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Tuesday, January 9th 2024

Auction House Sub/Bulls WANTED

I have now opened up my books for this years AUCTION HOUSE. It was a very popular experience last year with both sides of the spectrum, so this year I want to do MORE! Venues will be held across the country but will be starting off in the West Mids area in February also if I can find somewhere I can host one in Oxfordshire then I will be making arrangements for a few to be here too. Applications for February subs have started but the more subs the better the auction plus I do like to have an array of fetishes, kinks, limits and specialities. What I am looking for ;

Virgin subs – What I mean by this is subs who have never been used as a cum slut and the assgina is still a tight virgin hole that you are willing to allow the highest bidder to stretch around their waiting dick.
Throat GOAT subs – Prove how you’re the best and show your skills Infront of those watching hungry to experience the ‘Game of throats ‘.
Toilet subs – Those who are willing to be used for the night but only as a dump for all waste, cum and condoms included.
Clean up – The floors and equipment need cleaning, first with your tongues then you can properly clean up. Ideal for service subs and French sissy maids
Bulls – All types of bulls, every shape and penis size, to take control of the subs and put them through their paces on the night.
Spectators - can also attend if nervous to join in but I warn you most end up joining in with all the depravity that is happening.
There will be different ways to get involved with the night and if you’re a nervous newbie who needs a bit of privacy there will be rooms available. Live streaming will also be happening but it will mainly be on myself unless consent is granted by those who wish to appear (hoods can be provided). Not limited to male subs, males if you have a female sub you would like to put up for auction then please give me a message or females get in touch yourself.

Get in touch if you think you could help or if you wish to know more.

Friday, July 28th 2023

Hey, what’s Cucking? I caught you looking …

Lately I have been finding myself having more and more conversations around the roles of a cuck, the differences of cucks and most importantly the importance of cucks in play. Like many aspects of BDSM, fetish and kink, cuckolding has a certain stereotype that can put many off. To the untrained mind cuckold is simple; watch your hot partner get fucked and pleasured by a partner that is not yourself. You have no involvement other than that of watching and possibly, if it’s your thing and they consent, cleaning up after. A lot of time I have the discussions with guys that go along the line ‘I would love to watch you get fucked but I’m not one of those weak cucks’ or ‘I feel so dirty, I just want to watch her pleasured in ways I cannot do but my emotions would take over,’. Let’s be fair society tells us matrimony should be monogamous but yet we all yearn over the forbidden so really who is it benefitting? Again, most of the stigma of a cuck comes from the lack of awareness of the different levels and roles of a cuck. Nearly every male I talk to whether interested or not in cuckold thinks that the cuck has to be a weak submissive who loves to be humiliated and made to feel inferior in their relationship or life. Which for me is a very ignorant view, yes there are those slave cucks who get their sexual kicks from being used and made to feel as such but the strength of the mind they have to have to fully submit to their desires and fight through the processing of their emotions and humiliation whilst putting their own feelings and desires on the back burner in order to please and follow the rhythm of the play shows a strength beyond comprehension. Of course, I am biased these are the cuckolds I know and love more, especially when it comes to cum play but we aren’t here for that…

Did you know you could actually be a dominant cuckold? Yes, It is actually a thing! Think of all the fantasises you have that involve watching someone getting fucked, do you find yourself sat there playing out the scene and what you would want to happen, what toys they would use, would there be restraints? A dominant cuck is exactly as it sounds, you dictate the play and how they fuck, even down to position and release! My experience with dominant cucks are pretty intense but very, very fun. I like the fact I have to do nothing but I get 100% of the sexual pleasure. I had a dom cuck quite recently who physically put me in the restraints whilst running their hands over my body positioning my body into places, I didn’t know I could stretch too. I could see the lust, excitement and desire flashing in his eyes as he picked out the toys, he wanted used on me even going as far as to show my sexual partner how he wanted me penetrated with the them, the strokes and rhythm. If I wasn’t kissed how he liked he would show how tender or rough he wanted me kissed, how to stroke and spank my ass. I felt like the princess in his play though I was his mere fuck doll, the intensity of the play and the attention to all the small details that may have been missed had he not been there dictating, led to one of the biggest orgasms I have experienced in years and the fact he counted down for us all to release at his instruction made it damn near impossible not to make a mess. These guys want FULL control of everyone and everything that is involved in the experience, there is nothing weak about these cucks, you literally are their play thing for their entertainment and pleasure. Of course, this role can be flipped and it’s our dominant cuck queens calling the shots watching her partner pleasure and be pleasured too.
The starting point for most cuckold situations tends to be the modern cuck scenario. A good old-fashioned threesome. Remember they always used to say a threesome ruined relationship because only one person was getting something from it, well perhaps there is some truth in that but it’s definitely not the ruining part. A threesome is usually the start point to a cuckold experience especially the MMF, watching as your partner is satisfied and climaxing because of another male seems to unpick at the seams of what society indoctrinates into us from an early age. I find a threesome liberates the female of the couple, finding this new sense of sexuality and sexual being that may have been supressed for quite some time, she becomes more open to possible future situations, maybe even suggestive. I have found many women use this as a stepping stone to further their sexual desires, they will take charge of the situation and lead their partner into roles he’s dared spoken of yet. Sex clubs tend to be next on the agenda, the lady wanting and receiving more attention than she has ever desired as her partner becomes enthralled by the lust and desire other men are showing her. The more encounters they have I truly believe the more the cuck will surface, emotions will play a part here to as it’s not quite established the roles or processed the feelings. This is where boundaries are made and pushed, desires are aroused and surpassed. It is the perfect time for each partner to discuss expectation and fears being mindful of the fragility and newness of the situation you have found yourself in. The importance and role of the cuck here is to let the other lead but still communicate your wants, it’s so new you could try every single angle of it to find what you want but if you already know it then give the lead time to find what they want, get lost in the excitement of them, we all know once we get a taste of the nectar of this scene, we want to drink it forever.
Perhaps it may lead to a hot wife scenario, she’s not ready to have you fully in the room or you may not be able to process the emotions that come with it just yet, though you enjoy it your just not ready to experience it again. However, if you and your partner have been toying with the idea of a threesome, this is potentially a great place to start for confidence and evaluating emotions before the main event. Especially as this is where you can make some rules for instance, no kissing, no CIM or OWO, it may be no penetration. Whilst she’s out with bulls and such like it’s a great time for the cuck, you can fantasise about her out, knowing what she’s wearing, receiving texts and pictures of her whilst she’s out. If things go further that radio silence whilst she’s in the middle of it will test your mental strength, test your urges. Being turned on knowing that right at the very moment someone is fucking her hard, she may even ring you so you can hear it all, what a tease! As a good cuck it is your duty to clean her when she returns, lie her on the sofa and lick her as she tells you all the things he did to her, teasing you with how big he is. Making you smell her and taste her underwear as she relives the moment, your only allowed to release on her say so. Building the excitement for when she finally agrees to allow you in the room with her and whoever of her choosing. Cucks to hot wives know just how lucky they are to have a woman who is lusted after, who is liberated enough to get what she wants and deserves and it is the duty of the cuck to share her because it would be a shame for all her sexual being to go to waste when it’s even more fun to watch it spray around.

All of these roles can go hand in hand with humiliation but they don’t have to be specifically about humiliation. Of course, if you want to be a sissy bitch whose partner humiliates them whilst she’s being fucked by a big dick then that’s ok, there should be no shame around kink or fetish. Maybe your wife wants to humiliate you by you watching her being bred by a BBC who you would have no chance in comparing next to, society would also see you as weak and you would permanently be in an inferior role to her. As most kinks and fetishes, I find these scenarios are more the long-term goals, once we begin on the path of our fantasises, we always find ourselves looking to push them and make them more and more out of our depth. A world opens up to us that we were never aware of, we are never the same once we get a taste. If this is your fantasy or goal now and you have never cuckolded before then I strongly suggest you remember, it’s a marathon not a race. Starting out the blocks too soon could lead to you getting hurt and not fully committing to something that will eventually fulfil you. I would hate for you to miss out on a life that is clearly your calling.

I hope you enjoyed the read, as always please feel free to message me, my inbox is always open and free! Also keep a look out for my guide to to being a cuck that i will be uploading soon!

Bella Blue x x x

Tuesday, July 11th 2023

The art of humiliation

Hello you kinky lot and what a lovely week it has been. I have been working hard on getting my podcast moving and shaking.

I thought I would cover one of my favourite topics this week it’s something that I love the depth of, creating new twist and turns to up the ante of leaving you feeling like the humiliated, pathetic, weak, beta you are. When I start the initial conversations with subs surrounding the humiliation kink, they all start at the same point, they want to be berated and called names not really knowing if this will humiliate them or if that’s what they really need or want. On the face of it they want simple humiliation, something that corresponds with their emotional response to how they think humiliation should feel. Let’s be honest most of our fantasies, kinks or likes aren’t something we can talk about in the office or down the pub, they aren’t really spoken to another soul unless in sessions with a professional or someone who shares familiar likes as you and even then, it’s awkward to approach the topic. For me humiliation is one of those kinks that is far more reaching the on the surface the kink shows you, when you really start getting into the psychology behind humiliation is when you really start entering a maze of the mind of both the giver and the receiver.

For instance, I had one guy who came to see me and another Domme who was into public humiliation and feminization, it’s also good to note he was a wheelchair user who liked his disability to be used as part of his humiliation. The discussions we had beforehand centre around his comfortability with certain acts with his humiliation, he wasn’t big on the verbal side of humiliation so there would be no berating of his ableness but it would be shown in acts like lifting him from his chair and carrying him, the lifts would be very important in the session as would the feeling of helplessness. We would lift him in a fireman lift, cradle carry him, one of us would grab his arms and the other his feet and swing him about to the equipment. When he was finally feminized it was time for his public humiliation where we wheeled him into the local town and D locked him the bike stand whilst we went and drank coffee to watch him squirm as people approached him and asked if he needed releasing or any help. At the end of his session, he was more than happy and has wanted to push these scenarios at subsequent visits. That session would rarely work on anyone else and as a Domme it takes a lot to also participate in these sessions because they are not the societal norm.

There was a guy who came to see me the other week and he was appalled by his feelings of certain taboo subjects he was having. So his humiliating punishment was to dress up as Brittney Spears in her classic hit ‘hit me one more time’, he would be made to perform for us singing and dancing whilst we all laughed at him, squirting him with water pistol (I won’t say what was in it) then we put him in a chair and interrogated him on his feelings and kinks. He was called all sorts of names, spat at, slapped all the glorious stuff and by the end of the session he was a broken mess, much to my enjoyment and his dismay. Though I think he was more embarrassed and broken by his awful singing because I know I was! Then there’s the very specific but yet odd even for me. One guy being lactose intolerant came to me with the request I tie him to the chair, persuasively feed him slice after slice of cheese and pickle sandwiches whilst calling him a silly piggy and punching him, then he was sent on his way to work with a few bruises and a stomach full of cheese and pickle for his digestive system to reject. I’ll let you guess what happened after when he got to work, I doubt it was pretty for him and I am sure his humiliation kicked in more at work when his body rejected the cheese than when he was getting punched and called a piggy. Delightful.

Humiliation can also take us to places we have experienced before, several have stated it’s because of a trauma bond and they want to be taken back to a moment in time where they felt no control, less of a person and then they want to be taken further beyond to see just how much they can experience and take, they want to feel truly broken. These sessions are always my favourite to do with the subs who want to worship me because I get off on actually breaking them to the point they couldn’t think of anything worse than worshipping this sadistic Goddess, a good worship should never wilfully be done because then it’s just sexual. I want to see u visibly repulsed by the idea of pleasuring me now I have taken you to the depths of your mind, I want to see the physical fight in your eyes and only then I will have any sort of pleasure from any worshipping. The same applies to persuaded bisexual play, you shouldn’t want to suck the dick if its part of your humiliation kink you should be questioning every possible decision you made that led you up to the point this dick is now rammed down your throat. Of course, after when the dust has settled you can reflect and realise you did actually enjoy it all but that is what makes it addictive!

Being the over seer of humiliation isn’t as easy as people like to think. When you have to take someone to their limits it can sometimes take you to your own. It means you have to sit down and think how you can make it an organic and authentic experience and that sometimes means you have to go to a place you detest yourself. You have to be comfortable with the experience that you can process and pack it away knowing that you yourself you aren’t like that. Usually after a particularly gruelling humiliation session I find I need my own form of destressing and after care because I do put a lot of myself in sessions to again make it authentic. There are certain scenarios that are a hard limit for me such as race play, it’s just not something I could do authentically as I would cringe every time saying certain words plus some scenarios would never leave my head and I think I would constantly find myself questioning my thought process on it. It is just a subject I never like to play around with. I don’t mind cuckolding with BBC but I just could never use racial terminology to humiliate whilst I am doing it.

Whilst humiliation is not always someone’s go to kink and I encounter a lot of people who do not like it, I think if we are in in BDSM or even the spicier side of vanilla, I personally feel we all get turned on by certain levels of humiliation. Whether it’s that naughty feeling you get when you think some may find out about the life you are currently living behind closed doors and those flushes of shame and excitement sweep over you turning you on more making you want to explore further and further or be it the straight up being subjected to some of the deepest, darkest scenarios that take you back to a former place, humiliation is always somewhere in the depths lurking we just don’t know what the feeling truly is because we never really explore it properly. Maybe it’s because society tell us what we should and shouldn’t do, so it holds us back in truly living but with that comes the power and art of humiliation, so sometimes we have society to thank for the fucked-up things we like and just sometimes that isn’t so much of a bad thing.
As always, I love to hear your thoughts, all messages are free and always replied to.
Bella Blue x x x

Tuesday, June 20th 2023

The use of food in sessions

Hello you kinky lot,
Let’s talk the use of food in play sessions, shall we?
I have noticed lately there has been a sudden rise in requests for food play. Whether that be filling my holes with edibles like cream, custard, cakes and then playing with one of my toys so it gets super messy. Or it could be a request for using different types of fruits, vegs and food items as relief for myself (think carrots, cucumber, butternut squashes those special shaped vegs) the bigger the food item the bigger the stretch yummy! There’s been request for nonperishable items inserted in me and pushed out like a vending machine (cans, jars, tins, you get the drift) they are always fun to do I have to admit, and then there’s just normal sploshing. I do like to think I am very creative in the ways I can make it fun for both of us plus making it sexual and sensual. I do use a lot of food in my sessions with subs to, making a sub gag on a cucumber down their throat that’s covered in all the cream for my pussy is very good dick sucking training! Though I do have a soft spot for making my sissy bitches wrestle in a paddling pool full of beans for the girls and mines entertainment too!
Food is such a versatile tool in play there is so many scenarios that can be done with literally the same item of food from satisfaction, orgasm control, humiliation, deep throat training, edging, pleasure, you name it I guarantee I can make it happen with the food in mind! I had a guy who came to me for JOI before and I told him to bring a banana for the session, I won’t go in the finer details but he ended up using the skin as a wrap around to wank and for many years since its his go to as he loves the feeling of the peel around his shaft (I won’t say what the rest of the banana was used for unless you ask!). I had another sub who didn’t have any toys available to him for a play session so I sent him out with a shopping list, carrot, courgette, cucumber, aubergine, butternut squash and a small pumpkin. We used each item of food to take him through the stages of stretching his sub ass pussy for my pleasure and the sight of him with a butternut squash hanging out of him thanking me was such a turn on especially when he was able to sit on it and bounce on it with ease. The great thing about all this is after he used most of the food and cooked it up for his well-earned dinner and sandwiches for work the next day. He also texts me when he’s shopping now and he sees any veg or fruit that excites him asing if I give permission for him to buy and experience.

As food has now become so popular, I am now thinking about starting scheduled sessions on Adult work on Fridays titled “Five a day Friday “where I will have a selection of foods and food related items that I will demonstrate how I use on myself or others. You can even request certain items if you wish and if I can get my hands on them if I have time then I will happily show you the pleasure I get for all the food play related sessions I do. Keep an eye out for my scheduled sessions to join me in my quest to introduce you to the wonderful world of food and kink.

As always, my mailbox is open for any requests/suggestion’s and as always, it’s FREE to message me and I do reply everytime.

Hope to see you all soon to satisfy your hunger.

Bella xxx

Monday, June 19th 2023

Hot and sweaty summer fun

Hello, you kinky lot.

What a scorcher we have been having! I have been lucky enough to be in some really beautiful places whilst the sun is shining and I must confess I used to think it was just myself that tended to get hornier in this weather but it seems like it’s a common thing! There's nothing better than tasting all the hard work dripping over us as we work to climax or are in sessions. I particularly love working in the dungeon in this weather, it really gives it a grimy, forbidden feel when you walk in from all the sunshine and bird songs to darkness and whip sounds. It really gives it that authentic feeling of illicit, naughty, dark adventures. I love taking advantage when a sub walks in from the brightness of the outside to the darkness of the dungeon, blinded almost which leaves them open to me appearing from the depths, ordering them into submission.

It has been so fun finding new ways to cool down in sessions, my favourite at present is temperature play with ice cream and ice cubes. Though I did experience a vat of cold yoghurt poured over myself in a sploshing session last week and it was very enjoyable! I love love LOVE feeling ice cubes run over my body and placed in places inside my body, it really is the best in this weather!

I think writing what I do with ice cream might be too explicit for my blog so please feel free to email me so I can give u all the sordid details!

Anyway, you naughty lot. stay safe and remember to cream your body regularly, probably safer for it to be sun cream in this weather but hey who am I to judge!

Any questions or recommendations on content/blog/erotica remember my mailbox is always open and FREE!

Bella x

Tuesday, January 10th 2023

Happy New Year and Happy New Kink

Happy New Year every kinky soul out there. One of my resolutions this year was to focus on my erotica and a weekly blog to keep everyone updated on the crazy life of Bella. This blog is going to be about all the funny things I have encountered in this crazy lifestyle. I personally love everything about my lifestyle and even though I have been immersed in the BDSM life for a long time there's still things that pop up that I have never heard of or even known it was a thing! That's personally why I love direct camming so much because it gives me much more scope to interact with different people which in turn means i get to experience or hear new things.

Ironically I started off my New Year with a request for something I have never done before. I had to put on an England football shirt, shorts and socks whilst throwing a football up and down teasing the (Scottish) guy who was in a full kit, humiliating him about how rubbish his national team is by making quips like " the only cups a Scots supporter will lift is these ones under this ENGLAND shirt" and make references to how crap his team is compared to mine. After he felt totally humiliated and rubbish, to add insult to injury he then covered his crest with his own and let’s just say it served as a plate for him.

I have to confess this was a very first for me. I love humiliation but I have never done it as a football player before however it was very effective and once I got comfortable I was able to fully get behind it, after I was giggling at some of the innuendos I had come out with actually I’m still giggling at them now whilst remembering. For next week’s meet I might even buy a coach’s coat, whistle and stop watch, make him run drills and if he fails, he can clean my muddy football boots. I am really excited to extend this scenario, making it different each time fulfilling both our fantasises.

I love being presented with new kinks and fetishes that I have never dabbled with or heard of before. I become so excited at the thought of researching and reaching out to people to gain first-hand experience to authenticate and make play real. Once I get bitten with the bug of interest, I can’t stop my mind twisting and turning making each roleplay different and an unique experience for each of us.
Hopefully this is a sign of all the new and wonderful kinks I’m yet to discover in this New Year, I’ll keep you posted!

Love & shackles

Bella Blue

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