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Monday, February 5th 2024

Respect Is Key

Job interviews demand professionalism and respect. Refrain from using terms like "babe" or "bb" when addressing your female interviewer. Treat her with the utmost respect to increase your chances of landing that dream job.

Seeking my attention, just like you seek that dream job. But beware, a disastrous first impression will lead you straight to failure.

The repugnance I feel when boys address me as "hun," "sexy," or "baby" is immeasurable. Inferior beings, learn your place and show proper respect to your Superiors. It's "Mistress" or "Miss Deviant" when you have the privilege to speak to me.

Basic respect is non-negotiable. If you can't address me correctly, you're simply not worth my time. In my world, you cease to exist. No attention for the over-familiar.

Consider this your friendly warning, darlings. Step into the world of femdom and servitude with respect, and pleasure awaits. But dare to approach disrespectfully, and the door to your desires will slam shut.

Don't say I didn't warn you!

Tuesday, December 19th 2023

Focus on Mental Health this Christmas.

Christmas can be a challenging time for many, especially when mental illness feels more intense. Remember, you are never alone in this battle.

Remember, it's okay to ask for support. Depression doesn't make you any less deserving of love and care. You are important and valued. 🌻

When life feels like a storm, remember that rainbows only appear after the rain.

Sometimes, the bravest thing we can do is acknowledge that we can't do it all on our own. Asking for help is the first step towards healing and growth.

Sometimes, we all need a little reminder that we don't have to face everything alone. Remember, support is always available if you reach out. 🌟 Take a walk, connect with loved ones, practice self-kindness, and have faith that brighter days are ahead. 💪

Don't let the darkness define you. Break free from the chains of mental illness and unleash the true potential that lies within.

Christmas can magnify the challenges of mental illness, but it's important to remember that you are not alone. Samaritans are here to offer a helping hand and a compassionate ear. Reach out to your local branch and let them guide you towards the support you deserve.

Tuesday, December 12th 2023

Explore your fetishes fearlessly

Some of my clients feel scared or even ashamed of their fetish. They consider it to be "not normal" or even "depraved." They even feel guilty for having the sexual turn-ons they have.

My advice to them is simple.

Explore your favorite fetish fearlessly, for it is a part of who you are. Don't let society's judgment hinder your self-expression. Embrace your uniqueness and revel in the joy of being true to yourself.

Dare to be different and celebrate the diversity of desires. Remember, what may seem "odd" or "weird" to some, is simply an expression of passion and attraction for others.

Life is too short to deny yourself the pleasure of exploring your deepest passions. As long as it's legal and consensual, there's no harm in embracing your fetish. Don't let fear or judgment hold you back, because the only person you'll be hurting is yourself. Embrace your desires and live life to the fullest!

Your fetishes are a reflection of your individuality and should be celebrated, not condemned. Embrace your desires and explore them with confidence. Remember, you have the right to express yourself authentically.

Break free from societal norms and dive into the world of your desires! Unleashing your inhibitions not only expands your sexual horizons but also boosts your confidence and relieves stress.

Remember, there's nothing abnormal about wanting to live life authentically. Embrace your true self and find joy in every aspect of your journey.

Don't let society's judgment define your happiness. Your fetish is a beautiful expression of your sexuality, and it's completely valid. Embrace it with confidence and let your desires guide you towards pleasure.

Give in to guilt-free pleasure! Don't let anyone make you feel bad for enjoying the things that make your heart sing. I'm here to celebrate your happiness and support your indulgences. No guilt, just pure bliss!

Friday, November 17th 2023

No Nut November is a golden opportunity!

Life is too short to not indulge in your deepest desires. Break free from the chains of inhibition and embrace the exhilarating path of sexual growth. The world of kink is full of exciting possibilities, but fear and ignorance can hold you back.

It is a myth that denying yourself an orgasm is not arousing. In fact, it's one of the most arousing things you can do. To deny yourself that release prolongs the erotic journey where the anticipation ignites your desires.

Embracing the tantalizing build-up of pleasure becomes even more sensational when your ultimate release is just out of reach. Savoring the tease before the ultimate pleasure will beckon you toward an unforgettable experience. An experience you never even realized existed.

Dare yourself to push your boundaries and discover the untapped depths of your sensuality. You never know what pleasures await you until you surrender to them.
You might be surprised at what you find. And when you find it, you will see your sexual desires with far more clarity.

Join the No Nut November challenge and unlock your true potential! No Nut November is the ultimate test of self-control and a chance for personal growth. Experiencing the ultimate erotic thrill with the tease, denial, edging, and ruined orgasm will exceed your wildest fantasies!

This challenge is not just about abstaining, it's about testing your willpower and becoming the best version of yourself. By embracing the journey, and conquering your desires, you will witness the incredible transformation within yourself.

And becoming the best version of yourself will unlock the door to countless sexual possibilities and erotic experiences!

Friday, September 15th 2023

Happiness is accepting yourself for you.

The thing about being a BBW is that there's always some insecure idiot who gets pleasure from body-shaming bigger women. And why? Because they want to see you get angry and upset because they're picking fault with how you look.

That crap doesn't work on me. First, I'm a PROUD BBW. I love the skin I'm in. All of it. I love my muffin top, my big ass, my big breasts, my chunky thighs, and my wide back. I love that when I sit down, I have a spare tire. I love that I have bingo wings. I love me.

Second; if you think I'm going to get upset, then you'll be waiting a long time. I have a thick body and very thick skin. And I've heard it all before. More times than you've said it. And it doesn't even occur to me to be upset. Do you know why that is? Because you know what's really sexy? Body confidence.

I'm not seeking your approval. I'm not dressing a particular way to hide the fact that I'm big. And I don't cry into my pillow every night, because a faceless person on the internet decided to call me "fat."

Yes, I'm fat. And I'm happy to be fat. In fact, I'm happier being the size I am rather than trying to keep up with what society deems "the perfect body."

The truth is, there's no such thing as the perfect body. EVERYBODY has imperfections. Be it a big nose, small tits, marks, blemishes. You name it. Everybody has them. The difference is, that I don't hide these things. I embrace them.

And I love having confidence in my body. So do the boys who enjoy seeing it.

Bodies come in all shapes and sizes. And each imperfection tells a story. Be happy to be perfectly imperfect. And those who make derogatory remarks are simply projecting some kind of unhappiness they have in their lives.

As long as you're happy - that's all that matters.

Tuesday, August 22nd 2023

A Nasty Surprise For Stephanie

Poor little Chastity Sub Stephanie. She's been working hard for months to fill a large glass with her precum. And it looks like it's all going to waste!

Last week, she was given a special task by her “girlfriend” Sammy. She was to write out 2500 times “I am Sammy's bitch slut.” She was to complete this by midnight on Monday.
Unfortunately, she failed to do this. So now, she has to suffer the consequences of disappointing not just her girlfriend, but also her Mistress.

This week, she has to write out the same line 5000 times and complete it by midnight on Monday. She also has to do some of the line writing in public, where there's a high-risk others will see.

But that's not enough punishment as far as I'm concerned. So yesterday, Sammy and I decided that all her hard work to fill that glass should be sabotaged. Chastity Sub thought she was saving it for a special cocktail. And she was – until she failed in her task.

Now she has to take the glass to a public place, and slowly pour away all the contents, whilst sobbing and begging for forgiveness. All her hard work, pouring away while she hopes nobody will see what she's doing. All her hard work soaking into the ground, while she sobs away knowing that she's going to have to work even harder to fill that glass again.

To say she's gutted is an understatement.

And she only found this out this morning. I purposely made sure she would have to wait and find out – whilst warning her that she was in for some very cruel punishment. The little bitch spent yesterday evening trying to work out what it would be. And of course, I gave nothing away. I'm not going to spoil that nasty surprise!

Monday, August 21st 2023

When the blows come...

I had so much fun during an online ball-busting session today. What started off as a little fantasy for the poor victim soon became a reality!

It started off with him talking about a ball-busting line. A line of boys, all kneeling, asses high, legs spread, and foreheads on the ground, waiting for Mistress to walk along the line, smashing her foot into each pair of dangling, vulnerable. One by one, each one is kicked and they fall to the ground, in agonized pain as Mistress takes her seat on her throne and surveys her work.

But of course, I wanted to take it further. What I wanted to do was tie each boy down, keeping his hands clear away from his balls, so he can't nurse them after the booting. And then, tease him and draw out the experience. Going to different boys randomly, and delivering a light tap or a full-on booting to their balls.

Of course, the fear factor plays heavily in this fantasy. Because they can only see my feet if I'm in their line of sight. And when they peer through their spread-open legs, to see my heels dangerously close to them, they will be hoping for the gentle tap, but already steeling themselves for the full booting.

It works psychologically as well. As each boy collapses, his neighbor witnesses the cries of agony and knows what's coming. He just doesn't know when it's coming, but he knows his coming and he's filled with absolute dread!

And of course, the idea of sitting back and admiring my footwork, whilst not allowing them to nurse their painful, swollen balls is at once extremely attractive.

Unfortunately for my poor victim, all this fantasizing got my sadistic juices flowing, the result being him assuming the very position we talked about, and using a heavy leather strap to repeatedly thrash his delicate ball-bag. I think he'll be feeling that for...well...a few days!

Tuesday, December 13th 2022

Old traditions with new kinky changes.

In the late nineteenth century, it was a New Year's Eve tradition that women would kneel before their husbands, apologize and beg for forgiveness for everything they got wrong during the course of the year.

Now my first thought is "fuck that!"

But then I started thinking. What if we brought this tradition back...with a role reversal and a few additions?

Husbands kneel before their wives, apologizing for being utterly useless in bed, having no dick, and not treating her like the Supreme Queen she is before having their mouths stuffed with huge strap-on cock.

Yes, I do believe in tradition - with a few changes of course!

Monday, December 12th 2022

THOSE FATEFUL WORDS...

You have no idea how dangerous those words are. So very dangerous - for you. Boys who utter these words or similar, really are about to find themselves in over their heads.

Like the boy, I spoke to today. He'd been bugging me for a cam session all afternoon and I'd repeatedly asked him what he wanted to explore. And finally, game those fateful words - "You're the boss, miss. I'll do anything you want."

Big mistake. Huge!

You see, boys who use this approach don't realize that I will take them literally. And when they say they "have no limits", then it's game on.

My sadistic lesson of choice was some CBT. Not light CBT. PAINFUL CBT. I had him bashing his balls in with his shoe - which he was rubbish at. So much for "I'll do anything." And because he's clearly such a wimp, I felt it was necessary to toughen him up.

Four bulldog clips on his balls later, I had him use them to create a zipper with a shoelace. And soon, he was begging to jerk off. Of course, he could jerk off - using toothpaste as lube. Sounds innocent, but soon it starts to get hot and you realize it's not that innocent at all.

Then came the proof that he's not just a wimp, but a spineless, useless wimp. He was begging to remove the bulldog clips because they were hurting - which is exactly what they were supposed to. But he still wanted to keep on stroking.

A little dilemma for him. He could either remove the clips one by one and have no orgasm, or he could rip the clips off his balls all at once and have an orgasm.

Which did he choose?

He chose the former.

Pussy. Complete pussy.

Another "I'll do anything" disappointment.

Friday, December 9th 2022

A HISTORY LESSON FROM YORK

The largest ancient gothic cathedral of its kind in Northern Europe, York Minster was built in 1472, but the construction of it began some 250 years earlier in 1220.

But you may be surprised to hear that the history of the site stretches back almost 2000 years with the erection of a wooden church in 627AD for the baptism of Edwin, King of Northumberland.

The hallowed site has seen many owners over the years with the Romans, Normans & Danes all staking a claim on it throughout the centuries, but its history doesn't just stop there.

The impressive and beautiful stained glass windows tell various stories throughout history, including the Rose Window, situated in the south tower, celebrating the end of the War of the Roses between Lancaster and York. This beautiful piece of stained-glass art dates back 1270, still with its original panels.

Yet in July 1984, a lightning bolt from a summer storm struck the roof of this magnificent building, causing it to become engulfed in fire before the roof finally collapsed. It would not be repaired until 1988, when specially designed roof bosses were placed, each one designed by winners of a competition run by BBC television program Blue Peter.

This wonderful building truly is historic in so many ways and I'm thrilled to share these pictures with you as I tell you its story!

Thursday, December 8th 2022

A Visit To Yorkshire & a History Lesson.

Recently, I paid a visit to Yorkshire and of course, I couldn't pass on the opportunity to visit the beautiful city of York.

The thing I love most about York is how historic it is. Here we have The Shambles, which is probably one of the most historic streets in the city, with many of the houses still there dating from the late 14th and 15th centuries.

In fact, The Shambles gets a mention by William The Conquerer in the Doomsday Book of 1086.

The name "The Shambles" is derived from the word "shammel" an Anglo-Saxon word for shelves, which also tells you a bit about the street itself.

Back in the day, The Shambles was a street full of butcher shops and slaughterhouses, with cuts of meat hanged or laid outside these buildings, often on the window shelves, ready for sale. And this accounts for the fact that "Shambles" was once a term for a slaughterhouse or meat market.

Indeed, The Shambles is the oldest and most well-preserved Medieval street in the whole world and was actually the inspiration for Diagon Alley in the Harry Potter film series.

So there you have it - a bit of a history lesson for you today, boys!

Get ready for more snaps of God's Own Country, all of which are rich in interesting history!

Thursday, November 10th 2022

Grief is the price we pay for love.

You will have noticed that I've not been online much this week. And unfortunately, that is because, on Saturday afternoon, I learned the awful news that my beloved Mum had passed away suddenly.

Needless to say, I am devastated, especially with this being not only totally unexpected but also having lost my Dad only 11 months ago.

So, I'm taking time out. I'm hoping to ease myself back in slowly as I take each day as it comes. Eventually, there will be a funeral to arrange, legal issues to sort out, and the dreaded task of clearing out my Mum's house - the home I lived in for 17 years. Lots of memories and I don't doubt that it is going to be painful - probably even more painful than the funeral itself.

But if I've learned anything since Saturday is that life must go on. It's going to be hard, and I'm going through all sorts of emotions all at the same time. I'm mourning not just the loss of both of my parents but also the loss of a chapter of my life.

Our parents are our link to our childhood. And one thing I've discovered is that once they both pass on, it really does symbolize the end of the child inside you and your final step into full adulthood. It's a stark reminder of what our parents truly did for us and how no matter how old you are, you never stop being their kids.

I know I will slowly heal from this. It's going to be a learning curve as I make sense of my grief and live through it. My parents, though not in their earthly form, will always be with me, no matter what. And the best way I can honour them both is to live my life.

So with that said, as soon as I'm able, I will be back to what will be my "new" normal. I may not be firing on all cylinders for a while, but I will get there. It will just take time.

Thank you for reading. I know some of you have been in touch with messages of condolence and support, and I am grateful for every single one.

Sunday, October 16th 2022

Some boys never learn...

This morning, I opened up my profile and checked my messages. And there was a message from one of my chastity jailbirds.

A chastity jailbird is a boy who is serving a chastity sentence. That means his cock stays locked for a period of time decided by me or in his case, the public.

Now he's currently serving a very long sentence and was due to be released in March 2024.

But then he had to go and put his foot in it again, didn't he? He decided to ask if he could be allowed to cum at the end of Locktober. And as if to add insult to injury, he then sent another message, begging me to ignore his previous message. Yeah, like that's going to happen!

This is not how chastity sentences work. They really are like a jail sentence - and you're only allowed to cum when you've completed the sentence. Because, unlike a real jail sentence, there is no parole. You serve the full term and then you get your cum privileges back.

This is not the first time this boy has slipped up. Previously, he had a quick play during his daily chastity cleaning.

Another time, he "forgot" to lock up his cock before he went to a music festival.

And now he's tried to get an early release.

It hasn't done him any good. It's earned him yet another month in chastity. So he's now due for release in April 2024. I have no doubt that the date will be moved again because he just cannot learn his lesson.

Locked boys often have these moments of weakness. But my advice to them is to contain them. Because inevitably, your sentence will grow longer and longer until you might never be free again!

Saturday, October 8th 2022

She's hilariously sorry!

When it comes to subs, I operate a pecking order in order of status. That means some of my subs are higher up the order than others and they must treat the ones above them with respect.

So when word reached my ear that a lowly sub had been mocking and teasing a higher-up sub, needless to say, I was not pleased. In my world, I'm the only one to mock and tease my boys and sluts whenever I like. My subs only do so with my permission.

Such behavior from such a lowly sub required discipline, and since this particular sissy is always so easy to humiliate, I felt a very humiliating punishment was in order.

So, she was ordered to dress as a maid, and using a dildo, film a POV blowjob clip so she can pretend the dildo is the sub she disobediently embarrassed. And whilst sucking on that dildo, she had to use her sissy voice to repeatedly apologize, tell herself she must remember her place in her life, and beg for forgiveness.

This evening, I watched that clip. I have watched with tears of laughter as time and time again, she squeaked out her humble apology and even tried to apologize with a mouth full of dildo.

Honestly, it's comedy gold. So much I sense a reaction video in the works - featuring me watching her extremely humiliating clip and showing how I'm screaming with laughter.

Needless to say, I'm sure it will increase her humiliation even further and will definitely remind her of her place in the future! Oh, this is gonna be so much fun!