Do you crave to obey, serve and to be humiliated? Do you desire strict punishment? Do you have a specific fetish you wish to delve into? Or do you seek to experience something new and stimulating? Perhaps you simply long to have a Mistress like Me in your life to explore your darkest and wildest secrets and fantasies.
I welcome enquiries from potential clients who seek an exhilarating and unforgettable experience.
ALEXANDRA WILDFIRE - THE DOMINATRIX
My attitude to BDSM and Fetish
I enjoy exploring all the fetishes as well as the limits (and bodies) of those lucky enough to attract My time and attention. I truly relish in the D/s power exchange and treat it as a way of indulging My dominant nature. For Me the most important part of having a fulfilling D/s relation is a mental connection between Me and My slaves. I enjoy both guiding the curious novices and providing further exploration for experienced players.
Training
The training and development of My subs focuses on the core areas of control, discipline and obedience. My interests are wide, ranging from softer sensual play to a harsher treatment – and everything in between! Whether I am feeling kind, or strict and severe; through instruction and enforcement, reward and punishment, My slaves reach deep levels of servitude as they strive to meet My demanding standards. For those interested in gaining a greater appreciation for their role, I provide a full and structured training and development programmes.
Current Interests
I have a very inquisitive mind, and I am always keep Myself busy learning new and fascinating things.
My interests evolve constantly and I definitely like some of the edgier or more extreme things but, in general, My biggest loves include tease and denial, humiliation, corporal punishment (and with that rarest of subjects, a genuine experienced masochists, I can really let myself enjoy this) and of course restraint.
I seek only to meet discerning intelligent and capable individuals with a desire to surrender to a beautiful and sophisticated Mistress like Me. Everything I offer is performed to the highest standard and with great attention to detail, which means that no two meetings with Me will ever be the same.
ALEXANDRA WILDFIRE - THE PERSON
My background
I have always had penchant for the bizarre and unusual, a fascination which quickly led Me into the dark and delightful shadows of BDSM. In fact when I first started exploring my sexuality, I quickly realised just how intrinsic Femdom is to Me.
I come from Eastern Europe (land well-known for its beautiful and opinionated women) and I have lived in England for a good few years now. Luckily the move to the London enabled me to fully explore my Domme nature (and thank God what a kinky city London is!). I consider the move the best decision I have ever made as somehow with My flamboyance and outspoken manner I never fit well within the small town community that I come from.
Now, for those of you that are interested in a session (or for those who have been scarred in the past by visiting a beautiful East European “Mistress” only to find that she can’t speak English) it is not the case with Me. I am articulate and well-educated, proved by obtaining a Master’s degree, completed here in England. I do understand why it’s important – after all, the mind is the most deviant organ of them all, and if your Mistress can’t understand your interests or twist your mind with deviant words, then you should look for one that can!
I started as a Pro Domme a few years ago and, unlike many, as well as drawing on my own experiences, I sought professional instruction and, as a result, I have a much greater grounding in BDSM with much wider interests than many.
MY FAVOURITE AREAS OF PLAY
Below you can see some of My favourite interests and areas of play.
If there is a kink you are curious about, or would like to try, and it is not listed below, then please feel free to contact me anyway. The list below is not exhaustive, but represents some of the things that I like and also the more common areas I get asked about. All My sessions are designed in a way to reflect My client's fetishes which are usually as individual as they are.
Nothing you may ask will shock me – believe me I have heard just about everything, so, providing it is not in my short list of things that I do not engage in – then get in touch.
*Anal play - stretching and training using butt plugs, strap on and dildos
*ATM meets
*Ass-worship
*Ball-busting
*Body worship
*Bondage - restraints, cuffs, ropes, predicament play
*Boot/shoe/foot Worship - you could be licking, sucking, kissing My beautiful feet, boots or stilettos, or I will be, trampling and standing on your face with them.
*Butt plugs
*Caning
*CBT (Cock and Ball torture) - cock roping/tying, stretching, slapping, sensation play, pin wheel
*Chastity play and key-holding
*Corporal Punishment
*Cross dressing
*Cuckolding
*Cum Control - cum eating instructions
*Domestic servitude - maid training
*Double Domme sessions
*Electrical Play
*Face Sitting - breath control,
*Feminisation
*Financial domination - full financial control
*Flogging
*Spoiled orgasms
*Humiliation - verbal and/or physical
*Milking – prostate milking and massage
*Mummification
*Nipple torture - twisting, pinching, clamps, pegs, wax etc.
*Online training - web cam sessions
*Over the knee spanking
*Public humiliation
*Restraint
*Role plays - from interrogation to medical, just ask
*Sensory deprivation
*Shopping trips
*Sissification – sissy/slut training, make up sessions
*Small penis humiliation - penis measuring, shaming, comparing
*Smoking fetishes - cigars, ash play
*Spanking
*Spitting
*Strap-on training
*Temperature play – hot and cold, including CBT,
*Tie and tease
*Watersports
I will not participate or consider the following:
Scat, hard sports, brown showers, human toilet, toilet training. It goes without saying but no I do not offer sexual services in any capacity. I do not tolerate bad manners or poor hygiene.
BOOKING A SESSION
For session inquiries it is best if you contact Me by sending me a message. This is the easiest, fastest and the most convenient way to reach Me. Your message should include the following information: name (for the shy, first name will do), session date/time (if you already have some in mind), session length, BDSM interests and experiences as well as any limits, boundaries, or phobias. Please also mention any health issues you may have. It is very rare of health problems to a barrier to having a great (if wicked) time, but it does help for me to know in advance so that I can plan accordingly.
I am available strictly by appointment from midday until late, seven days a week. Please make sure you book a session in advance in order to avoid disappointment
My aim is to push and test your boundaries but before that can happen I need to learn about your limits, previous experience and kinks you want to engage into. That is why any session will start with a short conversation about your fetishes, limits, possible scenarios etc. Optionally, depending on your interests and experience, we can move straight onto the session, having discussed your likes and dislikes previously.
I conduct My sessions from My own Studio, conveniently located with a tube station nearby. If you arrive early there are plenty of cafes/pubs in the area where you may wait until the time of our appointment – please do not arrive early or late, punctuality is what pleases Me.
TRIBUTES
Not sure how to offer your tribute? The appropriate etiquette, if you are unsure or if it is your first time, is to provide your tribute at the start of the session or during the introductory talk in a plain envelope – counted in advance! This is to avoid any awkwardness of you having to reach your money from your wallet and count it in front of Me.
LOCATION AND EQUIPMENT
I session from a My own spacious playspace located in SW9 London, south of the river, zone two, very close to a major tube station with excellent transport links. I have a variety of equipment, including items such as:
Fetters suspension frame
Bondage bench
Leather gyno chair
St Andrew’s cross
Spanking bench
Interrogation chair
Vacbed
I also have plenty of toys to keep you busy. These include:
violet wand, e-stim, various canes, floggers, paddles, cuffs, spreader bars, light and heavy hoods, gags, dildos, butt plugs… and many more.
OUTCALLS
For lighter sessions and with clients who has visited me before I am occasionally prepared to conduct a lighter session in a hotel, as I have a vast array of BDSM equipment and toys that I can bring with Me.
What if I am a novice/have no experience in BDSM? Do you cater for novices?
Let's talk about your fantasies…
Let me guess. You're a man who keeps having strange, disturbing, persistent, yet very intensive fantasies of a powerful Mistress having her way with you. Perhaps she throws you over her knee and gives you a long, hard spanking. Perhaps she ties you naked and spread-eagled to a bed and proceeds to tease and torment you for hours. Perhaps she locks a collar around your neck, locks your penis in a chastity and orders you to kneel at her feet - and so you do, both fearing and loving every moment of it. Perhaps eventually she even takes you with her strap-on.
If any of the above applies to you, it would be helpful if you answered the questions below honestly:
• Have these fantasies become so persistent and intense that they constitute nearly every sexual fantasy you have?
• Have you looked through the internet searching for the ones that mention BDSM, restraint, humiliation and related practices, longing but not daring to act upon your desires?
• Do you have the increasingly strong feeling that if you don’t explore these fantasies soon then you will go insane with frustration?
• Have you thought of asking a Mistress to help you act upon your fantasies but always been too nervous to take that next step?
If many of these thoughts and feelings seem familiar, your search is over as you have just found the right Mistress who will help you explore the submissive side in you.
I get many inquiries from people with little or no experience in BDSM or fetish. In most cases people who are into BDSM have no idea as to why a they find a particular fetish appealing. They spend a great deal of their lives worrying that they are in some way 'strange' because they have developed a particular kinky interest that strikes an erotic chord deep within them.
For those of you who have not acted upon your fantasies – denying them is not a solution, your kinky desires are not going to disappear, they are an intrinsic part of you and should be embraced so that you can achieve fulfilment and happiness.
If you feel a need to act upon your fantasies but have no one to explore it with I advise you to reach out to a professional Dominatrix such as Myself to assist you in your journey. Under my careful, understanding guidance you can act upon your fantasies in a healthy and constructive manner, and over time learn, understand and open yourself to the wonderful, amazing and fulfilling world of BDSM.
For all you slaves/subs/sluts who can’t serve Me in real-time, I do regular online/webcam training.
Activities I enjoy during webcam sessions include (but are not limited to!):
- Ass worship
- Body worship
- Bondage
- CEI (cum eating instructions)
- CP (corporal punishment)
- Cross dressing
- Chastity play
- Feet, leg, shoe, boot worship
- Financial domination
- Humiliation
- JOI (jerk-off instructions)
- Latex, leather worship
- Nipple torture
- Novice training
- Objectification/degradation
- Sissy slut training
- Predicament games
- Puppy training
- SPH (small penis humiliation)
- Spitting
- Strap-on training