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| SUBSPACE: AN EXPLORATION OF SUBMISSION & CONTROL |
EXPLORING SUBSPACE
"I felt like I was melting from the inside out, my instinct to hold on proving futile against the relentless pressure. Pain, pleasure, vulnerability, humiliation, shame, and embarrassment all surrendered to his control. My body mirrored my mind, opening like a flower in the sun, yearning to submit, obey, and surrender to his every desire.
His energy consumed me like a predator closing in on its prey. I was hunted, drawn to the ground as my knees buckled in natural submission to his authority. In his presence, I longed to kneel, my wrists yearning to be bound behind my back. Holding his gaze became increasingly challenging, each glance stripping away layers of my defences. With each passing moment, my control slipped further, leaving only him in the room. Every fibre of my being begged to yield, to obey, and to submit to him indefinitely."
UNDERSTANDING SUBSPACE
Subspace ultimately covers a broad spectrum of submissive feelings. It can manifest in various forms: light and subtle, unexpected, emotional, profound, fleeting, long-lasting, tearful, sexually arousing, or non-sexual. Overall, it's an intensely addictive and cathartic experience. However, after spending time in this state with a partner, returning to reality can be a gradual process. This transition, known as sub-drop or Dom-drop, involves navigating the euphoric highs and lows as you readjust to your independent state.
TRIGGERS OF SUBSPACE
From experience, I've discovered various triggers, some catching me completely unaware, while others are more predictable.
Physical Triggers:
In consensual non-consent (CNC) relationships where safe words aren't utilised, I've been pushed beyond my limits. Real tears can transform into complete surrender when you reach a point of giving in, and at that moment, an incredible rush of pleasure emerges. This level of experience requires a significant amount of trust within an established relationship, where you rely on your dominant to understand how far they can push you.
Cerebral Triggers:
As someone who considers herself a bit of a cerebral slave girl, I'm biased. I love to think and tie my mind in knots, and I'm easily mentally triggered. Having someone almost psychoanalyse and deconstruct me to the point they know what I'm thinking before I do can be incredibly erotic and powerful too. In domestic discipline-type relationships, protocols or rituals can also bring about intense subspace. Or sometimes, it’s just a look or a touch, something so simple that no one could ever imagine the profound connection it creates between two people.
Emotional Triggers:
Being taken care of, not unsurprisingly, can make me feel incredibly submissive. Emotive triggers such as being cared for, encouraged, prioritised, or invested in can bring about huge waves of often unexpected subspace, which can flip sexually at any time.
Sexual Triggers:
Pure sexuality is one that may not require too much explanation. The raw nature of sexual power exchange, an exquisite journey in its own right, but ultimately remains a vehicle for creating trust.
PSYCHOLOGY OF SURRENDER
Even when we can't bear the predicament, we betray ourselves by surrendering to the will of another, sometimes pushing us to our very limits. We willingly subject ourselves to things we’d never normally contemplate, or even hate. A battle of wills ensues in our minds, as we realise that it’s the power and control another has over us that is arousing, while the act itself becomes irrelevant in the shadow of the power exchange it creates.
LESSONS LEARNED
If I were to share lessons I have learned along my journey into submission, they would be, in no particular order, the following:
• Never lie, including lying by omission. Lying erodes the foundation of any D/s connection. If you cannot trust your partner(s), it is impossible to create a power exchange dynamic.
• Be prepared to relinquish some control. Many are afraid to truly let go. This is where bratty subs can come into play, too afraid or unwilling to surrender, they remain in a constant state of rebellion disguised as humour. This often leads to a role reversal where submissives control their ‘dominant’ partners, with neither truly owning themselves.
• Integrate yourself. Accept and integrate who you are rather than what you think society wants you to be. I used to refer to myself as an alpha sub because I couldn't accept that I am a beta. There is nothing wrong with being naturally submissive, especially in a world that often demands alpha females. As a consequence of acceptance, I have never felt more at peace with myself. Ironically, I now feel stronger and more submissive.
• Submission is not a weakness; it’s an expression. Embrace your orientation.
• Communicate. Knowledge is power and vital in creating a power exchange and trust dynamic. Communication is also crucial for pushing boundaries.
• Be vulnerable, and that applies to both Dominant and submissive. A Dominant has to let go as much as the submissive, albeit in different ways, but essentially both parties have to let go.
• Put in the work. It takes effort to work on yourself as much as the connection.
• Respect and prioritise each other.
• A good Dom will earn, build, and maintain your submission. While a good sub will earn, build, and maintain your dominance.
• Be boundaried. Strong boundaries are healthy and attractive for both sub and Dom. Also, be careful not to give more than you receive, an easy mistake for a submissive. If your dynamic is asymmetric, it’s time to talk and reevaluate.
• Support eachother. All relationships are different, but one cannot sit back and let the other do all the work. Sometimes people need time out or support.
• Consider mental health. Pay attention to emotional states, anxiety, depression, and any long or short-term health issues.
• Manage expectations. What is your partner capable of and willing to give or offer? Is it a lifestyle choice, or just scratching an itch? What is actually available?
• Invest in the connection. Barking orders or disciplining someone with no substance behind it ultimately won’t create a meaningful exchange.
• Trust is sexy; play with it!
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| Friday, March 22nd 2024 |
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| BOUND BY DESIRE, TORN BY REALITY |
~ Challenges in Polyamory and Alternative Dynamics
THE QUEST FOR EMOTIONAL INTIMACY
Regardless of sexual orientation, background, or desires, isn't our pursuit centered on emotional intimacy? We search for someone who completes us, mirrors us, and challenges us. Someone whose presence consumes our thoughts day and night, the last thing on our minds at night and the first in the morning. We want to share every moment, every thought, to be ourselves, loved, liberated, and accepted. We’ve found 'the one'.
But how often do these connections come along? Once, twice, maybe four times within a lifetime?
Are we wired to fall in love with only one person at a time, or can we serve more than one master? This leads to a broader question: If someone is genuinely in love, why would they desire anyone else? Or, to phrase it differently, "Within the realm of open relationships, have we simply not found the right person yet?"
Polyamory vs monogamy, open vs closed. Can a profound emotional connection and intimacy truly coexist with many partners?
EXPLORING POLYAMORY, FANTASY VS REALITY
The idea of a utopian commune inhabited by sexually liberated kinksters presents an enticing slice of unconventional paradise. Whether indulging in a hedonistic 'Eyes wide shut' lifestyle of uninhibited sexual exploration, navigating a polyamorous dynamic, engaging in a clandestine love affair, arrangement, or simply embracing friends with benefits, we find ourselves on a less trodden path.
The Dom-sub culture can seamlessly align with the concept of polyamorous groups, such as a commanding dominant male at the core of The Citadel, with numerous slaves dutifully complying with his every whim and desire. But can this fantasy translate into reality?
Polyamory can present a certain mystique and cult-like seduction, an enchanting wonder when observed from the outside in. However, upon closer inspection, the layers reveal suffering. Rarely do all parties find simultaneous happiness and contentment. Categorizing or compartmentalizing people becomes as prevalent as it is challenging, as attachments shift, alliances form, and competition emerges. The desire to be chosen and the fear of abandonment become recurring themes, echoing former familial dynamics.
Submission and dominance in any asymmetrical relationship structure at best demonstrate potential. For a dominant, the urge to explore tantalising limits and boundaries grows stronger. As a submissive, resistance becomes futile, and you embark on a daunting journey of relinquishing control. You become vulnerable and exposed before an increasingly powerful presence, succumbing to something greater than yourselves. Yet, without foundational support, this dynamic will inevitably reach a point of no return. It might take months or even years, but a D/s relationship demands equality. If the balance of investment is skewed, failure becomes inevitable; the only uncertainty is when.
At worst, our attributes can become cherry-picked, and foundation-less tasks render punishments meaningless. Consistency erodes as variety takes precedence, reducing the relationship to a mere 'scene' or 'session', due to minimal investment and lack of desire beyond those moments. We might find we have become compartmentalised without our consent, all contributing parts of a whole we are unable to escape.
JEALOUSY AND FEAR, THE MONSTER IS THE DARK
While it appears that few are willing to embrace emotions like jealousy or acknowledge their needs, with some insisting on outright comparison (often echoed unsurprisingly by the primary, seemingly unaffected by jealousy), one might wonder if these individuals are genuinely in touch with their emotions. Is their liberation so profound that it becomes safer to feign indifference, deny, or opt for connections that shield them from vulnerability and so-called negative emotions? Trusting and being vulnerable with one person is an intense experience, where the stakes are higher than spreading oneself within a group or among others. Yet, societal conditioning often leads us to believe the opposite. The challenges arise as suppressed or shattered expectations dissipate, bleeding out gradually until one confronts the root of the issue.
This leads us to the subsequent challenge rooted in honesty. How can we be transparent with others and navigate the complexities of the group dynamic, which functions as an entity in its own right, when we struggle to be entirely truthful with ourselves?
We may perceive ourselves as the epitome of social and sexual revolution, convinced of our success where others have faltered, boasting transparency, communicativeness, liberation, non-judgment, and generosity. However, beneath this facade lies a melting pot of poor boundaries, unmet expectations, unrealistic goals, and breakdowns in communication, challenges that even the best among us contend with.
Perhaps the issue also lies in having deprioritised ourselves by initially accepting and maintaining the role we find ourselves in. Whether it's willingly embracing the position of an affair partner, lover, non-primary, or, in the context of poly relationships, being designated as the 2nd, 3rd, 4th etc. Regardless of whether we consciously embraced this role, or naively believed we could ascend through the ranks over time; given that people and circumstances evolve, the question still arises: Does it ever truly unfold as anticipated? Or, by default, have we set the precedent? Furthermore, particularly when stemming from a foundation of sacrifice driven by love, is our contribution even appreciated, or worse, taken for granted? In effect, have we signed our own death warrant?
Adding the layer of D/s complexity into the mix, submission in a non-primary relationship demands even more delicate care and understanding. The expected and freely given attitude of surrender in this scenario, despite the inherent vulnerability, may lead to a situation where you find yourself giving everything to a partner who reciprocates far less. Prompting contemplation on whether any real D/s relationship can function, let alone flourish, outside of a primary position?
MONOGAMY IN A NON-COMMITTAL ERA
Regardless of sexual orientation, with labels like ENM (ethical non-monogamy) now commonplace, our relational landscape has changed. Instead of a journey with largely understood expectations and long-term shared goals worthy of investment, dating and relating have become a minefield of widespread non-commitment coupled with an aversion to anything remotely monogamous. Being considered 'needy' is treated as if it's some kind of parasitic disease, in favour of a plethora of labels demonstrating one's liberal attitudes and superior emotional maturity. But do these labels genuinely align with our desires?
On the flip side, the preference or pursuit of monogamy can send potential suitors running for the hills. They are accustomed to their freedoms, whether exercised or not, and may feel cheated out of reaching that point themselves. And the question arises: Is seeking security prioritised over dating me?
When freedom, or its imposition, becomes expected, it loses its appeal and power. Similarly, in the realm of D/s dynamics, submission is a choice. Wouldn't you become resentful if your collar was never removed, as opposed to it being your choice to wear it? Or your dominance mandatory rather than gifted? Shouldn't we opt to be open or monogamous by our own volition, rather than having these aspects imposed on us?
Imposed monogamy can feel stifling, particularly in an era where openness and polyamory are flaunted as the new norm. But does monogamy really scream insecurity? Or does it actually stem from a place of strength, respect, and commitment?
Traditionally, commitment, marriage, and children were part of the natural progression of dating. One didn't need to explicitly state these expectations. However, in today's world, being forthright or having expectations isn't as simple. Casual dating apps have played a significant role, transforming the pursuit of genuine connections into a dying art form. Why invest in creating meaningful relationships when you can easily swipe right for a casual encounter or convey feelings through emojis instead of engaging in meaningful communication? The consequences are profound, contributing to an increasing and pervasive loneliness epidemic.
NAVIGATING OPEN RELATIONSHIPS - LESSONS LEARNED
Within the complexity of open relationship dynamics, the foundation lies in meeting expectations, where understanding each other's love languages becomes paramount. Time allocation transforms into valuable love currency, acknowledging time as the most precious gift one can offer. As these connections typically operate at a reduced or limited primary relationship capacity, individuals willingly accept these unspoken conditions as part of the arrangement. Unless in a primary role, one may struggle with the challenges of navigating holidays, birthdays, weekends, and the inevitable moments when personal support is needed, often finding oneself alone.
Another challenge arises from the inherent differences in experience and emotional maturity levels. Unlike a one-size-fits-all course that one could take to catch up and align, the disparity between expectations and realities in these conditions raises questions about whether the utopian ideal can ever be ethically and happily achieved.
Open relationships serve as teachers, albeit ones with limited sympathy, empathy, or humour. They impart lessons in humility, understanding, compassion, empowerment, honesty, and enhanced communication skills. From these connections, deep friendships, whether intimate or platonic, may evolve. They can teach you to release your grip on love, allowing it to return and choose you willingly.
However, they can also pull you through the proverbial hedge backwards, leaving you with a profound sense of loneliness and minimal support, as others may not comprehend, pass judgment, or offer sympathy. I've witnessed marriages dissolve and lives torn apart in the name of progressive openness and polyamory, where the reality of opening up one's relationship signifies the beginning of a slow and extracted end.
From my own experience, I've found the intensity and profound connection experienced in a committed, prioritised, loving primary relationship unparalleled. In such an environment, concepts like consensual non-consent and total power exchange can truly thrive, although there may be rare exceptions to this observation. However, with each additional connection we open ourselves to, the potential for that deep bond becomes diluted as the support structures naturally diminish.
CROSSING THE RUBICON - FREEDOM AND SECURITY IN RELATIONSHIPS
After indulging in the fruit of knowledge and revelling in these freedoms and choices, a crucial question emerges: Does it not come at a tremendous cost? And once we've crossed the Rubicon, is there a way back?
While openness to a certain extent is undoubtedly attractive, so is security.
Reflecting on my own journey through these dynamics, I neither fear nor exclusively choose openness or monogamy; I have experienced both.
When considering my ideal future, I imagine my dominant partner granting me freedom, yet I willingly choose to submit, never feeling the desire to leave. I believe power resides fundamentally in choice. While I recognise the potential to please many, I know I can only truly serve one. |
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| Monday, August 14th 2023 |
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| BDSM MYTH BUSTER |
Debunking 13 Common Misconceptions
1 Dominants Are Better Than Submissives: Dispelling Stereotypes
There's a common notion that dominants are superior to submissives, defined by success, wealth, and power. This stereotype overlooks the true essence of BDSM, which hinges on consensual roles rather than external factors like wealth or societal status. Power in BDSM stems from choice and consent, unrelated to dominance or submission.
2 Domination & Submission: A Paradoxical Equality
Contrary to the misconception that domination and submission inherently perpetuate inequality, these roles can often lead to a unique form of balanced power dynamic. While on the surface, the dominant appears to hold control, the foundation rests upon communication, negotiation, and mutual consent. Both the dominant and submissive actively participate in defining roles and setting boundaries.
In essence, Ds relationships embrace an unconventional type of equality, one that thrives on transparency, trust, and communication. By actively negotiating boundaries, desires, and expectations, both parties collaboratively shape their unique power exchange, demonstrating that true equality can manifest in surprising ways, even within roles that may seem imbalanced to the outside world.
3 Kink Is Not Linked To Self-Worth
Believing that individuals engaged in BDSM deserve pain due to low self-esteem is an oversimplification. People who delve into BDSM are often confident and courageous, seeking diverse experiences. Associating kink with self-punishment disregards the complex motivations behind these preferences.
4 BDSM Equals Abuse: Breaking Down Misunderstandings
The association of BDSM with abuse and pain is a misperception perpetuated by misconceptions and media portrayals. BDSM thrives on consensual experiences built upon communication, trust, and even love. It's far from promoting violence and pain; rather, it can be a tender and intimate exploration.
5 BDSM Is Abusive: Abusive Histories Are Not Universal
Attributing a history of abuse to subs (or doms) seeking BDSM roles oversimplifies the origins of these desires. A wide range of factors, including nature, nurture, and individual experiences, shapes our inclinations. It's important to recognise that interests in BDSM are diverse and multifaceted.
6 BDSM Is Not A Mental Illness
Labelling BDSM as a mental illness is a misguided belief. BDSM relationships emphasise communication, trust, and respect, fostering emotional growth and healthy dynamics. Contrary to the misconception, engaging in BDSM is not indicative of mental health issues.
7 Prevalence Of BDSM: More Common Than Assumed
Contrary to the idea that BDSM is rare, a significant portion of the population has either tried or engaged in BDSM activities. Its discreet nature might mask its prevalence, but many people are exploring consensual kinks behind closed doors.
8 Diverse Dynamics In D/s Relationships
The notion that a sub can only serve one, while a Master can have many is a myth based on fantasy and media. D/s dynamics vary widely based on individuals' preferences and needs. Polyamory is a choice within the BDSM world, highlighting the importance of communication and mutual understanding.
9 Dominance Is Ego-Driven
Viewing all dominants as egotistical and power-hungry overlooks the complexity of their role. Dominants can be nurturing caregivers, mentors, and role models, displaying a wide range of qualities, just like submissives.
10 Submissives Have No Agency or Control
The misconception that submissives lack control is inaccurate. Submissives actively choose their roles, establish boundaries, and exert control over their own lives. Open and effective communication, along with the use of safe words and mutual consent, play pivotal roles in ensuring that boundaries are consistently honoured. It's worth noting that in more advanced or intense relationships, the concept of 'consensual non-consent' might come into play, potentially granting the dominant partner heightened control.
11 BDSM Is All About Sex: Beyond the Physical
BDSM encompasses more than just physical acts; it involves preparation, communication, and anticipation. In committed relationships, it becomes integrated into daily life, fostering unique power dynamics and connections that extend beyond the bedroom.
12 BDSM vs. Vanilla: Breaking Social Norms
BDSM offers a refreshing approach to interpersonal connections, prioritising genuine understanding over convention and societal status. In BDSM circles, personal details take a back seat to getting to know the real person behind the roles, fostering deeper connections based on shared interests and desires.
13 Authentic Submission: Beyond Stereotypes
Genuine submission manifests in various ways. Some possess an innate submissive disposition, finding fulfilment in serving and prioritising others' needs. Conversely, even those with dominant tendencies might willingly surrender control to specific partners, seamlessly intertwining alpha traits with submission. The spectrum broadens further, as certain individuals may adopt submissive roles only within specific sessions, exploring the dynamic of switching. Unveiling the layers of genuine submission, akin to authentic dominance, is a pursuit that demands profound introspection and self-awareness, often eluding facile discovery.
Resisting the societal inclination to equate submission with weakness, individuals cultivate a profound acceptance of their submission. Amidst a contemporary backdrop that increasingly accentuates masculine ideals for women and challenges men to embrace vulnerability, the authentic submissive emerges as an embodiment of true self-assurance.
Parallel to this, the allure of age-gap relationships within the realm of dominance and submission becomes evident. This dynamic sparks debates surrounding the authenticity of power exchange versus youthful infatuation masquerading as submission, and the wisdom that maturity ostensibly imparts. Within the diverse landscape of BDSM, the quest for authentic submission stands as a testament to the profound beauty of vulnerability and trust.
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| Wednesday, August 2nd 2023 |
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| FEEDING THE BDSM BEAST |
The Addictive and Exciting World of BDSM
BDSM holds a magnetic allure, drawing individuals into its world of fascination. The seduction of this complex world lies in the way it allows us to explore our deepest desires and hidden fantasies. Unlike solitary pleasures like masturbation, domination and submission thrive on shared experiences, offering a chance to relinquish or wield control with a partner who caters to our every desire, creating a sense of irresistible power and surrender.
However, as enticing as the allure might be, venturing into the realm of wild fantasies carries a certain risk. The intimacy and vulnerability involved are hyper-personal, and unless we are ready to connect on a deeper level, we can become infatuated with the theatrics and props rather than the person and the emotional risk involved.
Behind the scenes, BDSM is a world of intelligence, adventure, and boundary-pushing—a hidden iceberg of complexity that remains concealed to outsiders. Seemingly vanilla acts may hold thundering power exchanges within, while the most explicit displays of domination might mask wandering thoughts about more mundane matters like football scores.
The pleasure derived from BDSM often revolves around exposing our vulnerabilities and confronting our deepest fears within a safe space. There is no judgment, ridicule, or rejection, and one might even seek out humiliation and degradation willingly. The acceptance experienced in these moments can be intoxicating and addictive, elevating the exchange of power to a level beyond mere physical gratification.
Surrendering control and submitting, or asserting control and dominating can offer profound freedom and relief from the pressures of everyday life. By giving up/ or wielding power, we find a unique psychological and emotional release, allowing us to experience pleasure in an extraordinary manner.
The intensity and excitement of power exchange heighten sensations and arousal, igniting powerful emotions and desires. Trust and communication form the foundation of BDSM relationships, creating deep connections and intimate bonds between partners. The emotional connection, combined with power dynamics, makes the pleasure experienced during BDSM encounters truly unforgettable.
Within the framework of BDSM, we have the opportunity to explore different roles and personas, diving into fantasies that may otherwise remain unfulfilled in our daily lives. This role exploration brings about a unique and fulfilling sense of pleasure and sensation that can be addicting.
Erotic power dynamics are a central element of Ds, where one partner revels in asserting control and dominance while the other finds pleasure in submitting and being controlled. These dynamics amplify erotic stimulation and sensations, crafting a distinctive sexual experience.
BDSM, particularly Dominant/submissive relationships, thrives on trust as a vehicle to intimacy. This exchange of power creates a space where both partners meet in the middle, embracing risk, fear, excitement, and vulnerability. It's an equal partnership founded on trust and choice, offering opportunities for self-discovery, emotional connection, and personal growth.
In conclusion, BDSM's allure lies in its ability to explore our deepest desires, surrender to intense emotions, and create profound connections with our partners. It is a world that thrives on trust, pushing boundaries, and embarking on a journey of self-discovery. The addictive nature of BDSM stems from its ability to offer an exciting and fulfilling experience that transcends the physical, making it a journey that once experienced, cannot be easily abandoned.
Belle x
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| Friday, August 9th 2019 |
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| My (brief) thoughts about BDSM |
BDSM can mean different things to different people... What excites, motivates and drives us can be so varied and diverse it can become less about the theatre and more about the person or people involved.
I've often found D/s (Domination & submission) or power exchange to be something where both parties can let go and surrender. A safe and cathartic space to explore the pleasures of a mutual mind... And a journey that can be one of the most rewarding I've ever experienced.
If you allow it, BDSM also pushes boundaries. Playing with things like fear, vulnerability, inhibition, arousal and shame whilst also nurturing those innermost desires we can often be so unwilling to reveal or express, especially with those who may just not understand.
This is why I feel BDSM, or more specifically 'D/s' is something that just gets better and better the more you learn about and play with someone. If a level of connection and chemistry can be reached the magic really begins and the rabbit hole truly opens up  |
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| What is your starsign? |
Pisces Feb 19 - Mar 20 |
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| What is your Primary Language? |
English |
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| How would you describe your non-binary gender? |
Cisgender |
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| What is your favourite colour? |
Turquoise |
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| What is your best feature? |
Eyes |
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| What three words best describe your personality? |
Charming sensitive intelligent |
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| What is your favourite food? |
Most carbs! |
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| What are your favourite flowers? |
All |
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| What is your favourite perfume? |
D&G The one |
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| What is your favourite gift? |
Any |
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| What is your ethnicity? |
Caucasian (White) |
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| What is the colour of your eyes? |
Blue |
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| What is the colour of your hair? |
Brown |
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| What length is your hair? |
Long |
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| How would you describe your body type? |
Slim |
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| How tall are you? |
5'7" |
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| How much do you weigh? |
9½st |
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| What is your leg measurement? |
33" |
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| What is your shoe size? |
6 |
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| What is your dress size? |
10 |
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| What size is your chest? |
34" |
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| What is your bra cup-size? |
C |
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| How would you describe the size of your breasts? |
Medium |
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| Are your breasts natural or enhanced? |
Natural |
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| How is your pubic hair fashioned? |
Shaved Completely |
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| Do you smoke? |
No |
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| Do you have any tattoos or piercings? |
Neither |
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| If you have tattoos or piercings, how discreet are they |
NA |
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| Do you have any birth-marks or scars? If so, size and location? |
No |
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| Will you do overnight bookings? |
Depends |
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| List of Towns/Areas you will visit |
London |
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| How long are you prepared to travel for? |
1½hrs |
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| Nearest rail station? |
East Putney |
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| What sort of men turn you on? |
Alpha, Beta, Masculine, feminine and everything in-between |
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| What sort of women turn you on? |
Powerful women |
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| What is the most outrageous thing that you’ve done sexually (be honest!) |
Chained naked and hogtied under the desk of a high court judge in his chambers |
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| What is your biggest turn on? |
Power exchange & BDSM |
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| The most sensitive part of my anatomy is? |
My brain |
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| What is your favourite sexual fantasy? |
Power & control. Submission & surrender. |
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| How often do you masturbate? |
Alot! |
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| What sexual activity do you enjoy the most? |
Pleasing a Dominant |
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