desires.

February brought some more personal time before some very large commitments, this last week has been full of meeting some people I already had connections with, as well as a test trip to an area I may revisit in the future. Much coffee, cake, driving and several desserts later I have plenty to spring board into the remainder of the year. I also have the new hobby which is bubbling away awaiting the time when I can bask in some hard work. As ever variety will be the spice of life.

I also hope to not leave such a gap in my blog again, and I also hope to be in a position to report a few more adventures very soon.

Tuesday, October 24th 2023

Exciting times 1

Exciting times indeed the last 6 weeks have been very busy right across my life, I have called this blog 'Exciting times 1' because I need to break down everything that is happening. Part on is about the opportunity to engage in a new hobby.

When I say opportunity I would not otherwise enter this hobby, nor go out of my way to do so. Also if I miss this I will not get that chance again.

All very cryptic I hear, well yes even I am allowed a little privacy, but this is something that is coming out of perseverance, not giving up, having a gut feeling and being willing to try something slightly out of my depth. When I say 'out of my depth' I went into it eyes literally wide open, got a taste and decided I can do this. The people I have been able to share this with have been incredibly supportive when they saw the potential and how it fires me up. This little middle-aged woman is now stepping into a world in which women are often, but not always, accompanying rather than being at the front.

The next few weeks, perhaps a month will be crucial in finding out if I can go forward with this, then there will be a lull in which I can research, learn, develop further ready to engage at my best.

Friday, September 1st 2023

Goldfinger

A few of you may be aware of a dress I named 'goldfinger', this was an incredibly versatile dress perfect for the numerous occasions I wore it. I know it was popular it was also fantastic to wear, comfortable, flattering, elegant, stylish, individual I felt amazing wearing it but I literally wore it to death, having already hand repaired it at least once, today I realised a pull in the fabric almost a literal ladder means I can never wear it again.

On full inspection threads are hanging out of the back becoming entwined with the zip, the back fabric bobbling. So once I finish this blog the gold dress has to go in the bin. I know it will take some replacing, but hopefully this makes space for something new.

Thank you GF you lovely soft, sparkly dress I have enjoyed wearing you.

Ruth
Ruth

Tuesday, July 18th 2023

Absolute blast

The last 3 weeks have been absolutely fabulous, I have attended 3 concerts in descending order of size and reducing travelling distance but no less famous than each other.

One big stage my favourite pop duo, one classical in an important historic venue, one a rock legend. One was planned well in advance, the other two were spur of the moment relatively short notice. The pandemic had killed my motivation to attend concerts, or go into pubs and venues serving alcohol. If you do not know I am tee total for a very serious reason, not because I am boring quite the contrary. I actually drank and partied to extremes to a dangerous level, cultivating an addiction that took some time to quit. Thankfully I was eventually able to stop and stay stopped but then my lifestyle changed, I had zero reason to visit alcohol serving venues apart from specific events I was particularly interested in. But the pandemic brought a reason to avoid crowds, not because I am afraid, but because contracting covid would mean cancelling advance bookings plus any other fixtures in my life.

Anyway part way into June I decided I missed live music, made a resolution to get dressed up and attend music events that appealed to me. Having achieved just that, I am now taking a social life rest until mid-August when I have a new experience lined up for 1 entire day. Something I intended to do in 2020 but of course the big P got in the way of those plans.

Until then I am very happy revelling in the events I have enjoyed, making memories that cannot be taken away.

Thursday, April 6th 2023

Kink or Kinky

What does the word kink, or kinky conjure up in your mind? The Cambridge Dictionary defines Kink as Unusual, strange & possibly exciting, especially in ways involving unusual sexual acts.

When someone asks me to describe or enact something kinky, this can mean very different things to different people. Kinky to one can mean one thing, to another something much more extreme.

One person using the word kinky told me he had oral sex in mind, a blow job to be specific.

Another person using the word kinky may mean gentle bondage, use of cuffs, or a little slap & tickle. Now Slap & Tickle is another blog in the writing, but light spanking, tie and tease, tickling, use of satin or real silk is a gently delightful way to deviate slightly from the norm.

Oral sex has always been part of my sex life, unless I have a partner who does not wish to receive or give oral (yes some people, some men do not like one or the other or even both). Oral sex therefore does not spring to my mind when someone mentions kink, tie & tease I engage in sometimes once, sometimes thrice a week so that only just makes it for me although I will admit the consensual fastening of cuffs or a collar on another person does turn me on! Spanking may be light or a warm up for something more serious.

So all things considered what does kinky mean to you, and what are your kinks? I shall leave you to ponder and let me know if or when appropriate.

Kindest regards
Ruth

Sunday, March 19th 2023

Never quite perfect - there is always something!

When making a video an idea or concept comes to me, I will decide on the type of video - what I am going to show. Clothes, jewellery, perhaps a few lines. Get the lighting and camera set up just right, then I shoot. Sometimes I get part way in, feel it is not right then start again.

Recently I wanted to shoot an orgasm, everything set up off I went. I had however already had 2 that day. Anyone who knows me knows 1 orgasm for me is pretty good, takes quite a lot of effort, 2 is very good, 3 in one day exceptional. I was really pushing it, but decided to give it a go.

I got into position, started, carried on, carried on, my legs were aching with the tension - I had stiletto ankle boots on my feet one foot on a chair the other on a cabinet. As I rubbed and rubbed I was arouse and one my way, but the orgasm was not coming. My arms started to ache, legs shaking, I kept going, kept going then it happened such relief. Imagine my horror though when I saw my Canon hi-res camera had reached recording capacity just a couple of minutes before.

So very frustating, it was so intense for so long I actually strained my calf muscle. Do not panic however the calf has simply been a little stiff for the following two days, I can still participate in everything I do, including fitness training and it is a humourous reminder of shooting the video. Today I decided to have another go. This time I got it, I came. But annoyingly unbeknownst to me because it certainly did not show up on the flip screen I use when filming, a wide pink band left over mark from the sporty crop top I had on just before I shot the video is blatantly visible in fact it gets redder as I approach orgasm (along with my chin/neck/decolletage area!). I did get the orgasm and because it is genuine (I do not fake) I cannot just refilm immediately. So I will use the footage, but this is now added to the list of several things I check before filming.

I am now looking forward to the next opportunity to film.

Hope you are having a lovely weekend, having had 2 orgasms so far - I provided by a person, one achieved by myself for the video I cannot really complain.

Best regards
Ruth Strawberryblonde

Friday, January 20th 2023

The Crown

Hope you had a fabulous festive period in whatever way you wished to enjoy it. Because I have an early in the year birthday, I prefer to start Christmas late then extend until my celebrations are complete.

Although most of the decorations are now taken down, put away I do still have tinsel in my webcam room. This tinsel made in Wales is a lovely chunky blue & silver I would like to enjoy it a little longer so it can stay another day or two.

I often enjoy betwixmas week finding it a change as some commitments are reduced, this year time opening up meant I could get some webcam and phone chat hours in. I had some really great encounters this way, and New Year's Eve formed a pinacle. I got into the mood with a Happy New Year banner, and put on my slinky satin wrap dress. Had a very exciting day, then ready to see the new year in quietly at home. Yes having had my excitement on cam I was very happy to just chill out, take it easy.

I cannot quite remember but my New Year's eve more than likely involved an episode of The Crown. Brought up mostly anti-royal I do enjoy The Crown for many reasons, whether you agree with me or not I truly do not mind. The country has a Royal Family, they are part of our heritage, some use the word institutions and to many an important part of our culture.

For me the episodes provide issues for discussion factual or fictionary. I can also admire the fantastic wardrobes, jewellery, style whilst fact checking events using Wikipedia. Although I grew up in the late 20th century I still missed some events, or did not realise the full situation. I have also benefited from being able to read back to before my life started, some events I had heard about from those older in my life. Although not convinced by the set of actors in the most recently watched episodes, I shall continue to use this (and Call The Midwife) as 'date with the TV' treat.

Other treats are available, perhaps I will write about them in subsequent blogs?

Best wishes
Ruth x

Saturday, November 19th 2022

California dreaming

As the song goes "All the leaves are brown, and the sky is grey", certainly a good description for the Lake District at this time of year. Bright oranges however can be seen alongside the browns, vivid against the grey.

A round trip to a concert in Manchester took me via Chester, a city I have not visited since before the pandemic. My stay was incredibly relaxing even if I did find packing difficult, this time instead of starting packing a week prior I left packing to the day before. Inbetween answering phone calls, emails plus a little unpredicted admin the packing took an entire day. I did not enjoy this at all, so in future I am going to try starting 2 days prior so I can be relaxed in the final throes rather than exhausted and utterly exasperated.

Once on the road everything was fine and the trip an utter success including the concert in venue I had not previously had reason to visit. On my return home I bought several albums before realising it was about time I started to learn some new technology for my music collection. I now have a new gadget which I am slowly getting used to.

Takes me a while to get used to new things, but some things cannot go on forever. They can however go on for a long time.

Ruth x

Monday, August 8th 2022

Time flies

It's 5 months since my last blog and 4 months since I started accepting new clients again. The time has absolutely flown, it truly has been amazing. I just want to say thank you to clients old and new who continue to be fantastic. Someone asked me the other week 'How do I become a regular? ', my answer most regulars book 2-4 weeks in advance by text, phone call or within their booking, confirm on the day, turn up and have an great time. Simple as that. For those who can't book ahead it may be a bit more of a lottery, but people have gotten to see me by just contacting me at the right time, been specific and been with me within a couple of hours.

Over summer which is not quite over yet I've attended the postponed 2020 concert, this experience was absolutely amazing I really did cry with excitement before they came on stage. I now have tickets booked for 2023.

Healthwise at the end of June I managed to have Covid-19 for the first time ever, I consider myself lucky and that my precautions must have worked for me to avoid it for so long. It wasn't a pleasant time and I still have mostly zero sense of smell, but my energy levels are fabulous - actually better that before I had the virus. This is I think because it put the focus on R&R, sleep and my own downtime. I did actually cam and phone chat through the illness, I simply rested a lot but was not engaging in my usual training regime. In response to the Monkey Pox outbreak I have been given the small pox vaccine by NHS sexual health services, I started asking about this as soon as the outbreak came into public awareness. Initially I was told vaccine is only for men (who have sex with men), but asked again and was eventually told I would be on the list for vaccine when it arrived. I received small pox vaccine on one of the hottest days of the year, driving all the way to Carlisle clinic, very grateful to have done so. I don't intend coming into contact with monkey pox, but I would rather be safe than sorry.

At the end of July I had another photoshoot, this time trying out a pin-up style studio in Manchester. I had a very enjoyable day modelling dresses and lingerie I wanted to show off, as well as taking away tips from the make up artist. I have now changed the way I wear eyeliner. The resulting photos are amazing, some are saying the best they have seen. These join the selfies I post regularly, so hope you enjoy viewing both.

Friday, March 18th 2022

The Covid-19 blog

A few people have wondered if my decision to stop accepting new clients has been influenced by the pandemic, so I thought it was time for me to write a blog on my stance.

Firstly the new client situation was all about needing more time to myself, focussing on the many current and regular clients who like to make their regular booking. Setting up bookings with new clients does require more time and provision of detail, that time and energy I wished to focus more onto bookings with clients I already have. Quite a few have been in touch and of course everyone is an exception, please be patient guys April 1st is not too far away now - only a fortnight.

Back to Covid-19 after initially taking a break from Escort bookings, I started seeing people very cautiously often only 1 or 2 bookings per week on a 'one every two days maximum'. I kept away from crowded events, other people, and didn't even meet my family indoors for I think 18 months. Even then we did not hug and kept apart as much as we could. I discovered I was eligible for vaccine way ahead of my age group, took the first then the second dose as soon as I could. Two weeks after the second dose I started accepting 1 booking per day. I have since accepted a 3rd dose. To add to this I started home testing for Covid-19 as soon as kits were available, testing at least twice per week if not more frequently ever since and still do to this day.

Shortly before the pandemic I started improving my hand hygiene, and continue to practice washing hands whenever I have been out. When I arrive outcall I usually use the bathroom to freshen up, so my hands are washed as soon as possible after arrival. Incall I request visitors wash their hands, not least because fingers can end up in my mouth, as well as other intimate areas. Way before the pandemic I have tasted petrol, cheese and onion sandwiches, tobacco, a few other delights on fingers so I do consider this good practice. Following an incall I wash my own hands, use mouthwash, shower, change linen immediately, spray all handles, taps, bathroom or kitchen items touched with a solution of Zoflora. I also use the same spray on any equipment, toys, restraints, implements used. When returning from outcall I use handgel when I get back to my transport/before eating or drinking, on arrival home I wash hands, use mouthwash and shower at the first opportunity.

I still keep away from other people, I have once or twice attended mass events but I wear a mask and keep my distance wherever possible. I am not a frequent pub, restaurant or other social event attendee and that has stayed that way. One sacrifice has been the cinema, I did enjoy going to an old-fashioned style cinema but now for many reasons including convenience I simply now watch from the comfort of my own sofa. I do have tickets for an arena concert, my favourite band in a couple of months time, I am anticipating complete overwhelm as a result of my 'live-music-and-big-screen-abstinence'. A little like the time I ate meat after 6 months pescatarian diet.

Most clients I am finding have received vaccine and quite a few do carry out testing, some do not. Choice is really important, and like sexual health I do not know what other people do. All I can do is take responsibility for myself.

So far I have not knowingly contracted Covid-19, one day I probably will but I just keep on doing the things I do to minimise the chance of being ill, isolating totally, or transmitting the virus.

Much of the above is to some just common sense, if it helps that is great, if it helps me avoid the high number of colds I used to suffer with that is worth the effort.

I was never high volume and my lifestyle including different ways of working are not compatible with many bookings per day. I enjoy training, a personal life, another form a work, also within sex work webcam, phone chat, and of course Escort bookings. Result is a handful of Escort bookings per week is perfect, sometimes very occasionally the handful may involve two in one day when it does I need a gap of at least 3 hours to accommodate the changing, preparing and if outcall the travel. My preference is however just one booking per day, and even when I have accepted two, often one does not work out due to cancellation. there are also days when I do not have any physical bookings, simply because my focus is online work that day.

If you have been interested enough to read this far I hope this explains how I work, and my approach to the pandemic.

Kindest regards
Ruth Strawberryblonde

Saturday, March 12th 2022

To the far east and back

I used to call Newcastle, Tyneside the far east however at the end of February I had my first ever trip to Hull. The weekend was glorious full of adventure, a great journey across the Pennines. Scenery and a great change of scenery as we arrived at the port.

Of course I already had much planned for the few hours I had to myself in the afternoon, I really wanted to make use of the city facilities. I had a few shops to visit, and training opportunities. An event at the hotel which reminded me of Footballers Wives (not that I have watched it) created an interesting, sometimes challenging, sometimes amusing disturbance. The event I was attending was quite niche, eclectic, and earthy in contrast to the crowd at the hotel.

The following day following a relaxed, drawn out breakfast and coffee I once again availed myself of city opportunities including of course a trip to Boux Avenue. It's been a long time, many years since I bought anything from Boux. I did notice some of their ranges looked very similar to a few Agent Provocateur designs. I was however drawn to a range which did not appear to be a copy, in a colour and style I know will be enjoyed by at least two clients of mine. The lingerie back has so far sat untouched awaiting a couple of specific bookings, I am really looking forward to wearing it.

The drive home on the Sunday was all part of the weekend, glorious views once again. A few issues on the way home continued the adventure, elongating the journey time but also provided opportunities to my benefit.

I arrived home with a big smile on my face, it had been a great trip and a great adventure with many tales to tell.

Saturday, February 5th 2022

Never bored

I could write three blogs about this week, one would start always be prepared. It's been a rollercoaster of treats, tribulations and a little surprise.

I was so pleased to have my first full scale and polish since the beginning of the pandemic, the best the hygienist could do until now was only a manual pick and scrape. This has been awful but my teeth are important to me, not to mention my smile so I bore with it. The full electric tool experience ok was hard going, but I use a mix of box breathing and daydreaming to get me through it. The end result is definitely worth it.

Always 'on' never 'off' is another.

I have had a hectic pandemic launching myself into online, virtual services, not going on holidays, and making the most of in-person opportunities once I felt protected enough to do so. I also know I want to take everything I have learned online forward to create a balance, make it work for me. I find mixing in-person and virtual services both very exciting and rewarding, I want both to continue.

This week and in the next month or two I need to pay attention to putting things in place to make the most of this, and also have a little breather. First little project of which was order and install an 'up-to-spec' laptop. I have been using a much 'under-spec' laptop bought pre-pandemic when I did not understand the technical requirements for online work. I have learned about processors, RAM, SSD, graphics cards, sound, ports, cameras, asked for recommendations from other experienced performers.

Finally I pressed the order button for my chosen model this week, very much daunted I opened the box in awe. This truly was like Christmas, and as I installed everything the excitement grew. I often describe webcamming as piloting a plane, I steer the rig, go through a series of checks before I am ready to go live. Yesterday I took the new machine on it's maiden flight. I am very pleased everything is crisp but soft, works well, opens quickly and is so user friendly no more struggling.

I am now looking at a slightly better camera, and potentially a broadcast standard microphone.