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Monday, August 6th 2018

Time to warm up?

I pride myself on giving a good, honest and reilable service so whatever negative/criticism I receive, I take it on board and use it as a productive way to better myself and improve my level of service.

So the main criticism I have been given on more than one occasion is the fact I seem to take time to 'warm' up. When I greet someone who takes the time to see me, I usually wear sexy underwear or if they have requested a certain look that is what I am in. Due to being in a block of flats I have to be very discreet so I am always there to open and close the door as soon as you walk in. I always greet someone with a friendly hello and show them in. Then I offer a drink/shower as I am engaging in polite small talk.

Refreshments given and if shower is given, is done. Payment is sorted by this point. Then I politely suggest a massage to begin with. I slowly start to strip and we get comfortable. This usually only lasts at the most 5 minutes. I always think this is a nice sensual way to have a quick chat, so I can really get a feel of what the client is like and what he wants. Then this is when I ask is there anything he would like to do and then....hopefully the 'magic' begins.

Now what I have just described is a basic outline of what I prefer to do and start a meet BUT and its a huge massive BUT!!!!!!! I understand and respect the fact as the client is paying a good amount for my time, its only right he gets to decide what is done. Dont want a massage? that is fine. Dont like to chat much? again completely fine with me. All you have to do is ask or if you really feel too uncomfortable saying in person, please discuss when arranging. I do like to make clear, once I have told you what I do not do, anything else I am pretty open.

Anyone who has met me or seen me on the forums can hopefully see I am naturally a very easy going and friendly person. As an escort I actually do care about pleasing the client and making sure he leaves happy. For sure I am a natural submissive.

I mean I spent 4 years in a relationship where he was crazy selfish in the bedroom and you would not believe the lengths I went to, to try and keep him happy.

Anyway, back to subject in hand. The one thing that seems to be popping up is the fact I dont usually kiss when you first walk in the door. (appiles to a first time meet) My reason for this, you have just walked in and I have never seen you before in my life. (well as far as I know) Of course I am friendly and want you to feel comfortable but naturally I do not feel comfortable when kissing someone I have known 2 seconds and I am worried it will show when I go to kiss you and it just feels awkward! not a great way to start a meet I feel.

I am a very sexual and sensual person. Also I am pretty wild at heart and open minded. I really do love kissing and any escort who does not offer this basic service, to me should not be in the job. For sure for me to get 'warmed' up, does not take long at all and I like to think its good to build up to it and create natural sexual chemistry. (this is why I do not offer 15/30mins meets)

Again need to make extremely clear, this is my preference which in this game comes second to the client SO....if you want me to greet you with a kiss than all you have to do is ask or even just do it!! As long as you dont do any of the things I have said I dont do (for sure kissing isnt one of them) then its highly likely I wont say no.

In fact as a natural submissive I respond a lot more if you do take charge and either tell or simply do what you want. I am sadly not a mind reader, although I try my best to read body language and natural social ques. There has been a couple of times when I have known the client (through other reviews) to like a kiss on arrival which then I do, as I know this is something he wants so I am eager to please from the start. I feel much better and able to offer it better if I know beforehand.

So inclusion..... With me I like to think, what you see is what you really get. I have zero interest in 'conning' people, misleading people, being rude and being fake. I really want my service and what I do to be stress free, sexy and most of all fun! For whatever reason why you choose to see me, want to make it worth it and hopefully make it good enough for you to want to see me again.

Thank you for taking the time to read this and all there is left to say is happy punting!